This is kind of long...but just bear with me!!!
Okay after being in a relationship for about 8 or 9 months me and my boyfriend broke up (he ended it). This happened about 2 weeks before he was leaving to go out of state and sell fireworks (like far far away). Anyways, we talked one night and discussed doing something (such as a movie or something) when he got back from his trip (he was going to be gone almost month). I got really excited and he told me not to get any hopes up b/c he didn't know how things were going to work out. Basically telling me "I don't know if i want you back yet". We talked about ever other day on the phone, and things seemed to be going well. Then, one night when he was gone, I went to a club w/ friends, got pretty bombed, and ended up kissing this guy i was friends with. The next day he called me and asked me about what happened. Somehow he had found out. I told him the truth and he got really pissed at me. He told me that was cheating because I should have known we were going to get back together. My question to you is whether you would consider it cheating. I ask this for 2 reasons
1. WE WERE BROKEN UP!!!
2. I don't think that, "i should have known we were going to work things out" is a good enough reason to consider us even close to being in a relationship.
Could you please let me know what you think....its really bothering me and i am almost sure i didn't do anything wrong.