Appeals Process?

[AZTheta]

Thinking that it is as important, if not more so, to learn how to handle and accept rejection, as well as success.

Thankful that when I didn't get picked for the cheerleading squad in 7th grade, I figured out quickly that (1) I probably should not be an 8th grade cheerleader and they knew what they were doing when they picked the squad because I did not look like any of the cheerleaders they picked even though I was qualified and everyone was upset that I didn't get picked (2) I was good at other things and I needed to be doing those instead (3) it was not the end of the world. Took that experience with me the rest of my life, and the payoff has been huge.

Sometimes you think that is your ship, but it's not. Let it sail on and see what's on the horizon.

[als463]

Originally Posted by AZTheta

Thinking that it is as important, if not more so, to learn how to handle and accept rejection, as well as success.

Thankful that when I didn't get picked for the cheerleading squad in 7th grade, I figured out quickly that (1) I probably should not be an 8th grade cheerleader and they knew what they were doing when they picked the squad because I did not look like any of the cheerleaders they picked even though I was qualified and everyone was upset that I didn't get picked (2) I was good at other things and I needed to be doing those instead (3) it was not the end of the world. Took that experience with me the rest of my life, and the payoff has been huge.

Sometimes you think that is your ship, but it's not. Let it sail on and see what's on the horizon.

For some reason, when people like you and 33girl speak---it always impresses me and I think people should listen to the advice of both of you. This was said really well and it is good to find other avenues of spending your free time.

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by daisy000

DeltaBetaBaby,
That's exactly the steps I have taken so far. Emailed them not to complain, but just to ask if there will be any more bids given out if people don't accept. They have not responded yet, but I don't know if that's legal anyway? I don't know how new colonies are allowed to give out bids.

Originally Posted by FSUZeta

This is not what DeltaBetaBaby suggested. She suggested that you send an email something like this:

Dear ABC sorority,

Congratulations on your new colony. I wanted to thank you for the opportunity to meet some of your (inter)national officers, learn more about the colonization process, and learn more about ABC sorority. I understand that in the next few weeks, some new members may discover that they are not able to continue their membership. If a new member should have to resign, I would love to be reconsidered for a spot in the colony. I wish ABC at Old State U the very best.

Sincerely,

Daisy000

Then, let it go. In this type of email you have been gracious and shown that you are still interested. That is all you can do.

No, no, no. Both of you completely missed DeltaBetaBaby's point.

daisy000, you shouldn't be looking to join this semester. When writing to them, you should be expressing interest in their chapter (for the future), not asking if there are going to be any openings right now. Simply letting them know you appreciate that they gave you an opportunity to meet with them, and that you would love to get to know the sisters more, is all that should be said.

Don't sound desperate. Don't "beg". Just sound interested.