Dating Greek

Originally posted by GirlWithPearls
I'm thinking we need a match.com type of thing for greeks only? So....any single fraternity men out there??.....

Boy, have you come to the right site.

Docetboy to the Chit Chat forum, Paging docetboy to the Chit Chat forum please.

I'm not gonna lie, i do prefer to date sorority women. Y'all have probably learned about me by now that i'm pretty passionate about certain things and my fraternity is one of them. I don't see myself being with a woman who either can't understand this, cuz she wasn't Greek, or who doesn't share the same love for her org.

Plus, i want legacies. So i only date sorority women who's parents are Greek.


who are over 7'0" tall. cuz i'm a breeder.


Kitso
KS 361 times if i have to pay to PM ladies, i'm chunkin a duece and out

[CatStarESP4]

I used to think that GLO members only dated other GLO members and GDIs dated GDIs. I've learned over the years that GLO members can and do date GDIs and vice versa. I don't have a boyfriend at the moment, but when I do, whether Fraternity member or GDI, I am sure he will be a wonderful guy!

[GirlWithPearls]

well c'mon Kitso....you're pretty hot yourself

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally posted by MeLikey
Being Greek, I think it would be cool to marry someone in a fraternity. However, I have never based my dating on the criteria of them being Greek. There are plenty of great guys who just didn't go Greek, whether they were too busy with school or athletics.

I have to agree. I do find it frustrating to try to explain my involvement to a S.O. who isn't greek, but I've never even considered using it as a criteria for picking a potential mate. From experience, "must have a job" is a MUCH more important criteria.

[bethany1982]

My heart does not see a guy’s affiliation. It would be nice to date Greek at times, but not mandatory or even a priority.

[Hootie]

It's so funny...all the guy's I've ever had a serious relationship with rushed/pledged, but were never initiated. The only guy I dated that was an actual brother is just a good friend and we didn't date for very long.

What a bunch of wanna-be's

[aephi alum]

Originally posted by SmartBlondeGPhB
I have to agree. I do find it frustrating to try to explain my involvement to a S.O. who isn't greek, but I've never even considered using it as a criteria for picking a potential mate. From experience, "must have a job" is a MUCH more important criteria.

I agree with that! I've dated greeks and non-greeks, and married a non-greek. My husband did have a bit of trouble coming to terms with my commitments to my sorority, especially when I had to disappear for 2 weeks for rush, but he learned to deal with it... after all, I was an AEPhi long before I was his girlfriend/wife!

You get a lot of greek/greek couples because once you go greek, a lot of social venues (mixers, Greek Week, etc) are opened to you - some of which non-greeks aren't invited to (mixers) and others of which non-greeks just tend not to go to. Plus, if you live in your GLO's house, you're living with your sisters/brothers, not a mix of greek and non-greek. If most of the guys/girls you're meeting are greeks... you do the math But that doesn't mean you have to restrict yourself to dating greeks in any way.

Originally posted by GirlWithPearls
well c'mon Kitso....you're pretty hot yourself

lol.

riiiiiiiiight.

I don't flirt on GC anymore, leads to too much drama.

Kitso
KS 361 times i might reconsider if you email me your pic

[absolutuscchick]

Originally posted by mullet81
Fraternity men are definitely some of the finest and greatest guys I've ever met. Theyre usually very outgoing, philinthropic, good "friends" and generally great guys.

Are you joking me? With the exception of a few guys I know who are greek and awesome, all the fraternity guys I know seem to only care about getting drunk and getting laid.

[damasa]

Originally posted by absolutuscchick
Are you joking me? With the exception of a few guys I know who are greek and awesome, all the fraternity guys I know seem to only care about getting drunk and getting laid.

You go to school in Arizona, it can be different in other places.

[absolutuscchick]

Originally posted by damasa
You go to school in Arizona, it can be different in other places.

Ok well I guess I just mean at ASU and USC....I wish nice fraternity guys would migrate here!

[AXORissa]

When I was in college, I dated mostly Greeks since thats who I hung out with, mixers, socials, etc. But now it doesn't matter in the "real" world...

although, actually, Homecoming last week was a great place to meet Greek Alum

[bethany1982]

Originally posted by absolutuscchick
Are you joking me? With the exception of a few guys I know who are greek and awesome, all the fraternity guys I know seem to only care about getting drunk and getting laid.

Those are not fraternity men, those are frat boys. Oh no, that dirty word. I know a lot of guys that fit that group. They give the good fraternity men a bad name. I'd say it runs about 50/50. Hope that does not offend anyone. It’s just my opinion and observation.

[Rudey]

Originally posted by bethany1982
Those are not fraternity men, those are frat boys. Oh no, that dirty word. I know a lot of guys that fit that group. They give the good fraternity men a bad name. I'd say it runs about 50/50. Hope that does not offend anyone. It’s just my opinion and observation.

Umm just so you know we think that sorority girls are easy and stupid as bricks even when they're not total lushes.

-Rudey
--No offense, and i'm totally serious here.

[MeLikey]

This all can be turned around the other way too. I was once "seeing" a guy (GDI) who told me after a short while that he doesn't like dating "sorority girls" because in his opinion, "you all hook up with the same guys." And that was his stereotype, which does not ring true for me. Yeah, I didn't like that.