Considering quitting

[FSUZeta]

STICK IT OUT!

I think it is a part frustration and part senioritis, but like the others have said, the alumnae world is so different-less time consuming, less drama, less competition. Most of the time it doesn't matter what chapter you are a member of in the alumnae world-you are a sister, and that is all that matters. Heck, the majority of us get excited when we see a sorority member period, be she a sorority sister or Panhellenic sister, and alumnae Panhellenic chapters are very welcoming. You will be missing out on wonderful opportunities of support and connections if you throw in the towel.

If you take below the required minimum hours set by your sorority you may indeed have the option of taking early alum status, so we are talking a matter of mere weeks before that might happen. You can make it until Christmas, right?

[ree-Xi]

If you don't carry a full load next semester, that takes care of things for you in a way - don't you need to be full time to be active? There might be something you can do. Talk to your advisers or regional representatives.

[greekanon]

Thank you for the encouragement everyone! I definitely needed it right now. I'll stick it out, and probably take 33girl's advice and lay low. I'm really looking forward to experiencing alumnae membership, it was a big factor for me in choosing to join a sorority actually. For now I'll uphold my organizations values to the best of my ability, and see what my options are next semester.

[AOIILisa]

Originally Posted by greekanon

Thank you for the encouragement everyone! I definitely needed it right now. I'll stick it out, and probably take 33girl's advice and lay low. I'm really looking forward to experiencing alumnae membership, it was a big factor for me in choosing to join a sorority actually. For now I'll uphold my organizations values to the best of my ability, and see what my options are next semester.

Great! Just take it one day at a time. When you're in college, a year seems like such a long time, but if you can get through this, you'll be fine. Try to see the bigger picture if you can!

[FSUZeta]

FYI, my daughter is a young alum, newly married, and living in a town where she knows few people. She is already realizing the value of joining an alumnae chapter and has also joined the alumnae Panhellenic. She asked me to tell you to try to stick it out.

[Phigirl04]

You've been given great advice. It's been ten years since my initiation and the bonds I've already made as an alumnae have been amazing. I recently moved and being able to become a part of the alumnae advisory board of a chapter and an alumnae group have helped me find a place when I initially moved knowing no one in the area. There are so many benefits to the life long part of your membership that one semester should not ruin that.

Your last year is hard because you begin distancing yourself from a lot of your normal college pursuits and focusing on your future and where you'll be after graduation. Lay low, maintain the friendships you have and value and focus on enjoying your last semester.

[ComradesTrue]

I've moved 7 different times since graduation across 3 different states. Most of those moves I met new friends through my job, but the most recent move (and last for us) was with a 6 month old when it was determined that I would become a stay-at-home mom. The best friends that I have made in this town are ones that I met through my alumnae chapter. Twenty years ago I never, ever would have fathomed the impact that my sorority membership would have had on my life. I can honestly say that the past 7 years as a alumna have had just as an important impact in my life as my 4 years as a collegian. I can not imagine my life without the friends that I have made in this town through my alumnae chapter.

Hang in there for a few more months. It is SO worth it!

[AZTheta]

I sent you a PM.

[Smile_Awhile]

For what it's worth, there's a lot of good advice in this thread: http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...=112480&page=2

I did start it, but I really appreciated all the advice given.

[amIblue?]

We have a senior agreement in place with our actives that outlines mandatory events as well as provides some additional senior programming. The actives still have to pay dues. I find that it's a good thing. I could also see where it could be a problem in a smaller chapter.

[violetpretty]

I'll echo the other comments about sticking it out. I won't ask whether your school's formal recruitment is in the fall or spring, but to give yourself a sense of purpose until you graduate, try to bond with the newest members, whether you already have them, or if they are coming next semester. They aren't necessarily jaded or apathetic yet, and inspiring them is probably the best way to attempt to energize the chapter.