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Old 11-12-2001, 08:32 PM
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I would have to agree with loviest95 on this one. I always told myself that I wanted to jump the broom at my wedding. I've read about a few African traditions that some people have incorporated into their weddings, but I think that if you want to add some individuality to your wedding, by all means.
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Old 11-12-2001, 10:13 PM
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A little research

[QUOTE]Originally posted by straightBOS


Do you know where in Africa- from which country or tribe this tradidtion supposedly originates?

I'm intrigued by this topic and I'd like to find out more.
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From: http://www.imdiversity.com/villages/...rticle_ID=3831

A Touch Of History

Slavery stripped the Africans of everything that made them uniquely human: their names, their language, their heritage, and their freedom.

With that loss of freedom, slaves were stripped even of the basic freedom to pick a mate and marry.

Slaveholders reasoned that if allowed to formally marry and live together, the disenfranchised Africans might gather their numbers and revolt, according to Harriette Cole, former fashion editor of Essence magazine and author of "Jumping the Broom Wedding Workbook" (Henry Holt, $18.95).

"Yet the slaves were spiritual people who had been taught rituals that began as early as childhood to prepare them for that big step into family life," Cole wrote in a published report. "They became inventive and developed the tradition of 'jumping the broom'."

Seen as a quaint amusement by slaveholders, the ritual and the broom itself held spiritual significance for many Africans. The broom represented the birth of a household for a couple, the sweeping away of the old and welcoming the new.

For the Kgatia of southern Africa, it was customary, for example, on the day after the nuptials for the bride to join the other women in the family in sweeping clean the courtyard. This signaled her desire and obligation to help with chores at her in-law's home until the couple found their own abode.

During slavery, against a backbeat of booming drums, the lovers bounded over a broom to symbolize their leap into wedlock.

Research of slave narratives and other early-19th-century documentation have unearthed the methods in which slave couples did their jumping, writes Cole. "With the master's permission, a couple was allowed to stand before witnesses, pledge their devotion to each other and finally jump over a broom, which would indicate their step into married life."


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Unless my fiance-to-be has significant issues with it, I will incorporating a variety of African American (jumping the broom) and African rituals (honoring the ancestors with libations, drumming during the reception) into our wedding day. I had always felt jumping the broom was a way to honor the incredible strength and perserverance of my ancestors during involuntary slavery.
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Old 11-13-2001, 01:35 AM
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Old 11-13-2001, 02:47 PM
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It seems that the author of that anti-broom article had an agenda. He cited only one slave owner who seemed to make a mockery of the tradition. Most African American traditions are based on what we could retain from African and what we melded with slave traditions. We can't just throw away traditions because some people mocked it. Slaves were actually encouraged to marry as the marriages created new wealth for the owners in offspring that could be used and/or sold., especially after the ban on importation of slaves in the early 1800's.

Another thing, most African marriages, then, and many now, were not about love or emotion, but were arranged affairs, based on family ties or economic reasons, especially those that are influenced by Arab traditions.
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Old 04-14-2005, 01:38 PM
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Re: A little research

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Originally posted by Shelacious
From me:
Unless my fiance-to-be has significant issues with it, I will incorporating a variety of African American (jumping the broom) and African rituals (honoring the ancestors with libations, drumming during the reception) into our wedding day. I had always felt jumping the broom was a way to honor the incredible strength and perserverance of my ancestors during involuntary slavery. [/B]
Same here.
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Old 04-17-2005, 02:34 PM
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people say that I shouldn't eat chitterlings, b/c our ancestors were given them as scraps
I NEVER knew that. wow.

I don't like chitterlings anyway, but this I never knew.
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Old 04-20-2005, 07:27 PM
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Phasad,
That is the *only* possible reason that people could have started eating it. We all know what it is.... Why we continue is beyond me. I know someone who cleans them with bleach. Ok, if I have to clean it with bleach....
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I NEVER knew that. wow.

I don't like chitterlings anyway, but this I never knew.
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