A Sorority sweetheart - Page 2

mmcline · #16 08-26-2002, 08:46 AM

I was told AST can't have guys be sweethearts and we as sisters can't be little sisters at fraternities.. Now, this was told to me by a sister who hates that I hang out with one frat. and she thought I was about to geta bid to be a little sister. But I do know whenever we have nationals, we aren't allowed to mention anything about sweethearts or us being little sisters.

AOX81 · #17 08-26-2002, 08:48 AM

We have Mr. Alpha Theta Chi. Our current Mr. Alpha Theta Chi is a sisters fiance who is also our webmaster

AchtungBaby80 · #18 08-26-2002, 11:08 AM

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Originally posted by PiKA2001
The sororities here dont use the term sweetheart. The AGD's have alpha gam man, DZ has a big brother, and AEPhi has phi guy. Oh yeah, those three titles are all held by pikes.

You mean your DZs don't have Lad of the Lamp?? Maybe that's just a KY thing...

Optimist Prime · #19 08-26-2002, 12:25 PM

we had a dream girl but that turned into drama. Our national has friends which are ladies who help us out. I want that, just girls we know who are firends. then the dream girl can be someone famous like Julia Stiles.

dzrose93 · #20 08-26-2002, 01:34 PM

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80

You mean your DZs don't have Lad of the Lamp?? Maybe that's just a KY thing...

When I was in school, our "big brothers" were called Diamond Studs. (our jewel is the diamond)

Optimist Prime · #21 08-26-2002, 02:05 PM

I think the DZ's here have a turtle man. I was the greek chat Chi Omega Sweetheart

DigitalAngel126 · #22 08-30-2002, 12:15 AM

sig kaps at ball state have a Sigma Man... last year his name was Sam, so he was 'Sam, Sam, the Sigma Man" hehe...

PsychTau · #23 08-30-2002, 12:44 PM

It is true that we cannot be members of a 'little sister' organization to any other group. (That I know for sure).

Now, it's my understanding that ASTs CAN be selected to be a sweetheart as long as it's an honor bestowed upon one woman for a specific period of time. (i.e. the fraternity can't have 25 sweethearts they pick at the same time,and have them do organized things like meetings, etc.) I also think that an AST chapter can have a Man of the Year/Semester (but not 25 of them at the same time, etc. etc.)

I will do a little research on the topic. . .

MoxieGrrl · #24 08-30-2002, 04:28 PM

My KD chapter had sweethearts. They were 5 guys total. If one graduated, you had to replace him, and there could never be more than 5 at once. Some KD chapters I know have a Daggerman, which is kinda cool.

We also had a KD King, which was the guy who won our philanthropic male "beauty pageant."

Star Turtle · #25 08-30-2002, 04:49 PM

hey girls!

i'm not sure if ya'll knew it or not, but one of your sister was national runner up for Sigma Tau Gamma's White Rose (thier sweetheart) in 2001! -- that's a great honor, and i'm proud of her, she's the coolest girl!

33girl · #26 08-30-2002, 05:42 PM

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Originally posted by PsychTau
Now, it's my understanding that ASTs CAN be selected to be a sweetheart as long as it's an honor bestowed upon one woman for a specific period of time. (i.e. the fraternity can't have 25 sweethearts they pick at the same time,and have them do organized things like meetings, etc.)

Yes, that is what I mean when I say sweetheart. I think pretty much every NPC at the very least "strongly discourages" their members from being little sisters. We're allowed to have one sweetheart but not little brothers.