Confessions...

[OhioCentaur]

Call me sheltered... call me naive... call me what u like but i didnt know women did that type of thing all like that. to masterbate is what i'm referring to....

[ShamikaT]

Originally posted by OhioCentaur
Call me sheltered... call me naive... call me what u like but i didnt know women did that type of thing all like that. to masterbate is what i'm referring to....

Naw girl. It ain't like that everyday, but some days I just CAN'T resist the temptation. It's like the mo masturbation I delay, the more I will masturbate when I do give in to temptation.

[OhioCentaur]

1. I'm a male 2. Ok that i can understand... HOWEVER why do guys get such a hard time about doing that and ladies, from your confession, are just as on it?

[ShamikaT]

Originally posted by OhioCentaur
1. I'm a male 2. Ok that i can understand... HOWEVER why do guys get such a hard time about doing that and ladies, from your confession, are just as on it?

It don't bother me. Masturbation is considered as sexual immorality by most Christians, but if you have a tingle it is better to relieve it without sexin' it up. Just don't beat off in inappropiate places. Like if you were a cook, a make-up artist, or dentist...and had problems masturbating at work, that would be nasty NASTY!

[OhioCentaur]

Originally posted by ShamikaT
It don't bother me. Masturbation is considered as sexual immorality by most Christians, but if you have a tingle it is better to relieve it without sexin' it up. Just don't beat off in inappropiate places. Like if you were a cook, a make-up artist, or dentist...and had problems masturbating at work, that would be nasty NASTY!

LMAO... wow... alright i can dig that... its always intriguing to find a woman with a "comfort level" like yours...

[ladylike]

Originally posted by OhioCentaur
LMAO... wow... alright i can dig that... its always intriguing to find a woman with a "comfort level" like yours...

[slight hijack] Hi, brother. Just a quick tip---if you ever want to get an idea of the kind of person you're posting to, click on the "search" button located at the bottom of the person's post.

Message boards have internet trolls, established posters with multiple monikers and complete idiots. The "search" button may assist you in determining who is who. [/end hijack]

[ShamikaT]

Originally posted by ladylike
[slight hijack] Hi, brother. Just a quick tip---if you ever want to get an idea of the kind of person you're posting to, click on the "search" button located at the bottom of the person's post.

Message boards have internet trolls, established posters with multiple monikers and complete idiots. The "search" button may assist you in determining who is who. [/end hijack]

Whateva heffa.

Don't be beatin' around the bush. I KNOW that YOU were talkin' about ME.

Ohio, feel free to search my posts and you will find out the kind of fine, christlike, ambitious, kind, thoughtful, intelligent, snarky, witty, laid-back, wonderful, strong, petite, feminine, and HUMBLE young woman that I am.

ladylike, on the other hand...Just do a search and yo mouth would drop at some of the things she posted. Sista IS ghettooooooo! Peep her post about that time she went to Red Lobster just to eat them cheddar garlic bisuits and drink some water. Now you know that's messed up, because those things are FREE. She didn't even have the courtesy to leave a tip.

[PerfectVerse06]

Tony I don't like you. I hate to see your Montero pull up. Stay at home with your fifty million children that look exactly like you

ROTFLMBO @ Afrochic!!! This reminds me that I have to be careful when reading the boards while I'm at work!

I have come to the conclusion I am not a happy person without money. At first I thought this made me vain and shallow, but I realize now its just part of who I am.

AMEN AMEN, Wondeful! They say money can't buy happiness, but it can buy the items that make me happy! When I have a roof over my head, food in my fridge, clothes on my back, and gas in my car I'm ELATED!


Paradise, please follow your heart and listen to what God has told you to do! He wants you to be happy, your family will want you to be happy, and all your sorors and sisterfriends on GC want you to be happy as well!!


OhioCentaur

The fact that the other woman played hard to get and essentially played with your heart should tell you that she isn’t the one for you. She obviously isn’t considering your feelings by running out of your life and then coming back whenever it’s convenient for her. Stick with the woman you’re with!

I've been having the r.u.n.s since 3 am.

I "borrowed" some more money from my cash register. And, don't yall trip. It was only thirty dollas, and I will pay that mess back. I'm not above of asking for some more allowance from pops.

LAWD, I have not had sex in a year. I done regained my virginity since I became a Christian, and I'm 'bout to relose it. I am also stuggling with masturbation. All before I get out of bed in the morning. All at work (when no one's there). All in the showers. All at stoplights (when there's no cars next me). All before I go to sleep at night. Yall pray for me.

Shamika, how are you gonna say that you “borrowed” some MORE money, which means you’ve done it before, but say you’re a Christian in the next? LOL! It’s understandable to back-slide a lil cause we’re human and we make mistakes, but come on!

And I’m not even gonna comment on the masturbating part….

[Dionysus]

I'm afraid of becoming like my maternal grandmother. I share 1/4 of her genes and she was a big influence in my early childhood. But, my mom is NOTHING like her, and she shares half of her genes, lol. Maybe the same will happen to me, that I will turn out to be nothing like her.

[lil_sunshine]

Dear out-of-state extended family members that think they know me so well:

I need to confess something to you: I DON'T PLAN TO GO TO LAW SCHOOL FOR AT LEAST 5-10 YEARS FROM NOW, IF I EVEN DECIDE IN THAT TIME TO ATTEND AT ALL!!!

I have decided in the past year that I'd like to pursue a creative outlet in order to determine whether I'd be better suited in this outlet. I'm interested in becoming an entrepreneur in the following careers: Travel Agent, Interior Decorator and Bridal Consultant. I may pursue real estate as well to bring it full circle, but ultimately it's MY decision.

I understand that you may want the best for me, but in the end, as a 28 year old woman, it's MY LIFE!!! I don't feel the need to apologize to any of you for changing my mind and pursuing what may make me happy in the long run. Also, last time I checked, the only opinions that count in my book are those of my close friends, my 15 year old brother who also wants to become an entrepreneur by becoming a caterer, and my mother (bump Pops and other siblings). My mother and friends don't see anything wrong with my decision and they support me wholeheartedly. Why can't you?

GCers, I'm sorry this is soooooo long, but I had to get this heavy weight off of my shoulders b4 I exploded to these saditty family members of mine.

I feel soooooo much better now. Thanks for creating this thread, PerfectVerse06.

[teena]

Originally posted by ShamikaT
Whateva heffa.

Don't be beatin' around the bush. I KNOW that YOU were talkin' about ME.

Ohio, feel free to search my posts and you will find out the kind of fine, christlike, ambitious, kind, thoughtful, intelligent, snarky, witty, laid-back, wonderful, strong, petite, feminine, and HUMBLE young woman that I am.

ladylike, on the other hand...Just do a search and yo mouth would drop at some of the things she posted. Sista IS ghettooooooo! Peep her post about that time she went to Red Lobster just to eat them cheddar garlic bisuits and drink some water. Now you know that's messed up, because those things are FREE. She didn't even have the courtesy to leave a tip.

Shamika,

I think OhioCentaur is feeling your Christian Vibe. I know he isnt a Kappa.....but he is greek. He might be THE ONE.

Check up on it

[OhioCentaur]

Originally posted by teena
Shamika,

I think OhioCentaur is feeling your Christian Vibe. I know he isnt a Kappa.....but he is greek. He might be THE ONE.

Check up on it

Ummm.... i'm gonna take a wild guess and say teena you've been out the game a LONG time. Did i catch her vibe... yea... was i feeling it... not in the least... dont get me wrong a lady who is about hers and isnt ashamed to call it like it is has to be acknowledged however... theres something sexy about leaving things to the imagination... alittle help here and there is cool but putting it ALL out there for the world to see... ehh not my thing.

[ShamikaT]

Originally posted by OhioCentaur
Ummm.... i'm gonna take a wild guess and say teena you've been out the game a LONG time. Did i catch her vibe... yea... was i feeling it... not in the least... dont get me wrong a lady who is about hers and isnt ashamed to call it like it is has to be acknowledged however... theres something sexy about leaving things to the imagination... alittle help here and there is cool but putting it ALL out there for the world to see... ehh not my thing.

Whateva nicca.

THERE'S a WHOLE lot to be left on yo imagination about me! I just said that I struggled with masturbation and where the masturbation took place. Nuffin' else. I didn't go into detail how I masturbated, what I masturbated with, if I came or not, if I looked a porn while masturbating, if I just thought of some naked guy while masturbating, what time of the month I masturbate the most. I ain't mentioned none of that mess, cuz I do understand that that WOULD be TMI.

Nicca, don't even get me started on my past sex life. I wasn't always a virgin, ya know. You don't know how many niccas I slept with, gone down on, how many gone down on me, if we did missionary or not, if we did doggy style or not, if I were on top not, who made me come, which nicca only lasted only 36 seconds, what we did for fourplay, if we did it in my pops bedroom (or bathroom) or not, if we used condoms or not, and last but not least DO not assume that all of them were niccas! Shiiiiiiii some of the white boys and latinos had game too.

[OhioCentaur]

Originally posted by ShamikaT
Whateva nicca.

THERE'S a WHOLE lot to be left on yo imagination about me! I just said that I struggled with masturbation and where the masturbation took place. Nuffin' else. I didn't go into detail how I masturbated, what I masturbated with, if I came or not, if I looked a porn while masturbating, if I just thought of some naked guy while masturbating, what time of the month I masturbate the most. I ain't mentioned none of that mess, cuz I do understand that that WOULD be TMI.

Nicca, don't even get me started on my past sex life. I wasn't always a virgin, ya know. You don't know how many niccas I slept with, gone down on, how many gone down on me, if we did missionary or not, if we did doggy style or not, if I were on top not, who made me come, which nicca only lasted only 36 seconds, what we did for fourplay, if we did it in my pops bedroom (or bathroom) or not, if we used condoms or not, and last but not least DO not assume that all of them were niccas! Shiiiiiiii some of the white boys and latinos had game too.

You know what? if you wasnt faking your stuff i'd be almost turned on in a kinda bored since. I never claimed to know all there was to know about you, but from what i gather your posts are all in good fun. I made the mistake of taking you serious and that was the wrong approach. IF you were truly like the way you claim you'd be just like one of my homies for real. lol.... I'm sure your prolly a bad chick... cold from head to toe with everything any man would want goin on for ya HOWEVER... if i was truly interested i wouldtn want to know all of that... frankly i wouldnt care... as long as you tested clean and carried yourself in a way that was acceptable then it would be all good.

[newpsalmistgirl]

Wow... Confessions are good for the soul... But, come on now. We aren't all perfect, but (and I can only speak for myself,) when I do things that aren't in line with the beliefs I outwardly claim... I talk about it with God, and only God. But, lets say I need to get it off my chest, in say, a forum... I surely would say it, get it off my chest, and let it go...I don't defend the wrong I do...

This is not meant to be judgemental, but, you are a lady. Regardless of how uninhibited you may be, you are still a lady.

I respect your honesty, and surely don't want you to feel bad, because, after all, this thread is about confessions... But you can confess and keep your self- respect all at the same time.

PerfectVerse and others... I feel you on the money and spending thing... It sure is tough to make good, sound monetary decisions (like saving and investing) when there are so many cute shoes in the world...