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Old 02-25-2003, 02:44 PM
BSUPhiSig'92 BSUPhiSig'92 is offline
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First of all, how old would this person be? Is there a possibility he is no longer alive? I did a search for our chapter's local founder (1926) several years ago, only to find out that he had already passed away. Fortunately I was able to find a brother who had gone to school with him.
If you are reasonably certain he is still alive, find out when and where his last known address was. The more information you have the better. There are several ways you can begin to search for someone.

While I am not adopted, I encountered someone several years ago who thought my mother might have been his birth mother. She wasn't, but we were able to help put him in touch with the right people (same last name, same home town, different families). He told me a lot about how he conducted his search.

If you have a social security number, your process should be fairly easy. There are online "missing persons" sites like peoplesearch.com, that can help you locate someone. They have been featured on shows like Montel, Oprah, etc. Usually with a name and social security number they can find someone within a few hours.

If you can't get a ss#, if you have his last known address, or even his hometown, you might be able to locate family members who would know his location. If you can, visit or call the library in his hometown (providing there is one). If the library has city directories, you should be able to find out when he left that address and if there are still relatives in that town. Depending on the last name, it might be fairly easy to track down some relation who would know his wearabouts.
Records at the city hall or courthouse (marriage licenses, birth certificates, deeds, wills, tax records,etc.)and local newspaper archives are also good sources of information. I once heard something that the most effective way to locate someone is through the DMV database of driver's licenses, and I believe this is what many private detectives and police agencies do.

Anyway, good luck with your search and let us know your results!
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Old 02-26-2003, 06:59 PM
Tom Earp Tom Earp is offline
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HA, got the Butt Brother!

Got e-m from another Brother as Lost Bro. sent bragging on his son!

Once you get an e-m system after a lot of hard work, sometimes it pays off!

Oh and yes, If I dont send something out being the address king, I get e-m or phone calls from Alums wanting to know if I am alright! Is That Great or What?

When they get back in the fold, they will become more involved!

Oh, first off, dont ask for money or time as everyone is short on both! Be sneaky and work from there!

Just give info about what the Active Chapter is doing (Alum Chair ), give updates on what some of the Alums are doing! Let all of the others subtely know that you are hearing from other Alums! Boy will they get Jealous and say WELL, They Should Know about Me!

It all works slowly but You will know what hard work it is and you will reap the reward! Damn, it is well worth it when you go back to a Function and see your Fellow Memebers!
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Old 03-11-2003, 01:34 PM
RRRastani RRRastani is offline
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You could also post something on your website, asking the missing or lost members to contact a representative. If they're interested in getting involved, they may look on the website and get in touch.

Just a though.
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Old 03-11-2003, 02:12 PM
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Spreading semen

One of the Sunday news shows had a segment on a guy who had been a frequent sperm donor for $$$ while in school.

Now a few of the resulting kids have been able to track him down, and its annoying him.

Some times you don't want to be found.
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Old 03-11-2003, 07:18 PM
Tom Earp Tom Earp is offline
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Oh, hoosier, I do not blame you for not wanting to be found!

While it is true, it is more likely that they are pissed that NO ONE has contacted them! Wel Du, Dam DU, if dont let someone know then what the hell do WE DO!?

I have had some brothers,(Note Small Letters) say do not e-m me anymore. I have had Brothers say do not e-m me anymore, I have even had a (B)rother threaten me for harassement for calling him to find out why he did not want e-m!

Well members of the Greek World, there are some asses out there who want the gain, fame and the name until they They become Large People! HUH!

I am sure everyone on this GC is a Member of His/Hers Org not, I was!

I am a Proud member since 1966! Am I still involved, Da, Yepper.

I tried to keep it a secret, but I guess not very well as did not know what I was doing on Damn Computers, But am 61 years young! Do I still work with my Chapter and International! Well YES!

You , each and everyone of you will be doing the same thing that I am doing for one reason: The Love of People, The Love of Greeks and The Beleif that what we do is for the Good Of People!

Ha, when you get my matureing date, I hope I am still able to check This Site to see All Of You still on your walker and cane but with good fingers trying to typo as I do!
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