im that girl

[KSUViolet06]

Originally posted by PM_Mama00
Flame me if you want, but if someone is a bad rusher, then why not put them behind the scenes?

I'm talking from experience. The girls who actually SCARE girls off? Are very overwhelming? Have nothing to talk about with the PNM or talk about the wrong things? Get into arguments with the PNM about something?

This has happened with a few sororities on my campus. Not sure what they did but it was definitely a PNM horror story. Why should one "bad" apple ruin it for the rest?

NOT saying that justme is one of these people, but you never know unless you're in that house/room.

If this happens to your chapter, why not find something else for that rusher to do? OR if you are that person, then ask if there's something else you can do?

I think alot of times, chapters want EVERYONE to rush girls because NOT having all girls out on the floor will make them look smaller. Which means even having the not-so-good rusher out.

[BetteDavisEyes]

I was behind the scenes but I asked to be there b/c I did not feel comfortable talking to the girls. *shrugs* I felt it was in the best interest of the chapter to have our best girls out there. I was upset though b/c there were two girls that were friends of mine that rushed & I wanted to Pref them but on Pref night, I found out that two girls who didn't speak to them at all during rush were asked to Pref them instead. I was shocked & pretty pissed. I talked to the Rush chair & she said that it was b/c she just felt that the other girls had more in common w/them than I did though they were actually my friends.