Stupid Question - Page 2

Peaches-n-Cream · #16 10-14-2004, 05:18 PM

Holy crap!

Monica, I agree completely with OTW. I think that you know that you shouldn't go and that he's not worth $154. I also think that if you do go, you will be terribly disappointed. My friend did a similar thing, but her ticket cost over $300. It was a disaster, but she was mostly mad about spending her hard earned money to see an idiot who treated her without an ounce of respect.

GeekyPenguin · #17 10-14-2004, 05:20 PM

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Originally posted by KSig RC
at least in this case, the boundaries are clearly defined by walnut with a nice finish

It wasn't that nice of a finish, it was silver and really quite ostentatious and tacky.

We're going to Hell.

KSig RC · #18 10-14-2004, 05:25 PM

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Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
It wasn't that nice of a finish, it was silver and really quite ostentatious and tacky.

We're going to Hell.

I'm finished with this - any NAMBLA jokes?

Rudey · #19 10-14-2004, 06:54 PM

Do what you want. You're paying for it. I think paying for you is the bad thing but hey whatever.

-Rudey

James · #20 10-14-2004, 07:35 PM

Naaah, I think paying for herself gives her a kind of power. She wants the sex she is going for it.

Him paying for her in this booty call makes her a prostitute. In which case she should charge more.

Don't go, its too much effort for an EX it will never ever work out with.

AlphaGamDiva · #21 10-14-2004, 11:25 PM

to make this story even BETTER.....lemme just say that a few years ago he was in AIT in tx, and i drove 14 hrs by myself to see his ass......and two months later he was married to....wait for it.....wait for it.......waaaaaait for it.........someone else. he is now divorced with a 2 yr old. i can pick 'em, huh?

go back to telling me not to go. thanks!

**as far as me paying for it, i'd be paying for the ticket, but he's paying for dinner, going out, blah blah.....i doubt that will equal what i'd pay, but still. he told me to bring no cash. i dunno....he left me a voice mail while i was at work saying that we'll have to play the whole thing "by ear"......i'm feeling "Texas, the remix" right now......**

ETA: AXiD670....i wouldn't even consider this if it was a "so-so" booty call.

no worries!

AOII_LB93 · #22 10-15-2004, 12:29 AM

Ok, so let me get this straight...he treated you like crap, married someone else two months after you were seeing each other, has a kid, is telling you "let's play it by ear" and you are actually contemplating spending money to see his lame-a$$? And him taking you to dinner? Please, you are worth SO much more than that.

NOOOOO! Don't do it. Damn, I'm not even your sister and I'm telling ya don't do it. If you want to spend $154 to fly some where, get a girlfriend to go with ya and head to Vegas instead. At least the memories will be more worth it in the long run, and who knows a few good bets and you might even come home with some $$.

AlphaGamDiva · #23 10-18-2004, 05:18 PM

ok, so after thinking this thing all over, keeping your thoughts and opinions in mind

(sandy, truer words were never spoken), this is my decision.

i will be going to louisville that friday night and staying with my old roomie/sorority sister....we will get up the next morning and drive to baltimore B/C: her AF boyfriend is in DC and she wants to see him, we have a sorority sister who lives there now with her hubby, and then, of course, my lil whatever he is will be there that night. this means that a) i don't have to fly alone, b) i don't have to drive alone, and c) that if things don't go how i want them to go/we get into it, i have another free place to crash. plus, this way, we can stay an extra day and hang out with her and not have to just leave the next morning. splitting gas and stuff, this shouldn't be a bad trip.

better?

James · #24 10-18-2004, 05:25 PM

No. ITs. Not. Better.

You wanted to be talked out of going on the merits of the boy, or his lack merit, not becaue of the travel arrangements.

He remains a tool that treated you like a Desperate Skank.

If you haul your cookies up there and see him, it just validates the way he treated you.

Seriously, you are rewarding his behavoir by going. It encourages him to continue in the same way as before.

Do you really want be a Desperate Skank?

AlphaGamDiva · #25 10-18-2004, 05:31 PM

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Originally posted by James
No. ITs. Not. Better.

You wanted to be talked out of going on the merits of the boy, or his lack merit, not becaue of the travel arrangements.

He remains a tool that treated you like a Desperate Skank.

If you haul your cookies up there and see him, it just validates the way he treated you.

Seriously, you are rewarding his behavoir by going. It encourages him to continue in the same way as before.

Do you really want be a Desperate Skank?

dammit, james.......why must you make sense NOW?

nothing is firmly decided....i mean, we know the plan, but it's not in concrete.

desperate skank....ouch. that right there may keep me from going........

James · #26 10-18-2004, 06:41 PM

Well . . you are a cool girl.

If you were just some unfortunate looking, passive agressive, low-self-esteem waste of a pair of X-chromosones like some girls I know, I would say go and get your groove on, because not only will you never get anyone better, but you really don't deserve better either.

But since you have a lot more going on than that, why cater to someone that undervalues you?

Especially when you can cater to people that will value you highly.

I mean damn, even a true player that just wants to hang with you and have fun will usually be a pleasure to be around before he moves on.

Never ever hang with people that bring out your weak traits, your insecurities, your flaws, only allow people that bring out the best thats inside you access to your life.

If that were a girl that treated me badly I would rather sodomize myself with a 2-foot dildo than admit to myself that I was so weak I was at her beck and call by going . . . regardless of how I had rationalized the trip to myself.

OH, in case I didn't mention it: I don't think you should go

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Originally posted by AlphaGamDiva
dammit, james.......why must you make sense NOW?
nothing is firmly decided....i mean, we know the plan, but it's not in concrete.

desperate skank....ouch. that right there may keep me from going........

#27 10-18-2004, 07:43 PM

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Originally posted by AlphaGamDiva

desperate skank....ouch. that right there may keep me from going........

Seriously Mon. I can't believe you're still considering going to see this guy that treated you like shit.

I hate to be a bitch but really, only desperate skanks drive all that way to get some ass. I'm just being truthful.

And I hope you don't go.

AGDee · #28 10-18-2004, 11:28 PM

If I had a copy of that book "He's Just Not That Into You", I would send it.

Don't go.

You're worth more than that!

Dee

KSig RC · #29 10-19-2004, 10:11 AM

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Originally posted by AlphaGamDiva

desperate skank....ouch. that right there may keep me from going........

"may"? jesus fucking christ dude

emleepc · #30 10-19-2004, 10:50 AM

Bottom Line here: We all think you are worth more than this stupid guy thinks, CLEARLY. Otherwise, do you think we'd make such a big deal of it?
So you shouldn't go----it seems like a hard decision because of the feelings you had for him in the past, and maybe you still have some of those feelings now, but let's be logical here. Why would you continue to give him more chances when he has already proven himself unworthy of you (i.e. the marriage you spoke of)?