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Old 05-08-2001, 11:19 AM
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Well, let's see. It's been 3 years, I still wear a dz shirt every now and then--I've got loads of them, but my wardrobe has changed and I wear more 'dressy' stuff nowdays than I did in college--so basically I don't wear letters as much because, well, I just don't have any suits with the letters DZ on them, and I'm not sure my business would like that too much.

I just bought a new car--my old car had 2 bumper stickers on it, one with turtles, one saying Delta Zeta. I'm not putting anything on my new car--I've never been a bumper sticker gal--I just did it because I had them and it was an old car. It's not that I don't LOVE delta zeta--I just don't want to put anything on my new car . . .

I am getting married soon, I live with my fiance and have been for about 2 years (in august). When we first moved in together, our house looked like a college dorm room. I had tons of turtles and DZ signs and NOTHING else to decorate with! I didn't want my house to look like a dorm room forever, so slowly that stuff got packed away and I got more things to actually make our house look like a home.


I don't think it has anything to do with the sorority--I think it just has to do with the fact that peoples lives change after college--dramatically. It's not a lack of love for their organization--it's just that they've moved on in life and do other things. I'm constantly in contact with an alumni chapter here--I'm still involved, I just don't decorate or sport my dz stuff as much because my life has changed. I've had people ask about my badge (I've worn it with a suit before to work) and think it's really cool--but I've also had people roll their eyes at me. It's obvious they don't know what it stands for--but it's never good to have co-workers or bosses think you're not a serious person--or that you're lost in your college days.

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Old 05-08-2001, 01:47 PM
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My personalized license plate says "SUE-XO" -but everyone is so non-greek in Connecticut- that when I get a compliment on it - it is because they think the xo stand for a kiss and a hug! Oh well! I do have all my paddles hanging in our T.V. room and I plant red and yellow flowers all around our house! Little things that keep reminding me of Chi Omega Sue
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Old 05-09-2001, 11:52 PM
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Old 05-10-2001, 02:10 AM
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My cousin's wife is a Kappa and she's been alum for about 5 years now, and everything in their house is decorated with fleur-de-lis and she bought me a set of coffee mugs with irises on it (DPhiE flower). Ok that last part of sentence doesn't totally fit, but I guess what it's saying is that there are other ways of showing pride in your glo in your alum years other than sporting your letters .
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Old 05-10-2001, 02:32 AM
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I can understand how things have changed. I have graduated and my new house is VERY different from my college apartment! BUT I still have A LOT of KD elements up.
Well, I don't have random "college" looking stuff in my house, but I do have a nice framed picture of a natulius shell and I have dried white roses in pretty arrangements and my membership certificate is going to be framed with our original small badge. I just think when I'm older I would love a KD room or nice things for my office. I think it reflects what I love!
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Old 05-13-2001, 04:23 PM
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I don't know if this can be explained. Instead of studying for my Statistics final, I'm thinking about this...I have a few possible reasons.
1). Members of NPC groups usually Rush/are initiated fairly early in their collegiate careers (like, first semester), while NPHC members usually can't join until their sophomore years or later. Maybe it's an issue of burn out in some cases? Like, after 4 years of being XYZ, it's time to move on, whereas NPHC members haven't been members as long? I have a cousin who was initiated into an NPHC sorority her senior year in college, and is still really into it (more than other NPHC alumnae I know her age) after two years after school.
2). I'm agreeing with the idea that your life changes. In some cases, you live with members, eat with them--your entire social sphere is the sorority. After college, your life changes--you move, you live alone, you get a real job, you get married. Your sorority just isn't that important to you anymore. Instead of wearing your letters to class every day, you might just wear them around the house. Or instead of having your paddles up in your dorm room, you have your Initiation Certificate framed with your sorority flower in vases. There are more mature ways of expressing sorority pride.
3). There IS a stigma, regardless of whether or not we believe it exists, against Greeks. For some employers, a member wearing letters or carrying things with letters may denote to them irresponsibility (due to the bad rep Greeks have--earned and unearned), or immaturity (it is really a college thing). One would not want their co-workers to believe that "Oh, so-and-so was a 'sorority girl'...she must not be a good employee." And you KNOW people think that.

Okay...I'm rambling. On to Statistics!

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