HOw many guys out there..or girls - Page 2

James · #16 07-27-2003, 11:51 PM

I know we have this discussion periodically lol.

I would probably respect the people that "truly" waits. And by that I mean those that don't engage in sexual activites that lead to Orgasm.

In fact I might even toss masturbation in there. ..

Now that would constitute a valid sacrifice.

If you are a so-called "technical virgin", where is the challenge? I mean you are still getting off every which way you can.

Oh, ho hum, you just had a bunch of orgasms, its real hard to resist having intercourse then!

LOL. Half the male population is on their way to nighty night after two orgasms anyway.

SparkliiQTMTSU · #17 07-28-2003, 12:17 AM

haha James! but I agree that maybe you shouldnt wait...I mean I dont know I know that I would definitly have to sleep with them before I married them b/c sex can be a big part of a relationship..not always but in some cases yes it is. and why not try on the clothes before buying them so to speak you wouldnt do that would you? so why do something like this that can be of great importance also? I dont know I dont care either which way personally. Its up to the person. Its just not right for me.

Nichole

LeslieAGD · #18 07-28-2003, 09:22 AM

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Originally posted by AXJules
When you truly love someone, it's not sex anymore (well sometimes it is, but...) it's making love. That can be a crazy insane connection between two people- I think it's something that makes your relationship a million times more intimate, literally and figuratively.

Quite right. IMHO, it's more important to wait for the "right" person, a person you're in love with, that to wait until marriage.

Rio_Kohitsuji · #19 07-28-2003, 11:57 AM

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Originally posted by PiKA2001
Waiting is not smart in my opinion. What if you end up marrying a person who is a corpse in bed?

That's what I've always thought! I mean, c'mon, you have to be happy sexually to have a happy relationship, and no all you lovey-dovey people, a "good conversationalist" is NOT enough!!

Anyway...I never really planned to wait til marriage *sorry Mom*...I just waited til I was in love..or at least figured he was cute enough

I lucked out -big- time, met the love of my life, lost the V, going to get married after we get our degrees...

(hey..that rhymed)

PS: Thank God for Art Majors

Optimist Prime · #20 07-31-2003, 05:31 PM

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Originally posted by FAB*SpiceySpice
I'm waiting...not for marriage really. But more so for the person who I am going to marry. Once I am engaged and live with the person is when I'll stop waiting probably. I mean you have to try the clothes on before you buy them, right?

To make sure it is the right size?

Optimist Prime · #21 07-31-2003, 05:33 PM

Yeah i'm waiting.....for the call girl to show up. OOO yeah.

**O-Prime's a freak

phi sig girly · #22 07-31-2003, 05:57 PM

i wont just do it with anyone - i thought the person i lost my virginity to was the person id be with forever. unfortunately he didnt think so. so there went the whole concept of one partner for life :/ i just recently made love to my current boyfriend, and we talk about getting married all the time...i very much love him and we truely can see ourselves with each other for the rest of our lives...hopefully it'll work out lol but yeah, i think its a very sacred and importnat thing and wouldnt dish it o ut to anyone, but no, im not waiting (obviously) til after marriage

absolutuscchick · #23 10-03-2003, 01:34 AM

I'm waiting for marriage

polarpi · #24 10-03-2003, 02:31 AM

I always said I was going to wait until marriage, but now I think I agree more with the waiting until it's the "right" person, whether or not I marry him.

KSig RC · #25 10-03-2003, 01:58 PM

i'm waiting until i get that dowry - you gotta pay to play honey

MTSUGURL · #26 10-03-2003, 03:54 PM

I had always planned to wait for marriage, and to this day I wish I had have. Now I'm celibate - I haven't had sex in over 3 years. I renewed my commitment to wait in front of my parents and several friends.

I'm with you James - if you're only technical, you're not really holding that much back...

Dionysus · #27 10-03-2003, 04:00 PM

I'm *planning* to wait...for how long, I don't know.

Imthachamp · #28 10-03-2003, 04:18 PM

i remember some girl said i had no morals cuz i told her how many people i had sex with...

and this came from a girl who gave head CONSTANTLY to different guys...and she would do it while she had a man.

i was like WTF??

what's the point of being a virgin if you're going to give head all the time?

James · #29 10-03-2003, 09:44 PM

LOL . . .whats was the movie? Clerks? Where she had slept with a handful of guys but had blown 30 plus?

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Originally posted by Imthachamp
i remember some girl said i had no morals cuz i told her how many people i had sex with...

and this came from a girl who gave head CONSTANTLY to different guys...and she would do it while she had a man.

i was like WTF??

what's the point of being a virgin if you're going to give head all the time?

Imthachamp · #30 10-03-2003, 09:45 PM

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Originally posted by James
LOL . . .whats was the movie? Clerks? Where she had slept with a handful of guys but had blown 30 plus?

JIMMY. You need to post more...I think I speak for EVERYONE when I say come around more often!

And yah I think it was that movie.