i was interested in pledgingg!?!?!?!

[AKA_Monet]

I have a wonderful place where you ought to post the EXACT SAME INFO you posted here! They will LOVE you with open arms!

Click here to begin your pledging process!!!

[sinfonian19]

I just took the thread for what it was-grammatically screwed but containing an honest inquiry. Can she type? well obviously not! Can she speak better than she types? who knows! But in spite of the chewed up version of English displayed in her post I believed that I understood what she was attempting to say and if my assumptions were correct then I stand on what I previously stated

She said

i get u dont have to be nice and u want to see if im loyal but shit, it dont make no sense for their level of meanness! now we straight up awkward around each other.

now conceding the fact of her obvious mistakes, she is right (that is if she's telling the complete truth) about the unwarranted bitterness being directed towards someone who is interested in the org whether they want you in or not
If this is true then it IS childish. You need to be business minded at times when it comes to glo whether its social, service, or professional...
If you don't want someone you just simply don't vote for them and end it there oppose to being mean to them

Originally Posted by sinfonian19

I just took the thread for what it was-grammatically screwed but containing an honest inquiry. Can she type? well obviously not! Can she speak better than she types? who knows! But in spite of the chewed up version of English displayed in her post I believed that I understood what she was attempting to say and if my assumptions were correct then I stand on what I previously stated

She said

now conceding the fact of her obvious mistakes, she is right (that is if she's telling the complete truth) about the unwarranted bitterness being directed towards someone who is interested in the org whether they want you in or not
If this is true then it IS childish. You need to be business minded at times when it comes to glo whether its social, service, or professional...
If you don't want someone you just simply don't vote for them and end it there oppose to being mean to them

Anybody else think this dude's a dead ringer for PIP?

[sinfonian19]

They're called opinions and it has become apparent to me that mine isn't too welcomed on this topic...I really don't see anything wrong with what I posted lol I mean should I have ridiculed her? Is that any more right than my intial response? But I digress...sites such as Greekchat.com are really enjoyable regardless of the _________ lol

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by OTW

Anybody else think this dude's a dead ringer for PIP?

You just gotta love Keyboard Courage though!!!

[sinfonian19]

um...oh my

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by sinfonian19

They're called opinions and it has become apparent to me that mine isn't too welcomed on this topic...I really don't see anything wrong with what I posted lol I mean should I have ridiculed her? Is that any more right than my intial response? But I digress...sites such as Greekchat.com are really enjoyable regardless of the _________ lol

It's not that your opinions aren't welcome. It's the fact that you completely bashed her chapter without knowing anything about it.

And quite frankly, her question wasn't, "What do you think of my chapter?" It was, "What should I do?"

You don't have to ridicule her. But I wouldn't give her advice knowing little to nothing about the situation... no matter what her typing/speaking skills are like.

[sinfonian19]

Honestly, I can only comment based on the information offered by the original poster
She basically said that the chapter was mean..very mean..so mean in fact that should couldn't make sense of it...Now maybe there is a reason why they are acting that way towards her, but she didn't list it so I'm not going to try to create a scenerio, circumstance not explained by the poster to justify the actions of the chapter...I told her to just go grad if the chapter is as bad as she say it is it makes nosense to not become apart of the org just because the silly actions of a chapter...I mean thats how I view it....if she's actually being accurate in her accounts

[Senusret I]

Originally Posted by sinfonian19

Honestly, I can only comment based on the information offered by the original poster
She basically said that the chapter was mean..very mean..so mean in fact that should couldn't make sense of it...Now maybe there is a reason why they are acting that way towards her, but she didn't list it so I'm not going to try to create a scenerio, circumstance not explained by the poster to justify the actions of the chapter...I told her to just go grad if the chapter is as bad as she say it is it makes nosense to not become apart of the org just because the silly actions of a chapter...I mean thats how I view it....if she's actually being accurate in her accounts

For what it's worth, I agree with you.

And I'm Senusret I, so it's worth a lot.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

And I'm Senusret I, so it's worth a lot.

He speaks the truth...

[mccoyred]

Originally Posted by sinfonian19

Honestly, I can only comment based on the information offered by the original poster
She basically said that the chapter was mean..very mean..so mean in fact that should couldn't make sense of it...Now maybe there is a reason why they are acting that way towards her, but she didn't list it so I'm not going to try to create a scenerio, circumstance not explained by the poster to justify the actions of the chapter...I told her to just go grad if the chapter is as bad as she say it is it makes nosense to not become apart of the org just because the silly actions of a chapter...I mean thats how I view it....if she's actually being accurate in her accounts

The OP is just one party in the entire situation. Rather than automatically taking her word for it, before commenting, one should try to see ALL sides of the issue. Have you ever thought that the OP is the immature one OR that she may be the cause of all the drama??

[Fiyah98]

Originally Posted by sinfonian19

Honestly, I can only comment based on the information offered by the original poster
She basically said that the chapter was mean..very mean..so mean in fact that should couldn't make sense of it...Now maybe there is a reason why they are acting that way towards her, but she didn't list it so I'm not going to try to create a scenerio, circumstance not explained by the poster to justify the actions of the chapter...I told her to just go grad if the chapter is as bad as she say it is it makes nosense to not become apart of the org just because the silly actions of a chapter...I mean thats how I view it....if she's actually being accurate in her accounts

ITA

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by mccoyred

The OP is just one party in the entire situation. Rather than automatically taking her word for it, before commenting, one should try to see ALL sides of the issue. Have you ever thought that the OP is the immature one OR that she may be the cause of all the drama??

I would assume he has thought about that, since he said

Originally Posted by sinfonian19

....if she's actually being accurate in her accounts

[AOEforme]

You already posted this question, and KSUViolet06 gave you excellent advice. You'd be wise to follow it, especially as you have not been discrete with your location or situation.

[knight_shadow]

Mizzcutie -

There's no need to post the same question three times. Follow the link KSUViolet gave you.

ETA: What AOEforme said.