J Lo and Ben: Did Ben Dump J-Lo? - Page 2

NUPE4LIFE · #16 11-12-2002, 03:42 PM

I've never been married, but I couldn't see myself (espcially after my second divorce) wanting to date, let alone marry someone. She does need help. I thought she was Catholic. She must not be a practicing one. If I were a Priest, I wouldn't marry her. Does anyone know if she had a previous marriages annulled? I feel that she has some serious issues that only God and a shrink can help her figure out. I'm not against divorce, but I'm against people marrying for the wrong reasons. The good thing though, is that she's never had kids from any of her multiple relationships. That would make this whole situation worse. All things being said, she has the free will to do whatever she wants. If she wants to marry a new man every 9 months, she can go right ahead.

BLUTANG · #17 11-12-2002, 03:53 PM

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Originally posted by Steeltrap
... But if they ever are called Jen and Ben, I'm going to regurgitate my food...

THEY DID IT!

this morning on the early show (CBS), they did a short report on the new video and the engagement, et. al... and the little caption that flashed across the screen was Jen and Ben.

ewwwwwwwwwwwww

Steeltrap · #18 11-12-2002, 04:03 PM

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Originally posted by BLUTANG

THEY DID IT!

this morning on the early show (CBS), they did a short report on the new video and the engagement, et. al... and the little caption that flashed across the screen was Jen and Ben.

ewwwwwwwwwwwww

Ohh. My. Gaww.

beauty_6049 · #19 11-12-2002, 09:22 PM

I think she isn't giving enough time for her relationships to flourish. But she is her own woman and only see knows whats right for her. I don't think Ben is used to all the publicity that comes with her popularity( an example seen on Making the Video, MTV)

encouraged1 · #20 11-14-2002, 11:42 AM

I think she is the Elizabeth Taylor of the new millenium. By 2010 she'll be on her 6th hubby.

ClassyLady · #21 11-14-2002, 11:08 PM

Did anyone see the Dateline special with J. Lo and Diane Sawyer last night? I watched it. Let me just say that I think J.Lo is full of stanky boo-boo. For about 45 minutes of the hour long interview, all she said was that "I'm still Jenny from the block," "I'm really still just the same old girl from the Bronx," and "well, you know I'm from the Bronx." We get it!!! We know that you're from the Bronx. Nobody forgot!

Diane asked her about all of her marriages and relationships and how she thought her marriage with Ben would last if the other two didn't. She said something like "I've been married twice, but I've never had a real marriage." She also said that she doesn't think that she was really in love before. She was just in love with the idea of being in love. They did do many close-ups of the ring and it is downright fabulous. A 25 carat pink diamond. I probably would've said yes too.

I have said it before, and I'll say it again, Jennifer Lopez is full of it. I think that every move she has made has been a calculating step to make her even more famous. She was not the megastar that she is now, when she started dating Puffy. I think she used him to catapult her career. And, when the going got tough, Jennifer got going. Now, she's marrying Ben Affleck is to go even further.

lil_sunshine · #22 11-16-2002, 11:43 AM

Personally, I think that J-HO is doing this for attention and publicity. I also think that she thinks she'd be benefiting her acting career by hooking up with the "IT" actor right now. J-HO needs to see a shrink before she commits herself to yet another husband. She married C.J. to try to get her mind off of Puff the Dragonbreath Mofo so that she could be accepeted once again in the Hispanic community. Her mother NEVER liked Puff and told J-HO that if she stayed with him, she would NEVER speak to her again. I guess that she also realized that being with Puff wasn't allowing her to win over any more Latin fans. Girlie has made quite a few mistakes in her judgement recently and I'll name a few:

1. When she was filming "I'm Real" not the remix by Captain Save-a Song, but the original, she had heard about a little Black girl who had accidentally killed herself with a BB gun. J-HO's reaction and statement: "That's just like a dumb nigger."

2. At the Latin Awards a few months ago, she claimed that her music is of Latin origin, not Black origin. Now why would she say a fool thing like that when she and anyone who bought her J to tha Ho remix CD knows that most, if not the entire CD, was produced by Irv Fatti and Ja Mule!!! Are you still real J-HO? I don't think so. GITS (Get it together, Stupid!!!)

That's enough ranting and raving on this subject. I sincerely hope she gets her $h!t together as far as this whole marriage thing goes and I also hope that Jenny and Benny work this out. If not, then hey, another one to mark off on the countdown to a new hubby and back to the ole drawing board.....

Everybody please remember that these are strictly my opinions and facts that I've heard recently, and if you didn't know anything about the statements above, please feel free to PM me and ask me questions.

ClassyLady · #23 11-16-2002, 01:58 PM

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She married C.J. to try to get her mind off of Puff the Dragonbreath Mofo

No, no, no!! No you didn't call him Puff the Dragonbreath Mofo! I am literally crying right now!

lil_sunshine · #24 11-16-2002, 02:04 PM

Yes I did!!!!Have you seen all those teeth he has? He can't even close his mouth for prolonged periods of time!!! How can anyone wanna be close to him, unless they see him swallow an entire bottle of Listerine.....

sasharala · #25 11-16-2002, 04:07 PM

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She really needs GOD the Father

No she doesn't......If she did, she might try to marry him

Okay, I'm going to repent for that now

1savvydiva · #26 11-16-2002, 04:35 PM

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Originally posted by sasharala

No she doesn't......If she did, she might try to marry him

Okay, I'm going to repent for that now

Serenity · #27 11-16-2002, 07:12 PM

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Originally posted by lil_sunshine
Everybody please remember that these are strictly my opinions and facts that I've heard recently, and if you didn't know anything about the statements above, please feel free to PM me and ask me questions.

Unless this info came from someone who witnessed these things for themselves or from a direct link to J-Lo, I would hardly classify them as facts. I'm not a J-Lo fan per se, but I find a lot of the really ugly/nasty stuff being said about her is simply being put out there to add fuel to the already out of control fire. Good publicity, bad publicity... it's still publicity.

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On another note, it's hardly a crime to be married three times and/or be in a relationship with several people back-to-back. Nor does it classify you as a ho, IMO. We're talking about four people she dated, not forty. Would I do it? No. But not everyone can be me.

J/K

I saw the 20/20 special and thought her comments about her dating habits seemed quite honest. She basically said she had issues and was in love with being in love. I know of women like that. Looking for love in all the wrong places... Sad, but true. It happens.

And while she may have ridden on the coat tails of P.Diddy to get herself out there, who in the entertainment business hasn't ridden someone's coat tails? People do it allllll the time, especially in the music business. They'll make it big, start their own company, and then look for their own talent to sign. That's usually what makes unknowns, known. If you hang out with celebrities, you're bound to get noticed. Isn't that kinda the point, especially if you're trying to make it in the business?

Not to be overly cynical, but isn't the entertainment business just that...a business?

Kimmie1913 · #28 11-18-2002, 02:21 PM

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Originally posted by lil_sunshine
1. When she was filming "I'm Real" not the remix by Captain Save-a Song, but the original, she had heard about a little Black girl who had accidentally killed herself with a BB gun. J-HO's reaction and statement: "That's just like a dumb nigger."

2. At the Latin Awards a few months ago, she claimed that her music is of Latin origin, not Black origin. Now why would she say a fool thing like that when she and anyone who bought her J to tha Ho remix CD knows that most, if not the entire CD, was produced by Irv Fatti and Ja Mule!!! Are you still real J-HO? I don't think so. GITS (Get it together, Stupid!!!)

What is the source for this celeb gossip? I have never heard the first one (and I would hipe the source is credible for it to be spread out there. It sould like Tommy Hilfiger doesn't lik n****s wearing his vclothes myth to me) and I have read statements from J-Ho's camp denying the second one altogether.

lil_sunshine · #29 11-20-2002, 12:43 PM

As far as the two mistakes in judgement she made that I posted, I heard them both from the radio and from my mother, who confirmed the first one. The first one was stated by Star from the Hot 97 Star and Bucwild Morning Show, and Star went to the NBC studios in NYC to boycott J-HO being on the Today show b/c of this statement. With the second one, I also heard that on the radio on the Doug Banks Morning Show and another show on the same station. My sister was listening to the other show at home and she informed me about it when I got home from school.

I hope this has cleared up anything that needed clarification. If not, please feel free to PM me.

AKA2D '91 · #30 11-20-2002, 06:59 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmie1913

I have read statements from J-Ho's camp denying the second one altogether.

lmao...

Still, are the "camps" more credible? They lie and cover-up too.