the plans are going well. i am getting married on may 25th. i have a few loose ends to tie. i am not nervous at all. in fact i am quite calm about the whole thing. i don't let my mother drive me crazy because she isn't paying for it. she also keeps that in mind and gives me the respect i am due. my inlaws haven't had a say and that has been by their choice. its been a mixed blessing because i sometimes wish that they did offer suggestions but c'est la vie. please keep me in your thoughts. special hugs to my sisterfriend akatude---how are U doing????

. ex, i miss ya girl!!!!