"Why can't he stop being a bitch and be a man" - Page 2

Phrozen1ne · #16 05-19-2009, 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by deltadevil

yep this thread made it to pledgepark.. will be interesting to see what is said over there

Apparently you already know......>>>>>>>>>>> "Those damn Alphas. One of them decided to go gorilla on somebodies azz."

DrPhil · #17 05-19-2009, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Professor

I did not direct this matter to you. However, if it applies . . .

You addressed it to ONE member and pretended to make it a general statement. Passive aggressive.

A general statement does not require any reference to AKAs coming to you about YOUR frat brother.

Another sucky moderator.

Professor · #18 05-19-2009, 09:42 AM

I don't need you to validate my comments nor my actions. This issue speaks to mutual respect and uplift that the majority of my fraternity Brothers value. You are not a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity and seemingly are clueless regarding values that we hold dear. To that end, stay in your lane as I know how to drive.

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Originally Posted by DrPhil

You addressed it to ONE member and pretended to make it a general statement. Passive aggressive.

A general statement does not require any reference to AKAs coming to you about YOUR frat brother.

Another sucky moderator.

DrPhil · #19 05-19-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Professor

I don't need you to validate my comments nor my actions. This issue speaks to mutual respect and uplift that the majority of my fraternity Brothers value. You are not a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity and seemingly are clueless regarding values that we hold dear. To that end, stay in your lane as I know how to drive.

I don't need you to need me to validate your comments nor your actions. A reminder of mutual respect does not require the references used in your OP. If your reminder to your frat was a general one in tone, none of us would have commented.

But, most of us commenting aren't Alphas, yet you respond to me only. Selective, indeed. The values that you hold dear are nothing to be clueless about, and they don't include what you tried to do with this thread. My lane is wherever this thread is. My lane is not, however, in PMs which is where your stupidity should have been sent.

DrPhil · #20 05-19-2009, 09:51 AM

If this thread had been created by a nonmoderator, the original post may've been edited to remove the AKA references or a moderator would say "brothers, take it to PM" and closed the thread.

Apparently, messiness is only tolerated from moderators.

MysticCat · #21 05-19-2009, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Professor

You are not a member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity and seemingly are clueless regarding values that we hold dear. To that end, stay in your lane as I know how to drive.

You're the one who chose to air this publically, so if you're getting out-of-lane feedback calling you on the hypocricy of your post, you've got no one to blame but yourself.

KSigkid · #22 05-19-2009, 10:56 AM

It raises a red flag to me when one brother/sister calls out another brother/sister on the open board.

It raises an even bigger flag when the brother/sister doing the calling out is a moderator of the forum.

I really don't understand why the original post couldn't have been left to PM, especially since there are already threads (including a sticky thread at the top of the forum) advising about message board etiquette.

Professor · #23 05-19-2009, 11:09 AM

Perhaps there was an attempt to communicate via pm. Nonetheless, if the issue does not describe your behavior and is not directed to any particular person then why be bothered - - -

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Originally Posted by KSigkid

It raises a red flag to me when one brother/sister calls out another brother/sister on the open board.

It raises an even bigger flag when the brother/sister doing the calling out is a moderator of the forum.

I really don't understand why the original post couldn't have been left to PM, especially since there are already threads (including a sticky thread at the top of the forum) advising about message board etiquette.

MysticCat · #24 05-19-2009, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by KSigkid

It raises a red flag to me when one brother/sister calls out another brother/sister on the open board.

It raises an even bigger flag when the brother/sister doing the calling out is a moderator of the forum.

And when the thread on the open board is given a title like the title of this thread, and when the brother doing the calling out keeps putting brother in quotation marks, as though to suggest that the brother being addressed may not be a real brother, well . . .

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Originally Posted by Professor

Nonetheless, if the issue does not describe your behavior and is not directed to any particular person then why be bothered - - -

Except it clearly was directed to a particular person.

As kddani said:

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Originally Posted by kddani

APhiA is not my lane, obviously, but then again, calling out hypocrisy is everyone's lane!

Senusret I · #25 05-19-2009, 01:59 PM

Everything posted in this thread made me smile.

Thaaaaaaaaanks

Professor · #26 05-19-2009, 03:32 PM

You have truly shown your true colors - lol - THANK YOU!!!!!

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Originally Posted by Senusret I

Everything posted in this thread made me smile.

Thaaaaaaaaanks

Senusret I · #27 05-19-2009, 03:46 PM

Hypocrite.

Munchkin03 · #28 05-19-2009, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I

Everything posted in this thread made me smile.

Thaaaaaaaaanks

No, thank YOU for allowing me to use the word "chickenhead." I love that word.

Senusret I · #29 05-19-2009, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Munchkin03

No, thank YOU for allowing me to use the word "chickenhead." I love that word.

The power to invoke "chickenhead" was inside you all along. Just believe in yourself.

Dionysus · #30 05-19-2009, 04:45 PM

Chickenhead? Last time I heard anyone call a woman that was 2001! LOL

Lets bring it back!

*singing*

Bald head scallywag ain't got no hair in the back....