I am having an especially bad night. Days like this I don't like my job. All of the patients we have seen tonight have been really, really sick. I complain when we have all these patients with stupid complaints, but I would rather see them all day long than have a day like this.
The bad part about it is thru the midst of us having our SECOND cardiac arrest patient in 1 hour, this guy comes in for cough/chest congestion, and he keeps asking me what is taking so long! I tell him that there are two critical cases in the back and he was like "Well, I feel like I am dying!" I am like, "Well, I understand that you may
feel like you are dying Sir, but that doesn't take precedence over someone who actually
IS dying!!!

" THEN they called 'time' on the second case and the poor guy's family is still not here yet. We still haven't gotten ANY info because EMS didn't get his NAME from the family!

So after an hour, I am calling around to all the other hospitals trying to find the family because EMS said that they were right behind them.
Finally, the phone rings, and it's the family and they are hysterical and lost. I am trying to give them directions to the hospital and they ask me if he's made it. I am not supposed to tell them that he didn't over the phone. So me stalling in essence tells them that he didn't make it...so they are even more hysterical! Meanwhile this man is still like..."Well how long do I have to wait, what...is the doctor sleep or something?"

So I am giving him the look of DEATH! So the family comes running in crying, falling out and I am telling them that the Nursing Supervisor will be down to talk to them in a second...so they are falling out...they KNOW...but they want me to actually say the words..."He didn't make it!" So I can't stall anymore and I tell them that we weren't able to resuscitate him, and I am about to start crying...so the supervisor comes and takes them away. THIS INGRATE says "Well we all gotta go sometime!" I wanted to knock the shit out of him.
I just don't understand how someone can be so selfish and inconsiderate, I really don't! I really am sad/pissed/somber...and I still have 3 more hours to go!