Pregnancy - Page 2

DeltAlum · #16 06-12-2002, 12:46 PM

Two things.

I don't see "MD" after any of the names above. If this is really eating you alive, go to someone who really knows what what to do. Don't go with guesses and legends.

Second, I too am offended by the language and attitude of some of these posts.

You know who you are. Tone it down.

UF_Pike · #17 06-12-2002, 01:04 PM

Drose93------

I offended you? I need to think before i post? I make my frat look bad?

Let me tell you something. I dont care if i offended you! You are somebody who i dont know and more than likely, will never meet. Your view of me or my frat does not cross my mind. Every chapter is different. It seems as though classy men in your book is translated into men with distorted vision in mine. I dont know how my national brothers were at your school (I think your old and come from a southern school). We on the other hand deal with chicks.

Why is it that i need to think before i post? Is not this a public message board? Are we not allowed to express our views and opinions how we wish, within resonable standards? You, who could easily be seen as one who is tasked with the burden of being a moderator, are essentially saying I do not have any constitutional rights when posting here? You could argue that you only requested that i be more respectful and if that is the case, i ask that you not read my posts if you find them offensive. No person is making you read my post. No person is telling you to say something to me. This is all you. Are you the one who says whats offensive or not? What I may find offensive you may not find offensive and vice versuh. You dont set the moral standards. The mind of a woman is much different than that of a man.

Its a choice thing sweetie. You didnt like how i worded something and therefore felt the need to criticize me, saying i am making my chapter look bad. I ask you, what about you? I look at your post and it offended me. I think women like you should be shown humility and from time to time,ruffle your duffle. I was giving advice to another individual and the conversation was between him and I. My response was directed to him. I was not asking questions from people and nor was starting another thread.You chose to scroll down and view my message.

If you dont like what I say,do,type or advertise----Dont read my posts.

Now drop it.

LexiKD · #18 06-12-2002, 01:08 PM

UF Pike: Please tell me that you are joking! You just annouced on a public board that #1 you refer to your ex as well...... #2 You said " i never used a condom much less pulled out"....poor girl. #3 spoke to DZRose like that!?

I don't know about anyone else, but I might want to go to Dr myself with that attitude and get a full STD check up. Please be careful...STDs are serious and hello, AIDS....come on.

And by the way, you must take the pill at the same time or about the same time EVERYDAY in order for them to be 99.9% effective!

Corbin Dallas · #19 06-12-2002, 01:24 PM

I just took a gender issues class, and from what i remember, here is my advice/knowledge:

you have to take the pill within a couple of hours of the same exact time every day. if you miss a day, take 2 the following day. our prof told us this, and told us that the hormone surge when that happens would set things right. of course you don't want to do that very ofton. if you're using the rhythm method, ovulation takes place about 5-7 days before ovulation. ovulation is in the "safe" time to have sex. if used correctly rhythm is like 60% effective. for God's sake man, multiplex! even though she's on the pill, use a condom, diaphragm, spermicide, rhythm, something in addition to it.

also, if the girl is going to be on the pill, then yeah, it's her responsibility. if 2 people are in love or whatever, it BC should be the responsibility of both, but in the long run, it's not the guy that's investing anything in a pregnancy. the girl has to give much more! if she doesn't want to get pregnant, and doesn't want to have to worry about a deadbeat dad or anything, she should take initiative. the guy should be supportive though, split costs, multiplex like i said, or get no nookie i suppose....which is always a surefire way not to get pregnant if you're THAT worried about it

WorriedStudent · #20 06-12-2002, 01:25 PM

Can we do this on our own fight board or something? It's just that I don't want people to spend all their time fighting on this topic rather than giving their input. im sorry anything here started an uprising but can we kill it on this topic? thank you both for your inputs when given but id have to read through your arguments. thanx.

UF_Pike · #21 06-12-2002, 01:40 PM

Drose93---------

I'm sorry but you had me cracking up on that last post. I think it would be safe to say I ruffled your duffle.

I can see this is going no where, your impossible to try and get a point across. I was not attacking women in general, but rather you personally. So stop trying to make this into a me against all women thing. In reality it was skirmish between you and I. By calling me a PIG you are still instigating another obscene comment.

I dont write about alledged sexual exp., nor do i brag about anything. Those are simply past ep. with other chicks.

As for my posts, i have recieved numerous emails from guys laughing their asses off and telling me they feel the same way, only they dont have the balls to say what they think and feel on a public message board. As for those guys that did post to my previous posts, i think it would be safe to say that they themselves are nothing short than a vagina itself. Its guys like them that fool you women. At least i'm honest and in the open, i dont decieve chicks.

And I'm sorry but i dont smoke anything-----i'm not a pot head like you. In fact i dont do narcotics at all. I have to keep my body looking good, therfore i dont want to do anything to jepordize that. Drinking beer and doing drugs isnt going to help me try and get into the WWF or on Tuff Enough............My days of drinking are long gone.

SigmaChiCard · #22 06-12-2002, 01:53 PM

While this is loads of entertainment...pm each other if you want to bitch each other out, but leave it out of this thread. Why don't each of you delete them....not to take what you said back or anything, but to not perverse the thread any further....thanks. It's hard to get people to talk about serious things to them if everytime it happens the thread is ruined.

dzsaigirl · #23 06-12-2002, 02:04 PM

You DO have to take the pill at the same time every day! There is no magic to the fact that the name of the day was Monday at 11:59 pm and then it was Tuesday at 12:01!!!!!!!! You are supposed to take them 24 hours apart so that the hormone levels are constant.

If you were having sex with people who were not taking their pills correctly and you did not get them pregnant, that does not mean that girls don't have to take them properly. It was by chance that you did not father a baby!

People taking their pills in that way is the reason that so many people say "I was taking the pill and still got pregnant" or when women say "Both of my kids were conceived while I was on the pill". You HAVE to follow the directions!

Also, if you vomit after taking your pill or if you are on antibiotics, the pill is null and void, and you need to use backup. Personally, if it was me using the pill for BC and I was not married, I would use a backup as well all of the time!

LexiKD · #24 06-12-2002, 02:10 PM

BC is great and all but doesn't do a thing for STDs. Women should always be prepared with a back up as well....call me crazy but I have no time for a baby and/or STD!

UF_Pike · #25 06-12-2002, 02:40 PM

LexiKD,

In reply to your earlier post.........."i might want to go get a full STD check up".............

I get one every 3 months here in florida. Also, regardless what you may think i dont sleep with a great many of girls, its usally my ex-girlfriends that i am speaking of. I can talk about them, mostly because their crazy and psychotic. 1 of them slashed 2 of my tires on my benz and another painted her sorority letters real big on it in hot pink paint...... I had to ride around for a few days with Zeta Tau Alpha on my doors and hood, until i found someone to re-paint my car. The bad thing was that my dad bought my car from germany, straight from the benz factory and the color had to be made from scratch.........it was european silver...... I always end up making the girlfriends go crazy on me.......or else its the other way around......i end up going crazy.....trying to beat every guys ass they talk to.

STD FREE.......

dzrose93 · #26 06-12-2002, 02:49 PM

Out of respect to the others on this thread, I won't make any more comments about UF_Pike here, and I'll delete my previous post.

WorriedStudent, take DeltAlum's advice and visit a doctor. That's the only way that you're going to get a solid answer. Good luck. I honestly hope that everything turns out for the best.

TaraHopeful · #27 06-12-2002, 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by rswall
Umm, excuse me, but why is it the girl's responsibilty to handle the birth control? Use a condom.

AMEN!

UDZETA · #28 06-12-2002, 04:00 PM

I have many comments to give: One a women is most likily to get pregnant 11 to 18 days after her period. I got this information from a Doctor. Also the morning after pill should only be used in case of an emergancy. Use other means of protection unstead of thinking you can just use the morning after pill. To get this pill you must go to a doctor who must prescribe it to you. This pill must be no more then three days after the sexual interaction. It is best used within 24 hours. There are two pills to take. You take one pill after taking the pregnacy test then you take the other 12 hours later. The doctor will give her some other pills to keep her from getting sick. The morning after pill can make you ill. But it does work and should not be misused!!!! Women who have been raped are oftered this pill if they like. So if others misuse it, it could make it difficult for women who really need it to get it. Be responsible with your decisions. Please be careful and think of the other person and not just yourself. I child is something that should be planned and wanted not an accident. Please feel free to pm me if you want more information

I think you should read the condom thread for information on good condoms!

LexiKD · #29 06-12-2002, 04:13 PM

UFPIKE: Glad to see that you are up to date, wish more would do the same, but do you really feel Ok with not using anything? I'm curious to see a male Point of View on the subject. Or was that just with that one woman?

Sorry, just confused, it never dawned on me that anyone, in this day, would be Ok with using nothing...I mean HIV can be in your system for a long time w/o showing up.

I don't mean that women need to check protection at the door attitude, but I always figured it was understood.

dzrose93 · #30 06-12-2002, 04:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by LexiKD
UFPIKE: Glad to see that you are up to date, wish more would do the same, but do you really feel Ok with not using anything? I'm curious to see a male Point of View on the subject. Or was that just with that one woman?

Sorry, just confused, it never dawned on me that anyone, in this day, would be Ok with using nothing...I mean HIV can be in your system for a long time w/o showing up.

I don't mean that women need to check protection at the door attitude, but I always figured it was understood.

I think a lot of people, particularly college students, still have the "it can never happen to me" attitude.

I personally think that everyone should talk to their partners and get tested before deciding to have unprotected sex. (By unprotected, I'm talking about not using a condom since only condoms can offer some protection from STD's.)

I know it's a sensitive subject for people to bring up, but if you're having sex then you should be mature enough to talk about potential consequences and take steps to insure that you aren't carrying a communicable disease. I know that most county health departments will do STD tests either for free or at a really reduced rate for college students. I urge everyone to take advantage of the resources available.