Fraternity Recruitment - Harder Than Sorority Recruitment?

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Um, hello????

Your fraternities are unrecognized by the school. Anyone looking at your college's Greek life page would think that they don't even exist. It's a minor miracle that they still have and are still able to attract as many people as they do.

Sorry, but your school is a huge ginormous anomaly and you don't get to answer this question.

Wow, yeah that would make a big difference.

[pearlbubbles]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Um, hello????

Your fraternities are unrecognized by the school. Anyone looking at your college's Greek life page would think that they don't even exist. It's a minor miracle that they still have and are still able to attract as many people as they do.

Sorry, but your school is a huge ginormous anomaly and you don't get to answer this question.

I am fully aware of that. I simply posed my opinion in regards to a lack of structured recruitment (like rush parties at all houses) which seems to be the case at many other universities and colleges. You will notice I did first cite a lack of publicity which is based on this lack of recognition--but I figured everyone knew about that situation by this point in time as it happened half a decade ago.

Despite their lack of recognition, I do think they are doing quite well for themselves and their numbers are largely similar to surrounding schools, whose fraternities, as a whole, are recognized by their respective universities. I also said I could not speak for the entire Greek system, as again, CU's is a special case.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by pearlbubbles

I am fully aware of that. I simply posed my opinion in regards to a lack of structured recruitment (like rush parties at all houses) which seems to be the case at many other universities and colleges. You will notice I did first cite a lack of publicity which is based on this lack of recognition--but I figured everyone knew about that situation by this point in time as it happened half a decade ago.

Despite their lack of recognition, I do think they are doing quite well for themselves and their numbers are largely similar to surrounding schools, whose fraternities, as a whole, are recognized by their respective universities. I also said I could not speak for the entire Greek system, as again, CU's is a special case.

None of us can speak for the whole Greek system. But for those people who didn't read your location or who aren't aware of the CU situation (like people who've only been Greek for a year and were in HS when the fraternities were first derecognized), yeah, you should have maybe mentioned that teensy point.

[SDer]

i would like to know as well because sororities seem to have more members compared to fraternity at my school but that maybe due to the stigma associated with fraternity life. This is not a negative from my perspective the more sorority there are helps the greek system influence the whole school through activities and group involvement. PLUS!!

[Gusteau]

Originally Posted by SDer

i would like to know as well because sororities seem to have more members compared to fraternity at my school but that maybe due to the stigma associated with fraternity life. This is not a negative from my perspective the more sorority there are helps the greek system influence the whole school through activities and group involvement. PLUS!!

I think its also important to remember that more women attend universities on average than men, so this also contributes to the difference.

Like I said, comparing fraternity and sorority recruitment is not as far as apples and oranges, but maybe lemons and limes. They're different.

[pearlbubbles]

I have edited my post accordingly, but I also do not think it is necessary to discuss the situation every time the fraternities are brought up, especially taking into consideration that all of that happened before I ever arrived at the university myself, and I was not trying to make another thread about CU's fraternities in particular, as there are already plenty of threads that solely discuss it.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by pearlbubbles

I have edited my post accordingly, but I also do not think it is necessary to discuss the situation every time the fraternities are brought up, especially taking into consideration that all of that happened before I ever arrived at the university myself, and I was not trying to make another thread about CU's fraternities in particular, as there are already plenty of threads that solely discuss it.

No but when we're discussing something systemically and you're a major exception to the rule due to nature of your school's Greek system, noting that is considered polite.

[Psi U MC Vito]

Originally Posted by pearlbubbles

I have edited my post accordingly, but I also do not think it is necessary to discuss the situation every time the fraternities are brought up,

It is a germane point to at least mention, because it does matter.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by pearlbubbles

I have edited my post accordingly, but I also do not think it is necessary to discuss the situation every time the fraternities are brought up, especially taking into consideration that all of that happened before I ever arrived at the university myself, and I was not trying to make another thread about CU's fraternities in particular, as there are already plenty of threads that solely discuss it.

***bangsheaddesk***

Then all you have to do is find one of those threads and link to it so people understand the situation at your school. It's not going to create a huge discussion, it's just a matter of people having all the facts before they reply which is something that's so irritating on here.

I mean, if someone came on here and said "the sororities are 20x larger than the fraternities" and didn't mention that they were a student at the Mississippi University for Women (which does have male students) the post wouldn't make much sense.

[pearlbubbles]

I have included a relevant article I prefer and I apologize for the previous omission. I was merely trying to keep the thread on topic and it seems that this has kept that from happening smoothly.

[pshsx1]

It's completely different at my school. Since about 20% of the student body consists of females, it's a breeze joining a sorority (or so it seems). I've noticed that, with the sororities, if you don't get a bid the first time, you can just keep trying and one of them will bid you eventually. Since there are so many guys, the fraternities can afford to be really selective and it's a bit more cut throat.

Not saying our sororities are just a heterogeneous blob of weirdness, though. There's still definitely certain types of girls who join the sororities and they're all great. Plus, with most of the sororities, you still have to get through pledging and that's another thread. :P

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Jen

Aside from the fact it seems like there are more fraternities than sororities on campuses, I also feel like fraternity recruitment is less structured. It feels like if you're not as outgoing or proactive then it might be harder and cause more guys to drop or not even attempt it.

Whereas with sororities, you show up and they make sure you see all the groups and get to each house and it's far more organized, which I think with shy individuals or those that aren't as outgoing, it might make it easier to get involved.

Just a random thought.

It's easier to get involved, but I don't think it's easier to get a bid by any means. Probably most of the guys who start rushing will go the whole way thru the process (such as it is) and end up somewhere, if they don't limit themselves and if they're true to themselves. If a group doesn't like them, they just say "screw them" and look at someone else, rather than letting the rejection defeat them entirely (as women often do, and dropping out of rush). Again, I think that's just a "men and women are different" function.