For all my single Sorors and SFs - Page 2

1savvydiva · #16 12-02-2002, 12:59 AM

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Originally posted by Ideal08
S-n-S back in the house!! Hey girl!

I am glad this was brought back to the top today. I needed this today, I really did. I was having a lonely day, but was DETERMINED to not have a pity party behind it. This did help a little. Thanks, 1savvydiva!

Not a problem...I was in the midst of a pity party this weekend also, I figured someone else could use this also!

Ideal08 · #17 03-20-2003, 03:54 PM

Trying to find the silver lining...

lil_sunshine · #18 03-24-2003, 03:23 PM

I'm still single, and this was very inspiring. I'm not rushing anything that's not in my power to rush or change. I'm enjoying the single life right now mainly b/c I need to take care of ME and get ME together before I try to enter into a relationship with someone and I can't handle it. If I don't know who I am when nobody's looking and who I want to be when he arrives, what makes you think that I'll be acceptable to Mr. Right when he comes along? JMHO and my ray of light to share with the world....

Sahara · #19 03-24-2003, 09:20 PM

That is such a good message for women to hear! All too often we hear "Why don't you have a man?" and feel like it's a mandatory requirement for all women and that something is wrong with us if we are single.

I have had many looonnng single periods in my life (some by choice, others...). I have learned to appreciate them and take advantage of them. The result is my being able to live happily single or not. Also, I can tell earlier on if someone is worth my time or not, and not feel bad about cutting him loose.
Unfortunately, I see too many of my friends so afraid to be single that they will latch on to ANYBODY and be hurt in the end.

Thanks again for those inspiring words.