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01-04-2008, 04:52 AM
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I really sound like a parent
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01-04-2008, 04:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne
Well said! It has nothing to do with whether your a man or a woman. Is all about having morals, values, and exercising self-restraint.
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Exactly!
Good to see another brother on here with morals.
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01-04-2008, 05:02 AM
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It isn't easy, but I try to practice what I preach. We can't keep making excuses for childish behavior, saying things like,"I am a man and thats what we do." We may think about something like this, but there is a hell of a difference between thinking and doing.
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01-04-2008, 05:17 AM
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It isn't easy, but I try to practice what I preach. We can't keep making excuses for childish behavior, saying things like,"I am a man and thats what we do." We may think about something like this, but there is a hell of a difference between thinking and doing.
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I couldn't agree with you more. I think for a lot people it's hard being faithful to that SO. We all are weak in one area or another. For me, it just happens to be this area where I'm not weak at all when it comes to being a committed man to one woman. I've never been the one to cheat, or see other woman as more than friends on the side. I've always been that way (since puberty) and I always will be that way. I just get disgusted when I see people sleeping around, because I can't understand why they do it. To me it's just flat out stupid.
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01-04-2008, 01:35 PM
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Its just that I would have an issue with my frat brothers trying to pass some girl/frat hoe to me that they all have smashed. I would assume that eventually folks would grow out of that, but.....some have not. Too many stds going around and condoms don't protect you against everything.
I knew a girl who would get down with xyz fraternity members on campus and ended up pregnant not knowing who the father of her child was. Trust me when I say, the members of that frat that got down with her were not trying to step up and claim her son either.
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01-05-2008, 01:34 AM
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Its just that I would have an issue with my frat brothers trying to pass some girl/frat hoe to me that they all have smashed. I would assume that eventually folks would grow out of that, but.....some have not. Too many stds going around and condoms don't protect you against everything.
I knew a girl who would get down with xyz fraternity members on campus and ended up pregnant not knowing who the father of her child was. Trust me when I say, the members of that frat that got down with her were not trying to step up and claim her son either.
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Yeah, I know what you mean. I wouldn't touch a woman that got smashed by multiple men. Even if she changed, I still wouldn't. That's too many men. I could see if I had been with several women, but since I haven't then it's o.k. for me to be as picky as I am.
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01-05-2008, 02:57 AM
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PeeBee, what's your obsession with tight women? Does a tight vagina remind you of something else?
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01-05-2008, 03:10 AM
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wow.....allllllrighty then...
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01-05-2008, 11:29 PM
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this is kinda funny... i've never dated a greek guy but i've heard that they're ALL shady... I remember one guy (org I will not mention) who hit on me and tried his hardest even though i KNEW he had a girlfriend... how did i know? well, a little while later it was revealed, and surprise! his girlfriend is one of my LS's... I'll let your imaginations run wild on what his face looked like when my LS introduced us for the "first time"
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You pretty much have to wait until they get the immaturity out of their system. I wouldn't suggest anyone to date a guy who just crossed because all they have their mind focused on is, their fraternity and trying to run through the women as if they were in a candy shop.
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01-05-2008, 11:35 PM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
I couldn't agree with you more. I think for a lot people it's hard being faithful to that SO. We all are weak in one area or another. For me, it just happens to be this area where I'm not weak at all when it comes to being a committed man to one woman. I've never been the one to cheat, or see other woman as more than friends on the side. I've always been that way (since puberty) and I always will be that way. I just get disgusted when I see people sleeping around, because I can't understand why they do it. To me it's just flat out stupid.
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I'm glad to see a brother who walks in integrity! There are so many men who don't! Keep your morals and standards high because God is going to honor you with a wife who has outstanding character and morals as you have!
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01-06-2008, 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted by smc112
I'm glad to see a brother who walks in integrity! There are so many men who don't! Keep your morals and standards high because God is going to honor you with a wife who has outstanding character and morals as you have!
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Thanks for that compliment.
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01-06-2008, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Phrozen1ne
Well said! It has nothing to do with whether your a man or a woman. Is all about having morals, values, and exercising self-restraint.
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Back in the day, I can NOT recall any of my Brothers even thinking about picking up another's GF; while they were still actively dating each other.
That said, however, I do recall a few "ladies" (all members of GLOs) that while not dating anyone went through several Brothers in my house and several others.
Odd thing about this was that one of them had a younger brother who went through rush and became a Brother!
And we did have two "silver tongued devils" who seemed to be in competition with each other.
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01-06-2008, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted by jon1856
Back in the day, I can NOT recall any of my Brothers even thinking about picking up another's GF; while they were still actively dating each other.
That said, however, I do recall a few "ladies" (all members of GLOs) that while not dating anyone went through several Brothers in my house and several others.
Odd thing about this was that one of them had a younger brother who went through rush and became a Brother!
And we did have two "silver tongued devils" who seemed to be in competition with each other.
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When I was in undergrad, if a woman told me that she knew any of my fraternity brothers on a personal level, I wouldn't give her the time a day. Even now I wouldn't, if a woman told me she knew a fraternity brother on a personal level, because 9 times out of 10 he slept with her.
Going through a whole house, I just can't understand. We had women that did that mess too. How can a woman sleep with that many men and then still have respect for herself after the fact, or expect other people to have respect for her?
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01-06-2008, 11:57 PM
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The title of this thread is wrong.....dating and hoes don't belong in the same sentence.
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01-07-2008, 12:00 AM
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The title of this thread is wrong.....dating and hoes don't belong in the same sentence.
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LMAO! True, but a hoe will usually lie and say she's a good woman, when she ain't nothin' but a trifling trick.
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