Do you dress to portray your professionalism?

[OhSoPrettyNikki]

Great topic!!! Keep in mind that there are only a few Blacks in my company and we all are conscience of our dress b/c of that:

The majority of the time I wear suits to work. I try to keep with the basic black, blue or grey suit. I specifically shop looking for these same colored suits that are made differently. So one can tell that I am not wearing the same suit.
Recently I have purchased spring colored suits. Nothing flashy but colors like powder blue, tan, pastel yellow and pink. These suits I made sure were tailored to the traditional business suit form because of the color.
I wear hose everyday. I especially love the new hose with the toes out so I can wear sandals. Yes, sandals. Generally the sandals I wear to work are very classy & expensive. They add a lil flair to my suits to reflect my youth and style. All of them are heels about 3 inches or higher. Not too trendy but chic. I mostly wear Enzo's, Nine West or small boutique sandals and shoes to work.
When I plan an outfit for work I am sure that nothing glitters, is tattered, is too short or long, I don't clack down the halls b/c I need a lift, minimal(sp?) jewelry, and small stud or hoop earrings.
Ironically I wear make-up to work (MAC) but not outside of work. I think it makes my look more polished. I also don't do anything too flashy to my hair, such as colors. Sometimes I have highlights but that's it.

On Fridays we have casual dress. On these days I try to wear a more comfortable skirt and blouse b/c I rarely wear slacks or jeans even socially. Maybe a linen skirt and with a nice top but still in the basic colors. Generally on fridays I look like I stepped out of a Banana Republic or GAP catalogue. Ughhh, how boring!!!!!!!!!

Also I keep my nails maincured and polished in light colors.... On fridays after work I pay to have the more trendy colors applied and then on Sunday its back to the neutral colors. Its costly but it keeps my image in line.


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[AlphaChiGirl]

Oh yeah...dress better than your boss, but not your boss' boss. My question is, what if you already dress better than your boss?

[Lovely]

What are "wifebeaters"?
OhSopretty - I would love to dress like you, but alas I don't have the pesos.

[OhSoPrettyNikki]

Originally posted by Lovely:
What are "wifebeaters"?
OhSopretty - I would love to dress like you, but alas I don't have the pesos.

Trust me it kills my pockets but I have an Aunt that doesn't beleive in paying full price for anything. I only shop for work gear with her. Plus she ends up chargin gmost of my clothes too. Thank you Auntie!!! (I'm sooo spoiled)However we don't shop for shoes together. Homegirl will throw on some payless shoes in a NY minute. Can you say tacky???? But I still luv her!!!
Anyway you'd be surprised at what you might find in the clearance rack. It might not be for this season but the season is sure to come.
Honestly I order alot from catalogues! I use their credit cards and pay the bills over time. Plus by wearing such classic and traditional items, they never go out of style and that's a good thing.
My wardrobe is the main reason I can't furnish my apartment the way I'd like. I keep buying a little at a time. I'll get there one day.

Oh and wife beaters are little sleevless white undershirts that men wear (Ja-rule). I think that term comes from the image of the traditionally abusive husband always being arrested wearing one. I think the term helps to glorify spousal abuse. go figure!
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"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful"

When da EAST is in da house....Oh my GOD!!!! DANGER!

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[tickledpink]

Originally posted by Marie:
My mother recently told me, "Do not dress for the job that you have. Dress for the job that you hope to obtain."

Exactly!!

I usually dress in suits everyday, however, I am trying to find more comfortable business casual attire, especially since our upper upper management do not wear suits that often. So far, I've only been comfortable woth my suits ~ that way, I don't have to second guess my attire.

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[prospectiverushee]

Originally posted by Lovely:
I would like your opinion on this topic.
I try to dress professionally at work suit, stockings, heels or flats everyday because I feel it portrays a professinal image.
However, sometimes I just want to dress casual, it is soo hot here and suits are hot.
Alot of my co-workers dress down (a little too down).
Do we consciously or sub-consciously view people according to the way they dress at work or other places?

I would like to dress professially,but I just got a job working in a preschool. So for me to wear a suit and heels would be totally out of place. I haven't gotten the feel yet as what the dress code is. I think as long as it's comfortable and let's me move then it's fine

[Steeltrap]

Yes, I have to. Most of my career, I've been the only black person in the entire office. It's imperative to me to project professionalism and polish, and clothing is part of that.
Also, my line of work brings me in contact with other professionals, e.g. doctors, hospital administrators and health insurance executives. Most of those folks are professional, and it just would not do for me to show up looking slack.

[ClassyLady]

Okay, why is the new trend at my office is totally disgusting? All of the guys now wear their shirts unbuttoned one button too far. You can see their chest hairs and it's repulsive.

First, it was just one or two guys, and now it's like the whole office. I think it's developed into some type of macho contest to see who is the manliest and has the most chest hair? Has chest hair become the measure of how much of a man one is?

[kell1gs]

Ha ha and much respect to all you suit and tie-ers and people who actually spend time getting dressed in the morning... I work in a clean room and i have to wear a big baggy white bunny suit im coverd from head to toe i wear pajamas to work every single day and were not allowed to wear makeup and we wear hoods and hairnets so the hair doesnt get done till the weekend...:P

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[nikki25]

Like the Sprite commercial states: Image is everything. Your appearance moreso than your words dictate the way a person will perceive you. I would encourage every working person to consider you environment and dress accordingly. The workplace is becoming somewhat lax in how persons dress. As corporate casual becomes the norm of the day, it is critical that professional Black women understand how to dress professionally casual. And, if your work environment is still traditionally corporate in attire, then match what you see in your office. Know and study your environment and work within the "lines".

I know that I don't like to judge people, but inadvertedly, it happens. Persons whom don't know the standard dress, stick out like that sore thumb. But, upon meeting the inappropriately dressed person, it may be their personality above all that will win me over. But, guess what? Even if we became chummy later on, what was my first impression? So, image is everything.

But beyond your image, what are you presenting? Because you can dress in the finest Jones New York suit with Ferragamo shoes, etc. and your language or personality may just be disgusting. I'm going to push the envelope and say that its not just about your outward image, but your projection of your inner person is also important. The image you project in your dress and person speaks volumes. I call this completely packaged individual "polished".

Some people aren't polished, and that's okay too. I'm still going to treat you as if your golden because you are a child of God. And that's what is truly important. I've come to learn that its not what you wear, but who you are in your wearing.

[BLUTANG]

just wanted to follow up on what everyone was saying. An interesting article from MSN Careers

The Business Casual Dress Code
by Mary Lou Andre


The American workplace is much different than it was five years ago: Everything from corporate structure and hiring practices to work schedules and compensation has been affected. But these important areas are not the only marked differences in today’s changing workplace.

The appearance of the American worker has changed as well. Not long ago, everyone from the most seasoned professionals to entry-level employees had a common understanding of appropriate business attire. Thanks to the creation of the "khaki culture" and increasing popularity of business casual dress, it’s no longer that simple.

So how do you dress down for work without looking like you’re headed to the beach? Here are a few easy rules to live -- and dress -- by:

1. Consider Your Work Environment

If you’re meeting with clients or having business lunches, err on the conservative side. It’s a sign of professional respect, and you can save the khakis for a time when you’ll be in the office all day.

2. Strive for Consistency

If you wear tailored and conservative outfits Monday through Thursday, Friday isn’t the day to show up like you just rolled out of bed. No matter what industry you’re in, consistency goes a long way in establishing trust and credibility with all your internal and external contacts.

3. Ask First, Dress Later

Show respect for both yourself and management by avoiding things like jeans, sneakers, hats and T-shirts. Some companies do take a more lenient approach to casual dressing, so be sure to check with your HR department or manager before showing up dressed for a barbecue.

4. Look Inside Your Closet

Finally, you shouldn't have to run out and buy an entire new wardrobe just for business casual days. Chances are you already own many of the items you need.

So now that you’ve figured out the rules and banished your suits to the back of the closet, here are a few ideas to bring you into the New Economy corporate culture.

For Women:

If your company's idea of casual isn't quite jeans and sweaters, pantsuits are the answer. Not only are they trendy, but they can be dressed up or down. Choose a dark neutral shade like black, navy, brown or gray and opt for pants with a bootleg cut. Pair them with a light sweater, and you'll be ready to go from your desk to a client meeting without a second thought.

The most current dress style to own for work is a classic sheath, which is fitted to flatter the body's natural curves without being too tight or revealing. Pair it up with a cardigan or a blazer in the same fabric and color.

Stock up on different tops to give your wardrobe a bit of versatility. Crisp, cotton shirts in white and hues like chambray and chartreuse instantly add a casual element to your dress pants or khakis. Cardigan twin sets are also an easy way to present a softer look while still looking professional.

Jewelry, scarves and other accessories will add a polished touch to any outfit. Remember: Less is more.
For Men:

A sport coat instantly creates a pulled together look, especially in a business casual environment. It's also an ideal choice for client meetings or presentations. Pair up a black, navy blue or dark gray blazer with khakis or dark wool pants.

In addition to traditional dress slacks, khakis, Dockers, corduroys, wool flannel and linen slacks are also appropriate for the office, either with or without a blazer. Just because it's casual day, it doesn't mean you can turn up in wrinkled pants. Be sure to iron them beforehand.

Casual button-down oxford shirts are a great alternative to dress shirts, with or without a tie. Skip the loud prints like plaid, and opt for basic white, chambray or pinstripe.

Shoes are an afterthought for many men, but unkempt footwear can ruin an otherwise polished look. Oxfords and loafers in brown or black are a good match for khakis or corduroys, but save the sneakers and hiking boots for the weekend.

[FeeFee]

At my job a "business casual" code of dress is implemented. However, the attorneys are required to keep a suit in their office just in case they might have to go to court. There are some, however that tend to dress as if they are going to the nightclub.

[Steeltrap]

This is a very old thread, but this story relates well.

Summer Stylin' on the Job
By Stacy Gilliam, BET.com Staff Writer

Updated April 29, 2003 -- When temperatures rise, out come the toes and arms, and even some bellies and cleavage, ready to be kissed by the summer sun. Such exposure is fine for picnics, hot summer dates and favorite nightspots, but when it comes to the office some things are best left covered up.

Picking appropriate summer threads for the office can be trying,
particularly for women. You want to be stylish with sleeveless little wrap dresses, tank tops and high-heeled sandals. But business and career experts say you should keep in mind the culture of your work environment and the expectations of those you work for and with. You don't want to offend the "higher-ups" or your peers. More importantly, you want to keep your serious
professional image intact, no matter how hot it is.

Harriet Cole, author of "How to Be: Contemporary Etiquette for African Americans," suggests taking your dress cues from your boss and other higher-ups at your place of work. "Don't let the weather make you lose your mind," she says. " Be conscious about what you're doing." While today's fashion trends might dictate that wearing less is best, here's how not to cross that fine line between displaying hot style and a look that is "too
hot to trot":

Follow suit. Ask for a copy of your company's dress code policy. If there isn't one, ask someone your trust and whose taste and opinion you respect about appropriate wear.

Look like you mean business. You want people to be impressed with your appearance, not put off or turned on by your attire.

Save provocative clothing for evenings and weekends. If it's see-through sheer, clings in all the right places, or shows off a decorative belly button ring, it's not for working in.

Keep cleavage out of the workplace. If you have to ask someone if you're displaying too much, you probably are. Low-cut tops and snug little shirts belong in the closet during working hours.

Bare your toes. More companies are relaxing their footwear rules. If you choose to wear open-toe shoes on the job, make sure your feet are clean with trim nails and aren't ashy. Nail polish shouldn't be chipped. Try a professional look with your sandal not too strappy, heels not too high and definitely no flip flops.

Layer, layer, layer. It's okay to sport a tasteful, sleeveless dress that shows off all the weight training you've been doing. But bring along a matching cardigan or scarf. Either will keep you comfortable inside an air-conditioned office. When you head outside to lunch, peel off your layers to stay cool.

Check yourself on casual days. "Dress-down Fridays" are days employers allow
you to loosen up, not let it ALL hang out. Here's what human resources
expert, Tonya Brinkley, had to say about appropriate casual dress rules.

Shorts: "Definitely not."
Capris: "Dressier types, like a linen pair with wider legs, are suitable."
Tattoos: "When possible, cover them up in the office."
Bandanas: "Never appropriate."
Short skirts and dresses: "Do the catholic school test," Brinkley says. "Stretch your arms out downward, and your skirt length should be no shorter than the tip of your middle finger."







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[Choo-ChooAKA]

Originally posted by nikki25
But beyond your image, what are you presenting? Because you can dress in the finest Jones New York suit with Ferragamo shoes, etc. and your language or personality may just be disgusting. I'm going to push the envelope and say that its not just about your outward image, but your projection of your inner person is also important. The image you project in your dress and person speaks volumes. I call this completely packaged individual "polished".

Some people aren't polished, and that's okay too. I'm still going to treat you as if your golden because you are a child of God. And that's what is truly important. I've come to learn that its not what you wear, but who you are in your wearing.

I work at a college and I dress to fit my environment. I am not a formal person and I tend to fall more to the casual side of dress/casual. I am appropriate - very conservative and put together and I don't push the envelope in terms of overly revealing, etc. - but, since my personality is very casual and my classroom environment is collaborative, my clothes tend to follow suit. I want to encourage my students to talk, etc., and so I don't follow the dress codes of many of their former teachers as an attempt to veer them away from their former passive learning styles. No matter how I dress, though, I am waaay older than they and I command respect by virtue of my position, my age, and the way I carry myself. Unlike many other positions, such as Steeltrap's, when I walk into the room as the instructor, I don't have to gain their respect, it's mine to lose.

I agree with the above quote, that you can dress in Ferragamo (sp?), etc., and fail to command respect. Whereas, you can dress in gap and be extremely impressive.

I am thinking I need to buy new clothes for Leadership, though. Hmmm.

[Eclipse]

Originally posted by mccoyred

If you would wear it to the beach, the gym or to clean your garage, DO NOT WEAR IT TO WORK!!

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Dynamic...Salient...Temperate...Since 1913

This is so funny...one of my responsibilities at work is to conduct new employee orientation. When we get to the part about the dress code I summarize our dos and don't then quote my "friend" above. Why didn't I even remember that I got this from a "friend" on GreekChat over 2 years ago! That is too funny!!