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Old 09-11-2004, 03:32 PM
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After looking at the stories, I disagree. My perception was that they were making the point that the Chi O's there still cared, even though she was no longer a member.
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Old 09-11-2004, 03:38 PM
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After looking at the stories, I disagree. My perception was that they were making the point that the Chi O's there still cared, even though she was no longer a member.
I agree ... it showed that even though see was no longer a chi o that her former sisters still cared and were affected by the tragedy ... again though they probably did not need to point out the fact that she used to be a chi o in the article ...
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Old 09-11-2004, 05:28 PM
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you have a point there

It is indeed well worth mentioning that Chi Omega still cared
for her, and this is to Chi O's credit.
I would like to feel this was the case and not the other thoughts
I posted. Yes, that'd be classy...let us hope it is true.
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Old 09-11-2004, 05:47 PM
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It is very sad that this young woman died whether the reason is alcohol poisoning or the car accident.
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Old 09-11-2004, 09:47 PM
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Of course, my first thoughts are with the young woman and her loved ones that are mourning... but I also find myself thinking about the young man who found her body.

Can you imagine giving your mother a tour of your house and stumbling upon a person who has died?? That's not something that he'll soon get over. My prayers for everyone touched by this tragedy.
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Old 09-17-2004, 05:48 PM
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Angry Frat tragedy

The saddest thing about this whole incident is that this girl has ruined this fraternity house. Because of this one idiot everyone is punished. I doubt anyone forced 40 drinks down her!
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Old 09-17-2004, 05:52 PM
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Re: Frat tragedy

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The saddest thing about this whole incident is that this girl has ruined this fraternity house. Because of this one idiot everyone is punished. I doubt anyone forced 40 drinks down her!

Someone needs to get on the Nasty Bus and go the fock home.
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Old 09-17-2004, 06:56 PM
Erik P Conard Erik P Conard is offline
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unfortunately...

new info., somewhat still hidden, reveals that the girl was indeed
out of control, and even uglier things.
Chi O, pure class, has been mum about the whole thing.
Sig Pi, stupid alcohol violators aside, paid dearly, lost charter.
Will we ever learn? At CU nearby a rich Chi Psi boy dies in an
alcohol related incident, 15 underage Tekes arrested amongst
others in a drinking party...even with a rented bus--this week.
Duh. Dumb. How many campuses will now abolish the system.
Princeton has pissed backwards, prefers snooty eating clubs yet.
We got a lot of educating yet to do.
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Old 09-17-2004, 07:49 PM
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Re: unfortunately...

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Chi O, pure class, has been mum about the whole thing.
Probably because she isn't a Chi Omega. Once your membership is terminated or you terminate it, you don't exist as far as the sorority is concerned. Chi O has no more reason to say anything about this then they would if a G Phi B, AEPhi or any other sorority woman was in this situation - she's not their sister.

I know this sounds harsh, but that's what termination is. Her former membership should never have even been mentioned. And the title of this thread should be changed.
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Old 09-17-2004, 08:51 PM
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agree

I agree with 33; but the Chi O's added fuel to the fire, too, in that
they wore blue ribbbons, mourned, got sympathy for a girl they
....allowed to resign....
you are right...she is no longer a Chi Omega...in fact, she is no
longer.
Booze and idiocity still exists. Today's youth left their IQ if they
had any...about booze...and we still support them, pay their
bills, pander them...no answers here. Tragic.
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Old 09-17-2004, 09:14 PM
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Re: agree

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I agree with 33; but the Chi O's added fuel to the fire, too, in that
they wore blue ribbbons, mourned, got sympathy for a girl they
....allowed to resign....
you are right...she is no longer a Chi Omega...in fact, she is no
longer.
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I really don't think that anyone would wear a blue ribbon to "get sympathy" or add fuel to any fire....I don't know about you, but if a girl resigned from my chapter I sincerely doubt that my sisters would have forgotten they knew her during a tragedy such as this. There are various reasons why people forfeit their membership, I'm not going to speculate in this situation and neither should anyone else. Why is this even an issue? This is clearly a very sad tragedy, let the organizations, family and friends of the deceased deal with it as they see fit...
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Old 09-17-2004, 11:29 PM
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Was requested to copy this from Risk Management...

From CBS Denver...

Student Died After 11-Hour Drinking Spree

Sep 17, 2004 1:38 pm US/Mountain
FORT COLLINS, Colo. (AP) A 19-year-old college student drank the equivalent of up to 40 beers in an 11-hour spree before she was found dead of alcohol poisoning in a fraternity house, officials said Friday.

Samantha Spady, 19, of Beatrice, Neb., had a blood-alcohol level of 0.436, well above the 0.400 level considered potentially lethal, deputy coroner Dean Beers said.

Investigators said Spady and some companions started drinking beer but switched to straight shots of vodka. He said Spady drank the equivalent of 30 to 40 12-ounce beers or one-ounce shots of liquor.

Police issued citations to 19 men and women this week for alcohol-related offenses in their investigation into Spady's death.
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Old 09-18-2004, 02:29 AM
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Re: Frat tragedy

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The saddest thing about this whole incident is that this girl has ruined this fraternity house. Because of this one idiot everyone is punished. I doubt anyone forced 40 drinks down her!
I think your post is totally uncalled for and very very very disrespectful to the young woman that died! Shame on you!
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Old 09-18-2004, 12:20 PM
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Re: unfortunately...

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Princeton has pissed backwards, prefers snooty eating clubs yet.We got a lot of educating yet to do.
Not all of the eating clubs are snooty, in fact, you can join many of them through a lottery system. Furthermore, that really has nothing whatsoever to do with this thread.


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As for the resigning thing - we've had a number of sisters who resigned their membership for benign reasons (couldn't afford dues, could not put in time commitment, family disapproval) who are still very good friends of the chapter. If they died, we would mourn them no less than we mourn a "regular" sister.
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Old 09-18-2004, 12:54 PM
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Dennis Harrison, chief of police in Fort Collins, speaks about the Samantha Spady case Friday. "I think there are a lot of people on the CSU campus who are thinking, 'That could have been me,' " he said.

http://rockymountainnews.com/drmn/st...191935,00.html

The link above is to a story which details Samatha Spady's last day.

All of the Greek organizations at Colorado State have now mandated that all Greek Housing will be dry effective October 11. Additionally, the university has, at least temporarily, banned beer sales at Hughes Stadium for all CSU home football games.

Below is an edited version of a story about Sigma Pi's closing. It is from a Denver paper via Fraternal News.

Edited from the Rocky Mountain News:

Rocky Mountain News
Denver, CO
September 10, 2004

CSU SHUTTERS SIGMA PI FRATERNITY HOUSE;
DECISION FOLLOWS WOMAN'S DEATH, REPEATED VIOLATIONS

By Kevin Vaughan, Rocky Mountain News, Staff writer Sarah Langbein contributed to this report.

FORT COLLINS -- Colorado State University officials, citing repeated violations of alcohol policies, disbanded the Fort Collins chapter of Sigma Pi fraternity on Thursday.

The move came just days after a young woman died in the fraternity house after ingesting a large amount of liquor, and just hours after the national Sigma Pi office revoked the chapter's charter for unspecified violations of its "risk-management" policies.

"We felt it was serious enough that we had to take action and enforce our policies," said Mark Briscoe, executive director of the national Sigma Pi office, who spent the past several days in Fort Collins investigating Samantha Spady's death.

Although the police investigation into Spady's death has not been completed, officials from the fraternity and CSU acknowledged they had enough evidence to take the action they did.

"We believe there's a piece of responsibility there," said Anne Hudgens, executive director of campus life at CSU.

The president of the chapter, Darren Pettapiece, could not be reached for comment Thursday.

The death of Spady, a sophomore from Beatrice, Neb., marked the fourth incident involving alcohol at the fraternity in the past 15 months.

Spady was found dead Sunday in a converted bedroom on the second floor of the fraternity house.

Thursday's action was the first disbanding of a fraternity or sorority at CSU since a series of new rules governing Greek life on campus went into effect in 2002. Those rules allow alcohol in some fraternities but prohibit parties in any of the houses.

Fraternities and sororities that want to have parties are required to hold them at off-campus locations where alcohol use can be monitored.

Since the new rules went into effect, 32 violations have been reported to CSU's Greek Judicial Board. Of those, 26 were alcohol-related, and two of them involved Sigma Pi.

In one, the fraternity was sanctioned for organizing a party and serving alcohol in March. In the other, members were ticketed for a noise violation after an August party.

In addition, the university learned this week of an incident in July 2003 in which several Sigma Pi members allegedly attacked a man who mistakenly drove onto their lawn after getting lost.

(Edit: The man suffered a broken leg)

Hudgens, while declining to talk specifically about the circumstances of Spady's death, said that alcohol was the common denominator in all of the incidents.

A deposition in the civil lawsuit (brought by the injured man) paints a picture of a fraternity where alcohol was a part of life. Under questioning by an attorney for the injured man, Sigma Pi chapter adviser Brian Carnduff said it was considered OK to drink in the house - even among members under 21.

"It's preferred it's 21, but it's not really frowned upon if you're under," he said, according to a copy of the deposition obtained by the Rocky Mountain News. "It's college."

Sigma Pi can apply for reinstatement as a "colony" - or probationary chapter - at CSU in five years.

Following the national Sigma Pi organization's decision to revoke the local chapter's charter, the Greek Judicial Board recommended Thursday the university withdraw recognition of the fraternity.

The university followed the recommendation and the fraternity's Fort Collins chapter was dissolved.

Hudgens said Thursday's move reflected the context of incidents in the past 18 months. After the March episode, Sigma Pi members had to take classes on alcohol awareness and write a risk- management plan.

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Other houses on the outs

A look at fraternities and sororities shut down by Colorado State University officials in recent years:

In 1998, officials disbanded the Alpha Chi Omega sorority and the Pi Kappa Alpha fraternity after members scrawled "I am gay" on a scarecrow on their homecoming float just days after Matthew Shepard, a gay University of Wyoming student, was tied to a fence like a scarecrow and beaten to death.

That same year, officials revoked the charter of the Beta Theta Pi fraternity after repeated alcohol violations.

In 2000, officials dissolved the Sigma Nu fraternity for hazing and repeated alcohol violations.

In 2001, officials shut down the Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity for repeated alcohol violations.
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