I knew it was over when....

[Mz. Sports Luva]

Well, I knew it was past over when my boyfriend of 2 yrs. called me up one day(we lived in separate states)and told me he was engaged to another woman and that they were having a child.

[Ania]

Mz. Sprorts Luva and DeltaBrat, please tell me your lying, it can't be true! Oh my. I can not even imagine(because I've never been a long term relationship before, I don't know what's wrong with me).

DeltaBrat-oh I have been in short relationships with athletes(yes hoopers), even though they are all not bad-but please don't make me go there. I'm sorry that guy disrespected you like you were some dumb, fallen over, light haired, pig tailed, shallow, stupid chick!

[Mz. Sports Luva]

Nah, unfortunately it's true. But like Inquisitive stated:"REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION". And what's even better is that he's absolutely MISERABLE!!!!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ania:
[B]Mz. Sprorts Luva and DeltaBrat, please tell me your lying, it can't be true! Oh my. I can not even imagine(because I've never been a long term relationship before, I don't know what's wrong with me).

[Asia2000]

Originally posted by DableST_1:
Then he took me out to "brunch" to get my mind off of the situation. Everything was fine, until we stopped in this store and he purchased this beautiful Ballerina music box for this girl that went to FAMU with him. And he had the NERVE to ask me if I thought she would like it!!

What the hell was he thinking?

[exquizit]

I knew it was over with the clown when I was sittin' in the beauty shop next to a girl who just happened to be on her cell phone with the person who was supposed to be my man! The way I knew it was him because as I called him he told her to hold on. She got mad and was cursing him out and called him by name! I asked him who he was on the phone with and the fool said his brother. I was right under the next dryer so I knew who it was. She and I talked it over so when he finally called her cell back I answered! As the old folks say..."You coulda heard a rat pee on cotton" he got so quiet!

[kisses]

OH I KNEW IT WAS OVER WHEN

His crazy a$$ baby mama knocked on my front door and asked him to drive her home. Pure Unadulterated chaos. I was stupid enough to stay another two weeks.
Thank God for renewed sanity!!!!!

[Eclipse]

Originally posted by Mz. Sports Luva:
Well, I knew it was past over when my boyfriend of 2 yrs. called me up one day(we lived in separate states)and told me he was engaged to another woman and that they were having a child.

MzSportsLuva I got you beat....I knew it was over when he came back from Christmas break and told me that he had gotten married but "That does not mean our relationship has to change." Can you imagine?? I ran into him about 3 -4 years later and they were divorced. He had the nerve to say "Why did you let me marry her? You know I was supposed to be with you!" LET?!?!?! Plu-leaze!!!

[Ideal08]

We had been together for a solid two years, and then off and on for the past year, so pretty much 3 years. I knew it was over when I was upset over the anniversary of my father's death, and he decided to leave me home alone while he went to play video games with his dude. Well, at first, he sat with me for an hour or so while I cried. After I had calmed down, he asked me if I would be ok by myself because he wanted to go play video games. Of course I'll be fine by myself, but I went off!!! You know what he said? "Oh, so the time I did spend with you wasn't enough?" ONE HOUR YALL!!! I had to chuckle and shake my head. I couldn't be mad, I just figured, he's showing me who he is, so I need to believe it, the first time!! I guess that was the push I needed to finally move on.

[PinkCashmere]

I knew it was over when he told me that he was going to visit his sick grandfather in another town and I didn't hear from him again!

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Don't just talk about it...Be about it!

[Miss. Mocha]

I knew it was over for me and an ex when:

He said that he thought we should take, yet another, break and I agreed whole heartedly.

[DELTABRAT]

Thanks Ania.

Buying gifts for other women, telling "us" that they are engaged to other people, talking on the phone with other women and they are supposed to be with "us."

What's wrong with brothahs?

Imagine how upset they'd be if women acted that way. A man can barely stomach the fact that his "girl" may have slept with/dated ANYONE else, EVER before they met. Don't let it be someone who lives in the same geographical location (read= EGO DRIVEN)
Let alone getting engaged to someone else.
Hmm!

[sunnydays96]

I knew it was over when.....

My boyfriend of two years said to me, "I just want to slap you for hugging a guy you know I don't get along with". I guess the fact that he was my cousin didn't matter, I should have had more loyalty to him. I knew that he was a bit obsessive and possessive, but at that moment I realized that this negro was downright crazy and stupid. I had to call it off because if I didn't and my mother had to get a call that I was in the hospital because of him-she would be in jail right now. I figured it was in the best interest of my mother to stop that relationship.

[jazbri]

When I found the hotel receipt and I couldn't help myself from laughing hysterically!

At the same time, I kept thinking to myself "Better her than me!"

[This message has been edited by jazbri (edited December 15, 2000).]

[onesavvydiva]

I knew it was OVER when ALL the DRAMA became a laughing matter and I DID NOT care one way or another...[/QUOTE]

LOL, AKA2D'91
You've been there too!!! He could do nothing that upset you, you were just like Screw it, So WHAT!!!!!LOL LOL I've been there more than I'd like to admit!

[ZChi4Life]

I knew something was UP when...

My ex (boyfriend at the time) of almost 2 years went to a summer program at the college we now attend the summer b4 we started our freshmen year. At first, he was calling me just about every day. But as the summer progressed, his calling slowly tapered off. So when I called him on it, he was like "well, i have class so early and they have us doing all this stuff..." yadda yadda yadda. Then, when we did talk, he wouldn't stay on the phone long cuz he CLAIMED had to get up in the morning and play BASKETBALL (yes, BASKETBALL) with some of the other guys in his program (Um, this was NOT a b-ball program mind you)!

But I KNEW it was OVER when...

I finally came up when school began. He didn't even call me to find out if I had made it to my dorm. I had to track HIM down. When I found him, we hung out in my room and he acted as if he didn't wanna be there. After classes started, the week before my birthday, he didn't call me, come over, NOTHING. I would call and his roommate would tell me he was sleeping or that he was busy. I would email him and he wouldn't respond to that either. FINALLY, after not seeing him/speaking to him for almost a week, I ran into him on the way to my class. I asked him what was going on and all he said was "I don't wanna talk about it now" and proceeded to walk away. To make this long story short, we broke up later on that day.