"Why Did You Decide to Join ...That?"

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

It is one thing to say it on "Greek Life" it is totally another to say it on the AKA Ave., which Roz did and she got corrected. I do not care how angry one gets with us because ultimately it is one less person to think about at Christmastime, but to do it in our own house, well that is foul and we have a right to keep our "houses and streets" clean...

I just read that thread and now understand from where the "history" came.

ETA: Just read all of Roz's posts including the ones in New Sorority and even saw her pic in the Delta forum. I can honestly say that when I came into this thread I had no preconceived notions, because I had not internalized her previous posts. So I for one will say my reactions in here have been based solely on what I have read in here.

[sigmadiva]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

For me, personally, it is not what she says or not liking what she said. It is her choice for what I perceive is an attack on my soror and the fact that I made vows to my Sorority to refrain from anyone or anything attacking my members.

Roz, can be angry with me personally. That is fine with me. But, yelling at my other sorors, that I cannot allow. Moreover, I will not allow her to get away with demeaning members of other D9 affiliates. She can say all she wants to them, but she will not get away with it.

And her existence ultimately has nothing to do with me. I will always be Dr. AKA_Monet forever and a day. And, nothing will affect the membership of my organization at this point other than the world becoming a more dangerous place with a nuclear weapon...



You are right, we should be about programming and community service. And we can forgive improperly stated questions and refrain from responding to stupidity and ignorance. We on GC can let fools slide for asinine things they say... It is one thing to say it on "Greek Life" it is totally another to say it on the AKA Ave., which Roz did and she got corrected. I do not care how angry one gets with us because ultimately it is one less person to think about at Christmastime, but to do it in our own house, well that is foul and we have a right to keep our "houses and streets" clean...

She is not offensive to me either. She is a fool. She can think what she wants about me and say it to my face. Some on GC have PM'ed me and said all kinds of lunacy to me. I am cool. My actions speak louder than word. And still I strive because I am a phenomenal woman, phenomenally...

You've made excellent points! I agree with your post.

[RozRochelle]

Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest

And I'm not overlooking this because it is a big thing when people can actually look at themselves and judge their own contributions to situations...and not everyone is willing to do that. But I just really wanted to know how things got started and why (not that it's all your fault because it's not). I still don't quite understand what's happened here or why (maybe the answers can be found in other threads), but I don't think that your relationship with people here on gc is beyond repair. Maybe I'm just an optimist at heart but I figure new thread, new introduction. Atleast that's the way it should be unless there is a history of someone being a certain way or being perceived as a certain way. I still say that not everyone here speaks with one voice and there are those (like me) that will not care about what happened here in another thread. Like I said in earlier posts, we come from many different walks of life and are not carbon copies of eachother. I encourage you to move on to another thread and to continue to explore and benefit from the knowledge of others regarding "greek" life here on gc. It's really not that serious and I've found that people voice their opinions more freely on message boards simply because they can and no one will really police them. In person the situation would of course be handled much differently and with much more regard. That's why people constantly make comments like "It's just a message board" because it is and nothing that happens on a message board should be taken so seriously that you actually stop posting and communicating with others especially when you can only benefit from continuing. Although I do understand that it's only natural to feel personally attacked since words can cut rather deeply even in cyberspace. Good luck to you, continue to post where you'd like, and I'm sure you'll find that not everyone is against you.

I wasn't at home this weekend, and won't be this week so I don't know what kind of access to a computer I'll have. So, I'm just posting to tell you I will respond as soon as I get the time and opportunity. I just don't want to put up a "breezy" answer just to say I replied, but, I didn't want you to think I was ignoring you, either. To quote The Terminator, I'll be back.

[RozRochelle]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Roz--

In reference to your post #249. You do not have to give us anything, you do not have to respect us. You do not have to give us deference. But, it is YOU that wants respect for your choice in why you chose to make your organization.

And given you only have so many posts, you have no right to ask the questions you have asked of us from day one. Your attitude is what got you into trouble.

Now, you want me to stop harping on you and you want me to quit speaking to you? Then cease and desist with your funky arrogance and self-righteousness. You do not have to like me, because I really do not care about you or what happens to you. I do not need anymore friends and I am not worried what people think about my Sorority because our actions speak louder than words... I would say ~100 years...

I am telling you my qualifications because you have failed to your research on me or you are too lazy and careless: I have chaired several committees in both my undergraduate and graduate chapters. I have been a part of $100,000 fundraisers, net receipts. I have formally met the Mayor of my city and I will be sitting on my state's commission of African American Affairs. So, when you belittle me and others like me by saying we have been condecending to you, it is because of your piss poor attitude. We all see your ingrate and self-fullfilling prophetic attitude. We tire of the trolls. Shut up, read and learn!

If you continue with this course of action, you will look ignorant. Also, because you are new to GC to a new organization, you only get ONE chance to show who you are here. Any of amount of logic and reading will tell you that and that is your responsibility. I have been on GC for ~7 years. I like to think I know some things about life in general. The only regret I have for myself is why argue with someone of your "caliber" anyway?

You think you will get off or a free pass because you realized your one mistake and apologize to someone? I guess that is what they say about Hurricane Katrina mess...

Well, if you dish it out, you got to take back the onslaught. You cannot be all lovey-dovey with us and then the next psychotically PMS'ing screaming we are condescending. That is too helter-skelter for us here at GC and people start to think you require psychotropic medication. The few of us that are medically trained can evaluate you with differential diagnoses.

Scoundrels hunt for scandal; their words are a destructive blaze. A troublemaker plants seeds of strife; gossip separates the best of friends. Violent people deceive their companions, leading them down a harmful path. With narrowed eyes, they plot evil; without a word, they plan their mischief.

Anyone who loves to quarrel loves sin; anyone who speaks boastfully invites disaster.

Kind words are like honey - sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.

AKA_Monet: Peace, be still. May the Lord BLESS you and your family all the days of your lives. It is finished. Go forth from here in the peace and mercy of God.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by RozRochelle

Scoundrels hunt for scandal; their words are a destructive blaze. A troublemaker plants seeds of strife; gossip separates the best of friends. Violent people deceive their companions, leading them down a harmful path. With narrowed eyes, they plot evil; without a word, they plan their mischief.

Anyone who loves to quarrel loves sin; anyone who speaks boastfully invites disaster.

Kind words are like honey - sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.

AKA_Monet: Peace, be still. May the Lord BLESS you and your family all the days of your lives. It is finished. Go forth from here in the peace and mercy of God.

Sweetheart,

You are in serious need of psychiatric evaluation. I am not even close to joking.

Dr. AKA_Monet
Chief of GC Hospital

[RozRochelle]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Sweetheart,

You are in serious need of psychiatric evaluation. I am not even close to joking.

Dr. AKA_Monet
Chief of GC Hospital

You already told me I was nothing to you, so if I do need evaluation why do you care? Why bother to respond to someone you think is beneath you, as you have told me I am? I wouldn't, and that's real talk. Your actions don't match your words. I respond with blessings because God said that we should bless those who curse us. That is a Biblical commandment that I am being obedient to (and it has worked). What's your reason for responding as you do?

One could wonder which of us is in need of that psych eval.

But, at any rate, God will still bless you and your family just because I asked him to.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by RozRochelle

You already told me I was nothing to you, so if I do need evaluation why do you care? Why bother to respond to someone you think is beneath you, as you have told me I am? I wouldn't, and that's real talk. Your actions don't match your words. I respond with blessings because God said that we should bless those who curse us. That is a Biblical commandment that I am being obedient to (and it has worked). What's your reason for responding as you do?

One could wonder which of us is in need of that psych eval.

But, at any rate, God will still bless you and your family just because I asked him to.

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Now, you want me to stop harping on you and you want me to quit speaking to you? Then cease and desist with your funky arrogance and self-righteousness. You do not have to like me, because I really do not care about you or what happens to you.

Keep posting, I can evaluated you more effectively... Besides, your invocations toward me is false. You do not truly believe half the words that are coming out of your mouth.

I only respond because I am detecting that you might be a hazard to yourself and might harm yourself. If you feel that you might hurt yourself, you really need to speak the the GC psych evaluators: Honeychile is one person and Drolefille may be able to assist you. Is depression taking a hold on your life?

Thank you for your blessings. I can always use more.

[ladygreek]

Why is God being brought into this????!!!! This is ridiculous!

Sistergreek AKA Monet, ignore her. You know what they say about arguing with a fool.

Mods, it is interesting to me that this thread hasn't been locked.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

Why is God being brought into this????!!!! This is ridiculous!

Sistergreek AKA Monet, ignore her. You know what they say about arguing with a fool.

Mods, it is interesting to me that this thread hasn't been locked.

Awww.... And I was preparing for my case study to present! I will try very hard to heed your advice. Thanks!

Yeah, good question, why isn't this thread locked by now?

[RozRochelle]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Keep posting, I can evaluated you more effectively... Besides, your invocations toward me is false. You do not truly believe half the words that are coming out of your mouth.

I only respond because I am detecting that you might be a hazard to yourself and might harm yourself. If you feel that you might hurt yourself, you really need to speak the the GC psych evaluators: Honeychile is one person and Drolefille may be able to assist you. Is depression taking a hold on your life?

Thank you for your blessings. I can always use more.

You don't believe I mean the blessings, yet you thank me for them, anyway. Hmmm. At any rate, I do mean them and I know you are trying to provoke me, but it won't work. Your true motives are as transparent as glass, and everyone sees through you and your protestations, right down to the root and the heart of the matter.

You may think that you are evaluating me more "effectively", but the pendulum swings both ways, dear. The more you write, the more others can more thoroughly evaluate you, too. I mean, if you really are a doctor, don't you have more to do than go gunning after a stranger on a message board and absurdly calling yourself the "Chief of GC Hospital"?

And, for pity's sake, stop trying to drag other people into this.

[ladygreek]

Oh my, this has gone from ridiculous to absurd.

Mods, what the problem? YOu have locked other threads for less. Or are you enjoying this exchange for some reason I won't mention?

[RozRochelle]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

Why is God being brought into this????!!!! This is ridiculous!

Sistergreek AKA Monet, ignore her. You know what they say about arguing with a fool.

Mods, it is interesting to me that this thread hasn't been locked.

The request to lock the thread has been made. Hopefully, it's just a matter of time. To answer your question, how God got into this is that in a previous post, I said I didn't want to end on bad terms with anyone because, even though I have sometimes missed the mark, I am a Christian. I was then reminded that as a Christian, I should bless those who curse me. That is what the Bible says to do, right? So, I tried it, and I started feeling a whole lot better about this whole thing. The more I blessed, the better I felt. The more you all call me names the more I'm going to bless you and mean it, and it doesn't bother me that any of you think God shouldn't be mentioned on GC. Anywhere I go, He goes and that's as it should be for any Christian. So, again, God bless you ladygreek.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by RozRochelle

You don't believe I mean the blessings, yet you thank me for them, anyway. Hmmm. At any rate, I do mean them and I know you are trying to provoke me, but it won't work. Your true motives are as transparent as glass, and everyone sees through you and your protestations, right down to the root and the heart of the matter.

You may think that you are evaluating me more "effectively", but the pendulum swings both ways, dear. The more you write, the more others can more thoroughly evaluate you, too. I mean, if you really are a doctor, don't you have more to do than go gunning after a stranger on a message board and absurdly calling yourself the "Chief of GC Hospital"?

And, for pity's sake, stop trying to drag other people into this.

Search all you want. I am not that hard to figure out. Astute as you claim to be, you can even determine where I live and stalk me at my house.

And what is it that you see in me that is so transparent? What is that are you expecting to see in me?

And yes, I do have quite a bit of work to do, but it does not refrain me to the true calling of my career and helping those who are infirmed.

And who do you think am I trying to bring into this?

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by RozRochelle

The request to lock the thread has been made. Hopefully, it's just a matter of time. To answer your question, how God got into this is that in a previous post, I said I didn't want to end on bad terms with anyone because, even though I have sometimes missed the mark, I am a Christian. I was then reminded that as a Christian, I should bless those who curse me. That is what the Bible says to do, right? So, I tried it, and I started feeling a whole lot better about this whole thing. The more I blessed, the better I felt. The more you all call me names the more I'm going to bless you and mean it, and it doesn't bother me that any of you think God shouldn't be mentioned on GC. Anywhere I go, He goes and that's as it should be for any Christian. So, again, God bless you ladygreek.

A person can believe in God (a higher power) without being a Christian. I for one am not a Christian. But my point was why did this thread cause you to feel the need to invoke your religion? No one has cursed you.

Your supposedly requests for Blessings mean nothing to me. Why? Because I don't know you and GC is just a message board!!!!

[SAEalumnus]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

Mods, it is interesting to me that this thread hasn't been locked.

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Yeah, good question, why isn't this thread locked by now?

Originally Posted by ladygreek

Oh my, this has gone from ridiculous to absurd.

Mods, what the problem? YOu have locked other threads for less. Or are you enjoying this exchange for some reason I won't mention?

Originally Posted by RozRochelle

The request to lock the thread has been made. Hopefully, it's just a matter of time.

Mods don't always have time to read each and every thread posted in their forums. Sometimes things go unnoticed until someone reports the thread to us. But as requested, this thread is closed.