Alpha Omicron's Rush

[efcheerBB]

But technically, isn't your first lil still still you lil? Or because she had to drop out for reasons, is she no longer your lil?

[Buttonz]

I thought that if someone drops ando cmes back, they get the sme big. ::Shrugs:: I am takign the other girl as my little however. I don't have the patince to fight over it any more. I will always that that big/lil bond with my ex-lil and although it will botherme I don't have much of a choice

[efcheerBB]

I applaud you for being the better person and not putting up a fight. I can't really say that I would do the same, but I am a little bull headed just like my zodiac sign implies. And you're right, you will always have a bond with your old lil no matter what. And once she is activated, she will be a sister which is an even better bond IMO.

[Buttonz]

That's what I am trying to remember. One girl droped , and there is the chance of two more dropping, one of them being my lil. Because of money. They are getitng me upset because they knew about the money stuff beforehand

[efcheerBB]

Originally posted by Buttonz
Because of money. They are getting me upset because they knew about the money stuff beforehand

That is one thing that gets on my nerves. Because when you go through recruitment, Formal or COB, you are informed of the costs that is takes to be in the sorority. If you aren't able to make dues, then I would think about not joining. I know that there are girls that think that they will have the money when the time comes around, but then something comes up that they have to pay for instead (ex. car problems), then I would think that they could possibly get a payment plan, but they don't think about things like that. They might be too afraid to talk to their NME who would help them through their situation because they are NM's and they don't want to do anything that would possibly upset the chapter...but enough of my venting...

I am sorry that your lil is one that might be depledging. I mean after everything you have had to go through lately concerning who you will be getting and all. It stinks when that happens. Especially since it has happened to you already . It is sad to lose your lil. Mine deactivated last semester after being in the house for only a year, thus pretty much ending my family tree in the house...

Okay, I am done now...Talk to you later

[Buttonz]

Okay, so three girls dropped. However, the big/lil list was redoen and I got the same girl I had last year! Big/Lil night is Sat ngiht, and I can't wait. Althouhg she knows it's probably me, lol!

I know, it gets on my nerves also, but there is nothing we can do about it.

[efcheerBB]

First, I'm sorry that three girls dropped from SDT.

Second, yea for you getting your lil back. That's exciting. So will that mean that you have two lil's now or is she your only one?

[Buttonz]

My only one