This is WAY off color, but. . .

[h2oot]

I think the most important criteria is whether you really care for somebody (aka love) and not what their reported skills are. Do ya want to ask for a resume'?

One of the pleasures is discovering each other, that is assuming you are in a relationship long enough to do that. I suppose for a one-night stand, if you are into it, that experience, p-size, level of fitness, may play a part...but I'd take a 1st timer who I love anytime. Otherwise, ya might as well get robo-dic_.

[KarenC725]

Unfortunately, I can relate to his philosophy. THe problem being, my ex didn't tell me that was his rule until AFTER we slept together.

If he won't get tested, then I think that answers everything right there. If he cares about you and the relationship, he'll do it.

[Bridget3D]

Nope, too many bugs out there. Also, eventually you'll become "just one of the girls he slept with."