Choosing the right house!!!! - Page 2

Ggirl617 · #16 04-11-2010, 11:51 PM

It seems like she is asking how to know which houses are being real during recruitment and which ones are putting on a show and might be different after recruitment is over. Ask what the girls like to do. Some will say they love going out. Some will say they love getting together for movie nights. Some will say other stuff. You will be able to discern, I'm sure

RebelCheerBabii · #17 04-11-2010, 11:57 PM

well im glad some people here are helpful! idk why u are insulting my school when u dont even know me! i just asked a simple question, u couldve just ignored it instead of personally attacking me!
it seems like everyone keeps telling me i wont get into top houses. that doesnt seem fair to assume that when u dont even know who i am or what im like! for all u know, i could be perfect and will be wanted by all the houses i rush. thats why i want to know how to tell what the houses are really like so i can have my pick of them!

as my mom always says, dont say anything nice if you cant say anything at all!

RebelCheerBabii · #18 04-11-2010, 11:59 PM

oops i got that backwards! the saying is if u cant say anything nice dont say anything at all

these ap tests are turning my brain into mush!!!

Ooh La La · #19 04-12-2010, 12:01 AM

It's your attitude of entitlement that is making everyone here say the things they are.

If this same attitude comes out during your recruitment, I'm assuming you can expect a similar reaction.

Psi U MC Vito · #20 04-12-2010, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by RebelCheerBabii

well im glad some people here are helpful! idk why u are insulting my school when u dont even know me! i just asked a simple question, u couldve just ignored it instead of personally attacking me!
it seems like everyone keeps telling me i wont get into top houses. that doesnt seem fair to assume that when u dont even know who i am or what im like! for all u know, i could be perfect and will be wanted by all the houses i rush. thats why i want to know how to tell what the houses are really like so i can have my pick of them!

as my mom always says, dont say anything nice if you cant say anything at all!

You walk on water as well. Judging by your username, you are planing on rushing in one of the most competitive campuses in the country. It is better to assume that you will only get one then that you will get your pick. For one thing, they will pick up on that self important entitlement lightning quick.

Jill1228 · #21 04-12-2010, 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by RebelCheerBabii

oops i got that backwards! the saying is if u cant say anything nice dont say anything at all

these ap tests are turning my brain into mush!!!

AP? Is that short for Airhead Placement?

My mom always said, "If you can't say anything nice, come sit by me!"

And lose the entitlement attitude. If you have it going through recruitment, they will chew you up and spit you out

lovespink88 · #22 04-12-2010, 12:10 AM

Jill1228 · #23 04-12-2010, 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by lovespink88

But at least your troll is in the right house

RebelCheerBabii · #24 04-12-2010, 12:25 AM

first of all, what's with the dolls? i havent seen those since like, first grade! their so cute!! kinda random tho.../????

idk why psi thinks she knows where im going to school...i havent even decided for sure yet!!! ive got until may 1, but i applied to tons of schools so its hard to choose! psi, if u already know where im going in the fall please tell me! itd be nice to see in to the future and make this decision alot easier!!

im really not trying to be entitled. im just aware of what im capable of and maximizing my options. if you have a 4.0 and perfect test scores you wouldnt apply to community college would you? no youd shoot for harvard cuz you know thats what your capable of!!!

RebelCheerBabii · #25 04-12-2010, 12:35 AM

thats retarded. if u arent gonna help me, i might as well stop wasting my time with u. at least i have better things to do than sit infront of my computer all day posting pics of dolls!

Psi U MC Vito · #26 04-12-2010, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by RebelCheerBabii

first of all, what's with the dolls? i havent seen those since like, first grade! their so cute!! kinda random tho.../????

idk why psi thinks she knows where im going to school...i havent even decided for sure yet!!! ive got until may 1, but i applied to tons of schools so its hard to choose! psi, if u already know where im going in the fall please tell me! itd be nice to see in to the future and make this decision alot easier!!

im really not trying to be entitled. im just aware of what im capable of and maximizing my options. if you have a 4.0 and perfect test scores you wouldnt apply to community college would you? no youd shoot for harvard cuz you know thats what your capable of!!!

Your Screenname is RebelCheer. I hear rebel and I think of Ole Miss. Also, you can be on paper the perfect candidate, but you could be the most unlikeable human being to walk the face of the earth. So you would be dropped like a hot potato, and arrogance turns a lot of people off. Big difference between applying for college and joining a sorority.

ADPiTigergurl · #27 04-12-2010, 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

Your Screenname is RebelCheer. I hear rebel and I think of Ole Miss. Also, you can be on paper the perfect candidate, but you could be the most unlikeable human being to walk the face of the earth. So you would be dropped like a hot potato, and arrogance turns a lot of people off. Big difference between applying for college and joining a sorority.

I also would of assumed Ole Miss when seeing Rebel.. As fo rbeing perfect on paper, go read a rec. story thread; there are lots of women who are perfect on paper but for whatever reason still go bidless. Also as far as sorority and campus yes there is a huge difference! Sororities are much much more selective as here are many less of them! As for OP's original question you will just know, the system will play out and it will just feel right.

Also OP it's not a doll, its a TROLL.

ASTalumna06 · #28 04-12-2010, 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by RebelCheerBabii

it seems like everyone keeps telling me i wont get into top houses. that doesnt seem fair to assume that when u dont even know who i am or what im like! for all u know, i could be perfect and will be wanted by all the houses i rush. thats why i want to know how to tell what the houses are really like so i can have my pick of them!

No one is telling you that you won't get into "top" houses. If you were as smart as you claim to be, you might have picked up on that.

Tiers and top houses aren't things that we discuss here, except to say that the concept is ridiculous.

Even if we wanted to tell you which houses are the "best", we can't, because YOU don't even know where you're going to college yet.

People told you to go into rush and judge for yourself. Because.. ya know.. you have to live with this decision. We don't.

Some have criticized your high school because your spelling and grammar skills are atrocious. If you think that those things only matter while writing a paper for school, you'd be sadly mistaken.

You're not perfect.

BeeVee · #29 04-12-2010, 07:57 AM

I kind of take offense to your post... I'm in the club at my school that most people stereotype as having the "awkward" or "different" girls. That doesn't mean that just because we have our quirks and that we aren't carbon copies of each other that we aren't genuinely amazing women or that we aren't pretty or that we don't have what the other groups do. And let me put it on the record, I could never imagine my life without my sisters! I've never regretted accepting my bid for even a single moment. I agree with many of the other posters, if that is where your head is about rushing and joining a sorority, you've got your priorities ALL sorts of messed up... Just sayin'.

violetpretty · #30 04-12-2010, 08:08 AM

RCB- Not to worry, your head will be filled with plenty more garbage during recruitment. PNMs in the know will tell you their perceptions and opinions of which chapters are "top" and "bottom".

Like I said before, it's true, we don't know where you're going to school (and neither do you apparently). The "Rebel" in your username suggests Ole Miss. If you do indeed decide to go to Ole Miss, I can say with confidence that you WON'T get into a top chapter. How do I know this? If you were "top tier" material at Ole Miss or equally competitive schools, you'd already know which chapters are considered top. They'd already know you through their network. You'd have alumnae offering to write recs for you. Still, even those things can't guarantee you a spot in a top chapter. At certain schools, connections are of utmost importance, and you haven't said a thing about recs or connections.