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Cheating Husband???
Please give me your opinion.... sorry might be long...
My best friend's husband cheated on her about a year ago. She had no clue, until she found an email (on their home account) that he forgot to delete. The email was pretty graphic and detailed several meetings that had taken place. There was no clue he had something going on. She confronted him, he admitted. They fought and fought for several days. They decided to work it out, since they have kids (she was pg with #2 at the time). My friend banned him from the computer-- home email, porn, etc.
Jump to current day---my computer at home has been acting up---homepage constantly being reset, overload of porn popup. The only people who use the computer--me, my husband, and my 21yr old cousin. My husband and I use the laptop--cousin uses the desktop- the one w/ problems. I mentioned something about the computer. She told me, "you do know that "Joe" is coming over right, while you are at work" I asked her what she was talking about --apparently my friends husband comes over during the day and uses my computer, when my cousin gets her, he leaves. (We live next door to my friend and her husband-they have the garage door code). This suddenly explained the popups, etc.
The only reason I can come up with for him being here--is he can talk with the g-friend without getting caught. We do have a cable connection , while they have dial-up. So if you are looking at porn, cable is much better. And to never tell me that he uses my computer is kind of strange.
So what would you do--- a.) ignore b.) confront him c.)try to catch him???
And seriously, what would be the reason for him being on my computer without ever saying anything to me?
Opinions please!!
Thanks,
wendi
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