Your "First Time" - A Good or Bad Experience? - Page 2

xo_sue · #16 02-18-2002, 09:43 AM

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Originally posted by ilovemyglo
Horrible doesnt describe it. I lost mine to a boy who was three years older than me who took it from me. I didn't get to give my virginity to anyone. DId I mention I was only 14, and I started high school two weeks later where he went.

I'm so sorry to hear that - you are right- you did not lose it- it was taken from you and, it sounds, in a harsh mean way.

James · #17 02-18-2002, 12:09 PM

Yeah, but when the guilt fades, all you have to do is tell it a little diffeently and its going to sound like one hell of a story! That could have come out of aHarlequin Romance Book or Pent House Letters

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Originally posted by lifesaver
Horrible. Lost it on a balcony in new Orleans, overlooking Bourbon St, like something outta a trashy Jackie Collins novel. Oh, yeah, there was a 20 year age difference between us. Ewwwwww. When I got home I had an urge to iron EVERYTHING in sight. (just kidding). It was anonymous, cheap and taudry. I had waited a long time, and it wasnt for that experience. Took me a fist full of Xanax just to get through the week after. The part that got me was that it wasnt with someone I cared for, and i was FLUCKED UP drunk. I was very angry with myself that I allowed alcohol to affect my judgement and decision making skills to that extent. I am ok with it now. Just chalked it up to an experience, and no major damage was done. (used a condom, and it was all ok - STD wise) Its prettty anecdotal now.

AOX81 · #18 02-18-2002, 12:18 PM

My first time was kind of sucky. I had just turned 17 and had been dating this guy for six months. We were both virgins so we had no idea of what the hell we were doing. If you are a guy just skip the next couple of lines...I couldn't tell if I hurt from having sex for the first time or because I started my period!! Talk about embarassing! We dated for five more years and I eventually dumped him...he just never got the hang of sex

h2oot · #19 02-18-2002, 12:29 PM

My first time was sweet and loving, but he fumbled at the goal line...lol.

We were 17 and he was my first love and both first timers. My expectations were mixed, but what we did seemed natural. I don't regret it.

There is something awesome about two young inexperienced lovers, who ARE in love, exploring one other and learning together. When you are in love, the loving part is what is special, more than the physical act. The physical part will follow soon enough if the heart leads.

volgirl2376 · #20 04-05-2002, 12:47 PM

Good...but funny

I had been dating Paul for quite sometime...I was 18 and he was 26. He was in law school in Georgia and I was at the Univ of Tennessee. We ended up dating for 2 years, got engaged, and broke it off. Anyway. we tried and tried for months...but it just wouldnt work (I wont go into detail). Well I was in the architecture building working on a project really late one night, and Paul was coming in for the weekend, and meeting me there at school. When he got there we walked around up on the 3rd floor for awhile and chatted...we started kissing and I ended up having my 1st time on someones drafting table haha. The funny thing about it was we both yelled out "oh my lord it went in...it went IN!" because we were so shocked it actually worked that time.
It was very nice and I am glad to say I had my 2nd, 3rd, and 4th in the comfort and privacy of my own room lol!

Siobhan · #21 04-05-2002, 02:16 PM

I was 20 at the time and had been going out with my b/f for about 5 months (we've been together almost 4 years now), it was good; no regrets whatsoever; I guess the only bad thing about it is now I have to say I lost my virginity in a fraternity house, which sounds pretty bad, but that's where my boyfriend was living at the time ...

UDZETA · #22 04-05-2002, 03:04 PM

My first time was amazing! It was my senior year with a guy who I had dated for two years. It was at his house and he had his room lit with candles and soft music was playing. He give me a massage for like an half an hour before we actually did it. He and I were both virgins. We are still dating now. I love him so much! -UDZETA

Peaches-n-Cream · #23 04-05-2002, 03:32 PM

WOW! Everyone has an interesting story.

XOAlumXO · #24 04-05-2002, 03:39 PM

My first time was when I was 19, a freshman in college. I had been with my boyfriend for about 4 mos. He was my first love, and it just seemed like the right thing to do- I wouldn't say it was bad, but it definetly got better as the time went on. haha. We stopped seeing each other my junior year- but he's such a sweetie and we're still friends today.

APhiRattlerGal · #25 04-05-2002, 05:18 PM

My first time was a wonderful experience. I was so in love with him and he was in love with me. It was the most beautiful thing i've experienced. We were pretty young (16) but we waited until we were both ready. We stayed together until he died in an automobile accident. It was one of the hardest thing i ever had to go through. He's still in my heart always ..... *sighs*

XO_Princess · #26 04-05-2002, 05:36 PM

Mine happened the night I graduated from high school..I was 17 and he was 16, and we were each others first love. We were both virgins, and wound up dating for 2 1/2 years. It wasn't bad at all, but during the whole thing, I was like( starts blushing)..is he in?? What's going on?? OMG, I can't believe I just admitted that, lol

. Now, thinking about sex with him I'm just like, ehhh....yucky...(we didn't part well).

Jeff OTMG · #27 04-05-2002, 11:35 PM

Great for me, okay for her. I was 15 and we dated until I was 18 and I left for college. We are still friends and talk once or twice a year even though she is married with four kids.

LeslieAGD · #28 04-06-2002, 08:53 AM

Besides the initial ackwardness of the "Do you want to?"..."Yeah, are you sure"? conversation, my first time was everything I could have asked for. Right person, right time, no regrets.

Hootie · #29 04-06-2002, 01:54 PM

May 15, 1999 (I was 19) LOL! I hadn't been dating the guy very long but we ended up dating for 1 1/2 years.
It was okay! It was uncomfortable because it was my first time and like AOX81 I had just ended my cycle and wasn't sure if it was still that or the sex... I know...T.M.I!!!
I don't regret losing my virginity ~ as a matter of fact I'm glad I waiting till College to lose it.

Hootie

ZTAngel · #30 04-06-2002, 02:28 PM

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Originally posted by Hootie
May 15, 1999 (I was 19) LOL! I hadn't been dating the guy very long but we ended up dating for 1 1/2 years.
It was okay! It was uncomfortable because it was my first time and like AOX81 I had just ended my cycle and wasn't sure if it was still that or the sex... I know...T.M.I!!!
I don't regret losing my virginity ~ as a matter of fact I'm glad I waiting till College to lose it.

Hootie

Heh heh! I actually remember the date of mine too. November 11, 1998. How many people still remember the date of their first time?