Question about a tatoo - Page 2

breathesgelatin · #16 03-08-2003, 11:40 AM

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Originally posted by UF_PikePC98
A few questions.....

1. Are you white?

and

2. You wouldn't hook up because you'd think he's had too much pu$$y or is it because they might seem a little ghetto?

1. Yes, I'm white, but why the hell does that matter??? That doesn't have anything to do with this question!

2. Neither. I just think those ideas are lame, especially anything for the arm. Both of them seem kind of arrogant to me. If there's one thing I despise in a guy, it's arrogance (confidence is good-it can just be carried too far). I like the idea about "Friends for life" in German, too. And definately go for the back. Arms are not a turn-on, at least for me personally.

winnieb · #17 03-08-2003, 12:36 PM

I like the "Friends for Life"--- but honestly, get what you feel is right for you--even if everyone says its lame. If it is right for you then get it, you have to live with it--no one else!!!!

My opinion is tattoos are personal--- if you have a story to go with it, then it is more interesting. But if you don't, who the hell cares!!! There will ALWAYS be someone who does not like your tat. I have 8--will soon be getting #9--and won't stop there!! My husband has more than 20 (i've lost count)--- I have one he does not like~~just like he has several I don't like!! But we accept each other for who we are, and the tattoos we have--his tats are his decision, just like mine are my decisions.

When deciding make sure it is the right tat for you---don't just pick some random piece of flash because it looks cool. Make it have meaning to you. Be sure you will be happy with the placement of it--it will be there for a long time. Make sure you go somewhere with a good reputation--somewhere that is clean!!

And don't forget they say they are addictive--so be prepared to be getting another.

-wendi

nucutiepie · #18 03-10-2003, 05:09 AM

badtattoos.com has officially scared me into NEVER getting a tattoo.

KappaTarzan · #19 03-10-2003, 06:09 AM

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Originally posted by UF_PikePC98

I think we might have a lil freak hoe in the house.....LOL

Where are your tatoos lil lady, and what are they of?

i have a tribal on my lower back that signifies princess, a tribal on my foot (very small, i drew it), a yellow rose and sorority letters (also very small) on my right hip, and a tiny pink M (adding a little butterfly) on my lower stomach right above those little hip bones that stick out..

and i'm not freaky. just love those tattoos

Lady Pi Phi · #20 03-10-2003, 12:09 PM

Many people have said, but I feel like reiterating it. Get whatever you want. It's your body, it's your tattoo. You have to live with it. My only advice to you would be make sure it's something meaningful to you. If you go out and get a random tattoo (like Elmer Fudd on your azz), you're going to wake up one day and say, "what the &*#@!!!".
I love mine and don't regret them. I'm thinking about getting another one. There isn't really a story behind them but they do mean something to me. So before you go out and get yours, make sure it's something that means something to you, and that you can live with for the rest of your life.

P.S, I don't remember who said it, but tattoos are addictive

UF_PikePC98 · #21 03-10-2003, 01:57 PM

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Originally posted by breathesgelatin
1. Yes, I'm white, but why the hell does that matter??? That doesn't have anything to do with this question!

2. Neither. I just think those ideas are lame, especially anything for the arm. Both of them seem kind of arrogant to me. If there's one thing I despise in a guy, it's arrogance (confidence is good-it can just be carried too far). I like the idea about "Friends for life" in German, too. And definately go for the back. Arms are not a turn-on, at least for me personally.

1. It has a lot to do with whether or not you would like it.

2. What women sometimes view as arrogant.....men sometimes view as pimp.

The difference between arrogance and confidence is in the eye of the beholder, not the individual himself.

UF_PikePC98 · #22 03-10-2003, 02:04 PM

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Originally posted by KappaTarzan
a yellow rose and sorority letters on my right hip, and a tiny pink M on my lower stomach right above those little hip bones that stick out..

I bet your boyfriend likes those.....

I tried getting an ex of mine to have her letters tatooed on her lower back right above the ass. She wouldn't do it. She wasn't one of the stupid ones.

breathesgelatin · #23 03-10-2003, 02:18 PM

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Originally posted by UF_PikePC98
1. It has a lot to do with whether or not you would like it.

not really

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Originally posted by UF_PikePC98
2. What women sometimes view as arrogant.....men sometimes view as pimp.

The difference between arrogance and confidence is in the eye of the beholder, not the individual himself.

That doesn't make much sense; in fact it makes very, very little but I won't argue. If you're going for the "pimp" look, that's great, I'm just pointing out that it's going to turn a lot of girls off. In my mind, there's arrogance, and then there's just lame pimpy-ness. It's anybody's guess as to which you're going for. Personally, even though I'm not a big fan of arrogance, I'd rather have just the arrogance than a "pimp". The "pimp" thing is a fad. You don't want to be freaking young girls out 20 years from now.

I'm sorry, I'm not normally this confrontational but you got defensive first.

UF_PikePC98 · #24 03-10-2003, 02:56 PM

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Originally posted by UF_PikePC98
2. What women sometimes view as arrogant.....men sometimes view as pimp.

It actually does make a lot of sense. See, arrogance is a term chicks use to try to bring a mans confidence down. Rarely do you hear men use the term...." arrogant asshole" ( Which is commonly used to define me on this web site). Why? Because 1. Chicks feel inferior around guys like that and it pisses them off, they don't realize it but thats what the anger and disgust is drawn from. It's like they just coined the term " arrogance" inorder for them to stay proper and not punch man. This is the difference between men and women. If a man feels like this because of another man, he takes it as being tried.....which usually results in a fight or some sort of a physical confrontation.

Now that I've broken it down for you, make sense?

Lady Pi Phi · #25 03-10-2003, 03:22 PM

It actually does make a lot of sense. See, arrogance is a term chicks use to try to bring a mans confidence down. Rarely do you hear men use the term...." arrogant asshole" ( Which is commonly used to define me on this web site). Why? Because 1. Chicks feel inferior around guys like that and it pisses them off, they don't realize it but thats what the anger and disgust is drawn from. It's like they just coined the term " arrogance" inorder for them to stay proper and not punch man. This is the difference between men and women. If a man feels like this because of another man, he takes it as being tried.....which usually results in a fight or some sort of a physical confrontation.

Well since this thread is now off topic, I'd thought I'd had my $0.02 in.
Anyway, there is a difference between arrogance and confidence, and it's not something women made up just because they were intimidated by a man.
There is also a difference between being assertive and being a bitch. If you're assertive you can speak your mind in a tactful manner, and listen to otehrs opinions while strongly sharing yours. You're a bitch when you don't care about anyone else, and people will let you have your way if it will shut you up. Get what I'm saying?
This is not a slam at anyone, just a general sentement.
If someone really is the "shit", they don't have to say anything, because everyone already knows.

UF_PikePC98 · #26 03-10-2003, 03:33 PM

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Originally posted by Lady Pi Phi
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There is also a difference between being assertive and being a bitch. If you're assertive you can speak your mind in a tactful manner, and listen to otehrs opinions while strongly sharing yours. You're a bitch when you don't care about anyone else, and people will let you have your way if it will shut you up. Get what I'm saying?
This is not a slam at anyone, just a general sentement.
If someone really is the "shit", they don't have to say anything, because everyone already knows. [/B]

Assertive is just a term proper women/men use rather than it's foulish cousins.....bitch/dick. You can be assertive and still seem elegant. You say bitch, and your like every other common female.

Bitch can have many meanings. It can be the words used to describe someone or something. It can be used to describe an attitude, which is what you choose to describe bitch. Your definition of bitch and mine vary. What you view as bitchy, I call childish.

In any case.....My shit does make sense and I hope you understand that now.

UF_PikePC98 · #27 03-10-2003, 03:39 PM

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Originally posted by Lady Pi Phi
[BThis is not a slam at anyone, just a general sentement.
If someone really is the "shit", they don't have to say anything, because everyone already knows. [/B]

Actually they do, it's just in front of individuals they choose.

Some do it to their best friends, others do it to randoms.

I think everyone has had that friend who absolutly thinks he/she is the shit and they've let you in on it.

Lady Pi Phi · #28 03-10-2003, 03:58 PM

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Originally posted by UF_PikePC98
Actually they do, it's just in front of individuals they choose.

Some do it to their best friends, others do it to randoms.

I think everyone has had that friend who absolutly thinks he/she is the shit and they've let you in on it.

Okay, that may be so. But haven't you ever come acroos a friend, or random that will constantly tell you that he/she is the shit, but you and everybody else knows that they are not?

breathesgelatin · #29 03-10-2003, 11:52 PM

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Originally posted by UF_PikePC98
It actually does make a lot of sense. See, arrogance is a term chicks use to try to bring a mans confidence down. Rarely do you hear men use the term...." arrogant asshole" ( Which is commonly used to define me on this web site). Why? Because 1. Chicks feel inferior around guys like that and it pisses them off, they don't realize it but thats what the anger and disgust is drawn from. It's like they just coined the term " arrogance" inorder for them to stay proper and not punch man. This is the difference between men and women. If a man feels like this because of another man, he takes it as being tried.....which usually results in a fight or some sort of a physical confrontation.

Now that I've broken it down for you, make sense?

Nope! No sense!
You don't have to "break it down" for me. I'm way ahead of you.

That said:
riiiiiiight! I feel SOOOO inferior around you UF_Pike...

What you just posted is completely false. This is what guys who think they're "pimps" (which is definately something that is lame, unattractive, and not cool) say to make themselves feel better around classy girls that don't want to get with them. A guy that called himself a pimp or got either of those tattoos at my school would be laughed off campus. You may still be a really great person, but I just think I should warn you of that fact. I actually really like the "Friends for Life" in German idea. Go with that. The other two are just sketch and misplaced arrogance.

damasa · #30 03-11-2003, 12:18 AM

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Originally posted by UF_PikePC98
Actually they do, it's just in front of individuals they choose.

Some do it to their best friends, others do it to randoms.

I think everyone has had that friend who absolutly thinks he/she is the shit and they've let you in on it.

No, actually they don't.

A true pimp need not speak of his or her actions because they know the deal.

A fake pimp tries to throw how they are a "pimp" in every situation they get a chance.