D Stan, that sucks and we have all been there!
It is a come to jesus meeting time!
Either We are a Fraternity or We are no!
if you have a nice house, there is no reason that the Brothers should not live there!!
My House is a fire trap and needs to be torn down which it will be in May to build a new one!
It will be easy to fill and if it isnt by ones that want to and if not full will be forced to!
That needs to be stated upfront to all who join.
If the house is not full, it cost all of the Brothers when it comes to partys, and other activities! They may be needed
to be reminded of that or you may not be on campus for long!
It just takes a small thread to be come unraveled to finish the spool and make it empty!
Stan, go for it, stand up and roar like hell! You wont be popular, but damnit, you may still be there to come back and be with Brothers!
Let them know that!