To make thangs betta,

[Ideal08]

. . . treat her man the way she wants to be treated.

. . . stop trying to do so much. I don't know who came up with that superwoman crap, it's a crock of ish, for real.

. . . learn to sit back and let a man be a man.

. . . stop seeking validation from outside of her SELF.

. . . look within her SELF FIRST to find the love that she seeks.

[cocowoman_65]

tell her man that he is a wonderful gift of God.
be able to say i'm sorry and really mean it!
tell her man that he's right when she's wrong.
should not withhold sex or affection just to be vindictive.
leave all past issues, in the past.
have faith in herself, her man and her God.
Love your man and your family like it is the last time you will be with them, because tomorrow is not promised.

[Professor]

practice the post listed above - lol

if you do, hit me back

[cocowoman_65]

I don't have a significant other at this time but once I find this man I do intend to practice what I preach. I have matured pertaining to relationships, and I know that if you have a good man you should praise his accomplishments, his ability to be a strong entity and a respect him as a loving and complex individual. When my Nubian King enters into my life, I will try my best to do all of the above things listed and more.

[lil_sunshine]

Women should...

1. Learn to love themselves first.
2. NEVER, and I mean NEVER, compare her current to her ex. That's a break-up waiting to happen.
3. Try to give men some space to figure out and sort out their feelings before they let you know what they're feeling and/or thinking.
4. Realize that men aren't perfect, and neither are they.
5. NEVER confuse good sex with love.
6. Remember what Ginuwine said: "IT AIN'T NONE OF YOUR FRIEND'S BUSINESS..." and don't go run to your girlfriends whenever you have a problem with your man and expect them to solve it for you. HELLO!!!
7. Remember that, "GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT!"
8. Remember that it's not the end of the world if you don't have a man.
9. Not go looking for a man if they don't have one; they usually end up with a loser they can't get rid of. Let him come to you. You'll be glad you waited.
10. Treat themselves like queens, and they'll receive kings in return.

[jihad1906]

Should raise their sons (with or without a man) to be the kind of man she would want her daughter to marry







Anybody can drops some seeds
it takes a real man to nuture the corp until maturity