Cheat anyone? - Page 2

James · #16 12-07-2003, 01:38 PM

Once a cheater always a cheater probably is true.

It means you are a situational cheater. You won't cheat unless . . . you get bored or things go wrong or its a similar situation that inspired you to cheat before especially if you didn't get caught.

AlphaPhiBubbles · #17 12-08-2003, 10:11 PM

alright well I guess I am just a horrible person or whatever...but i have cheated on all of my serious boyfriends. In my defense it was always after they had done some really messed up stuff to me, and I didn't have the courage to break it off. It just got to the point where I didn't care about the person anymore. But I must say I fear that my fate will be "always a cheater" and this fact ruins me for future potential relationships...but I am at the very least honest about this bad habit. I lay it out for guys and if they want to take that chance then they are worth it but otherwise...eh.

I always felt pretty bad about it (did it 4 times) but...then we'd immediatley break up. I think only 2 of the 4 guys know.

James · #18 12-08-2003, 10:12 PM

And this is why I don't like committed relationships lol

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Originally posted by AlphaPhiBubbles
alright well I guess I am just a horrible person or whatever...but i have cheated on all of my serious boyfriends. In my defense it was always after they had done some really messed up stuff to me, and I didn't have the courage to break it off. It just got to the point where I didn't care about the person anymore. But I must say I fear that my fate will be "always a cheater" and this fact ruins me for future potential relationships...but I am at the very least honest about this bad habit. I lay it out for guys and if they want to take that chance then they are worth it but otherwise...eh.

I always felt pretty bad about it (did it 4 times) but...then we'd immediatley break up. I think only 2 of the 4 guys know.

PhiPsiRuss · #19 12-08-2003, 10:54 PM

Never have, never will.

Jill1228 · #20 12-09-2003, 05:50 AM

Nope, never cheated...had the opportunity to but never did. It broke my heart when my ex cheated and didn't have the balls to tell me!

My husband's ex wife cheated on him for years before he dumped his azz!

So we are SO not into cheating

James · #21 08-01-2005, 11:05 PM

bump

Coramoor · #22 08-01-2005, 11:38 PM

Yeah, I've cheated in the past. Nothing that I've ever actually sought out and persued....it just sort of happened.

TheBest! · #23 08-02-2005, 03:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AlphaPhiBubbles
i have cheated on all of my serious boyfriends. In my defense it was always after they had done some really messed up stuff to me, and I didn't have the courage to break it off. It just got to the point where I didn't care about the person anymore.

Have I cheated?
All the time.

and AlphaPhiBubbles took those words out of my mouth

LightBulb · #24 08-08-2005, 12:31 AM

I have never cheated on any of my boyfriends.

#25 08-08-2005, 05:27 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by AlphaPhiBubbles
alright well I guess I am just a horrible person or whatever...but i have cheated on all of my serious boyfriends. In my defense it was always after they had done some really messed up stuff to me, and I didn't have the courage to break it off. It just got to the point where I didn't care about the person anymore.

What she said.

I don't regret it at all because it ended up not working out anyway. After a while, I stopped caring when the relationship became stagnant. Come to find out the asshole slept with 5 other chicks even before I cheated on him.

It's not as if I planned to cheat. I was once one of those "never cheated...never will". Unless you have psychic abilities, you won't ever know if you will actually "never cheat".

I don't think I'm a bad person because of it, and I don't think others should judge me because of it as well.

That being said, and taking into consideration all the FUN I've been having these past few years, I have a feeling it'll be a long time before I find myself in a committed relationship again.

KSigkid · #26 08-08-2005, 08:04 AM

Never cheated, but I have been cheated on.

Rio_Kohitsuji · #27 08-08-2005, 02:12 PM

With my last boyfriend, he cheated on me NUMEROUS times...I still wish I would have cheated on him when I had the chance once he "came back" and was good for a week. Heh.

James · #28 01-28-2007, 03:57 AM

ttt

PrettyBoy · #29 01-28-2007, 04:17 AM

No I've never cheated. I Never will. I've been cheated on though. I was with this girl from Cincinatti, OH. and everything seemed cool at school, but when I went back to Minnesota for the summer, things started to change. I hadn't heard from her all summer, so I dumped her when I got back to school. Eventually, she called her mom, and her mom came up to the school to try to get me to go back with her daughter, but I suspected something, so I said no. Well later on, her best friend told me everything that she had been doing while we were togehter. I wasn't surprised because my fraternity brothers kept telling me she wasn't any good. I was glad to be out of that one. Like they always say, Ya can't trust a big butt and a smile.

I still wouldn't cheat if I was in a committed relationship though.

jon1856 · #30 01-28-2007, 02:39 PM

Never have.
And I have twice been in situations that I could have very easily caused a person to cheat (one on her boyfriend, the other one on her husband)

The good angle on my shoulder stopped me.
However, to this day, the devil on my other shoulder does ask me why?