So confused! Help!

[ashleighoxide]

All I did was ask some questions to help to clear up any confusion I had when I rushed. I got the answer I was looking for. It was brought to my attention that I definitely am not affiliated in any way with that organization and I corrected myself on here. Honestly, I don't understand why so many of you are being rude and petty. I didn't do anything to any of you personally or anything out of malice. I don't know what your problem is but, it isn't mine.

[carnation]

Ashleigh, you claimed you were a GPhi in your signature. That is certainly not our problem (rather, it's yours) but many of our groups have had perps on GC before, thus we stand together as Panhellenic sisters against this.

I don't know why you thought you still would have had some connection to GPB, as there's no official "ex-member category" for any NPC group.

[ashleighoxide]

I seriously don't know how else to explain that I didn't know that before now. Which is exactly the reason I posted this thread in the first place. Like, are you kidding me right now? Pan-hel's stick together or whatever. Good for you guys. I took responsibility for my error and I don't even owe that to anyone because this is just the internet. Snide remarks aren't necessary. None of this is a major issue or life event.

[carnation]

Nope, not kidding you.

[AZTheta]

You could thank FSUZeta for cleaning up your first post.

I don't see any snide remarks from anyone other than you so far. Did the best I could to clarify things. This went off the rails on your end. Truly find it difficult to believe you weren't aware (you wrote that you "didn't know before now") that you are not a Gamma Phi Beta, based on what you wrote in your first post in this thread. You acknowledged that you were "kicked out" and asked if you could rejoin.

Sigh.

[ashleighoxide]

Originally Posted by AZTheta

Not sure who that is directed to; but I am an initiated member of Kappa Alpha Theta, and I have been honest with you. Gather that you didn't like what you were told by myself and others here.

The best thing about always being honest and telling the truth is that you never have to clean up messes you made by being dishonest and untruthful.

I miss the train wrecks of the past.

True. However people make mistakes even when it isn’t intentional. The most important part of making a mistake, because sometimes they are unavoidable and we’re human, is to take responsibility, learn from it, and move on.

[carnation]

So...move on!