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Originally Posted by aephi alum
Even so, if Sandy is going to stomp her feet and say "you take Candy with me or else" and Candy is not ABC material... frell, let 'em both go to XYZ. Somebody who's not even a member yet (and who never may be a member, with her attitude) should not be making demands.
If Sandy is ABC material and Candy is not, offer Sandy the COB. She can then make up her own mind.... go ABC, or go XYZ with Candy.
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But that's not what I'm saying. We never had a PNM demand, or even express a preference, that we take her friend. It's just clear that they are rushing together, and that their friendship can be a factor in the decision for both of them.
I mean, what is "not ABC material"? Not to get into membership selection, but when it comes to COB, you're judging each PNM on her own merits, not against other PNM's. If someone is really that awful that you can't imagine her in your chapter at all, I'd question why you want her BFF who obviously has terrible taste in friends.
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