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Anytime =] I love to share!!
MG I totally get where you are coming from too. Before I joined Phi Sig things like paddles made me nervous because of everything I have seen in the media about sororities.
However as soon as I joined and I saw things like this for the traditions and gifts that they are, it was much easier. I had a lot of fun making something special that my Big will keep forever and really put a lot of effort into because I care about her and I wanted to.
There is a sorority on my campus that does not allow paddles or anything like that and honestly I am so glad I didn't end up there because I would feel like I was missing out. I think the paddles are fine as long as they are used as just a tradition of making a thoughtful and creative gift for your Big and then getting one yourself as a Big.
PS. I would also really like to see more pictures! I actually only found this website because I was searching for ideas on how to make my paddle and I used other pictures and my own ideas to create it.
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