Scruples #6 - Gold Diggers

[CherryPepsi]

Shoot, some men should OWE women money after the garbage they put out in bed!
(OK!)

Soon as chick said I used to be an ex-gold-digger, that's when my man should have held on to his wallet and exited stage right

or put his thing down in the bedroom maybe sis would have been givin HIM money.

I can't blame her for asking he could either say yes or no or F* NO!!!

[Dexter]

Originally posted by Sexy Mocha


Just curious...Do you also think it's trashy and degrading for men to ASK a woman they barely know for some *SS?

Girl, I have seen men plot, plan , scheme, and act in the worst way... all in the name of getting P*****. Now, that's tacky! Shoot, some men should OWE women money after the garbage they put out in bed!
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Do you think it's trashy for a woman to give up that a$$ to a man she hardly knows? Don't even get get me started on putting up with women in the bedroom (but that's another topic). Although I do agree with you on the fact that if she told him from jump, what here game was and he was so pressed to "get wit her". He don't have NOTHING to be b#*ching about. If it were me and she said that's how she is before we got down and dirty, I might have done it anyway and when she asked me for some cash I would say NO! Just because she's like that, don't mean I am!!

[novella000]

Originally posted by fatto
It should be apparent, through conversation, that she is having financial troubles and if the man is willing, he should then offer. If he doesn't offer or give a valid reasoning for why not, then this man probably isn't one that you should be accepting favors from.

true true...
but...
what she did make known up front was that she was out for the dollar. so i guess he shoulda paid up front??
lmao

[AKA2D '91]

I miss those scruples questions. Where is Soror Pink?

[Sexy Mocha]

Originally posted by Dexter


Do you think it's trashy for a woman to give up that a$$ to a man she hardly knows?

I personally don't think it's trashy (PER SE) for a woman to sleep with a man she hardly knows or vice versa (for a man to ask), which is why I began the question by saying, "Just Curious..."

I don't believe in setting a specific time span for when it's ok for me to "give it up" after I've met a guy. I feel you should do it when ever you feel the time is right, be it a week, 3 weeks, 4 months, 2 years . I do understand the importance of getting to know the person before you jump into bed with them but who is to say when you really know a person?
I know women that wait at least 3 months before they would even consider giving up the @SS....
I also know men, that are willing to ACT ACCORDINGLY for those 3 months until they get what they want.
So, whose to say you're really getting to know the person? Sometimes, men will be the person women want them to be in order to get them in bed. As well, some women will play the sweet, virgin, girl-next-door, I-will make-the-perfect-wifey role until they've succeeded in draining the man's pockets. (Then they turn into the psycho whore they really are )
This is not a campaign condoning everyone to go out and sleep with men/women they don't know....but I just say go with your feelings. Let's say you give up the a$$ two days after you meet a dude and he turns out to be the world's biggest loser...hey, at least you haven't invested any time or feelings in this jacka$$. This as opposed to waiting that 3 months or so, falling for this person, opening up your heart, finally giving it up only to discover this same loser you could have found about about in 2 days.
Once again, my people, this is just my opinion.

[Dexter]

Sexy,
You and I are COMPLETELY on the same page. Every question that you asked, as I thought of the reply you answered it in the exact manner as I was thinking it. Right on Sister Girlfriend-THAT'S MY DAWG!