What do you feel like saying, right now?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

They BEEN divorced. That’s been a minute. He finally wised up and didn’t come back after she asked for a divorce a fourth and final time. He told me she begged him to come back like she did the previous 3 times she asked him for a divorce, but this last time he didn’t. He got the paperwork this time and gave her what she wanted. He’s like you with phone number changes Lol. After their divorce, he changed his phone number because she was still trying to contact him. When she couldn’t get him through his phone number, she started emailing him. He didn’t reply to any of her emails.

That’s unfortunate. Good for him for not going back to that mess. Very smart on his part to change his number, too. Hopefully, he can move on to a new chapter in his life, while using that experience as a learning tool.

I’ve never been able to wrap my head around that — why an ex you don’t want to be with and who doesn’t want to be with you, would feel the need to still want to stay in contact. That has never made sense to me.

[AGDee]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

I thought you said you love the other dude. In your previous posts, you seem more connected with the other dude compared to the dude you just had brunch with.

I doubt I’ll ever experience that because of how I am.

You can love more than one person. Just like you can love more than one child, more than one parent and more than one friend. A lot of people have a spouse or partner pass away and fall in love again. The original love for the first person doesn't go away. Real love doesn't go away. You learn to live without it because the relationship ends. It doesn't go away though.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by AGDee

I don’t see that happening.

Well, you know better than I do, Dee. Whatever happens though, you have to put it in your book.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

I thought you said you love the other dude. In your previous posts, you seem more connected with the other dude compared to the dude you just had brunch with.
Yeah, I started watching it. I’m on episode 2. You gotta watch it. These are recent interviews of all involved with what happened. Remember Amber Frey? They did an interview with her about her relationship with Scott Peterson. He told her he had never been married Lol.

Ohhhh, I have to watch it then! TGIF so I’ll start it tonight.

There’s a Peacock version of an interview with Scott Peterson. It’s like a recent interview? And then, apparently there’s going to be another trial for him.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

What was the Trump joke about? Lol!

Didn’t I post that already? I thought I did.

Do you remember that Trump teddy bear? He ordered it, had it delivered to his job, so I wouldn’t see the box and ask him what’s inside. Then he waited until I went to bed and put it in the bed with me. I was so mad, lol.
https://youtu.be/i9qv8RSreIM?si=4n3Qxy6SVMW10jmP

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

That’s unfortunate. Good for him for not going back to that mess. Very smart on his part to change his number, too. Hopefully, he can move on to a new chapter in his life, while using that experience as a learning tool.

I’ve never been able to wrap my head around that — why an ex you don’t want to be with and who doesn’t want to be with you, would feel the need to still want to stay in contact. That has never made sense to me.

Everybody ain’t like you, PB. Some of us stay in touch with our exes. For example: Me Lol

Originally Posted by AGDee

You can love more than one person. Just like you can love more than one child, more than one parent and more than one friend. A lot of people have a spouse or partner pass away and fall in love again. The original love for the first person doesn't go away. Real love doesn't go away. You learn to live without it because the relationship ends. It doesn't go away though.

I don’t see how that’s the same thing. These are dudes you’re interested in being with in a relationship with, based on your posts about them.

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Ohhhh, I have to watch it then! TGIF so I’ll start it tonight.

There’s a Peacock version of an interview with Scott Peterson. It’s like a recent interview? And then, apparently there’s going to be another trial for him.

I’m on episode 3. You got a lot of catching up to do, so we can discuss.

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Didn’t I post that already? I thought I did.

Do you remember that Trump teddy bear? He ordered it, had it delivered to his job, so I wouldn’t see the box and ask him what’s inside. Then he waited until I went to bed and put it in the bed with me. I was so mad, lol.
https://youtu.be/i9qv8RSreIM?si=4n3Qxy6SVMW10jmP

Lmfao!!!! I’m don’t remember you posting that. I hollered! Funny as hell! Lol.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Everybody ain’t like you, PB. Some of us stay in touch with our exes. For example: Me Lol

People usually cross something out by either using an X or drawing a line through it. Ex means X, which in my eyes means crossed out of my life. As a result…..
https://youtu.be/zJPH7tlW7-U?si=5OlJog1Oh9aUMIN3

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

I’m on episode 3. You got a lot of catching up to do, so we can discuss.

I saw that there were only three episodes, so I watched them all last night. At first, I was thinking it was a long series. I mean, that’s the way your posts about it read.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Everybody ain’t like you, PB. Some of us stay in touch with our exes. For example: Me Lol

But didn’t you and your ex have arguments about exes being in your phone? I’m with her, I would not be okay with that. Background noise it like… um.. no.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

People usually cross something out by either using an X or drawing a line through it. Ex means X, which in my eyes means crossed out of my life. As a result…..
https://youtu.be/zJPH7tlW7-U?si=5OlJog1Oh9aUMIN3

Lmao! PB is ruthless.

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

I saw that there were only three episodes, so I watched them all last night. At first, I was thinking it was a long series. I mean, that’s the way your posts about it read.

Damn! Lol You watched that with the quickness.

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

But didn’t you and your ex have arguments about exes being in your phone? I’m with her, I would not be okay with that. Background noise it like… um.. no.

That’s because you’re the jealous type, CG. My girl was too.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

That’s because you’re the jealous type, CG. My girl was too.

Ok, so let’s say you’re in a relationship with someone you really, really like. And then while you’re at home watching movies or whatever couple’s time you have together that makes you happy, and then like all of a sudden her phone rings. You ask, who was that, and then she goes, “Oh, it’s just my ex.” And like an hour or even a few days later, another call comes in for her from her ex, or from another ex, and then over time, her ex or exes just keep a callin’ and a callin’ and a callin’ and a textin’ and a callin’ and a textin’…… you wouldn’t have a problem with that?

[AGDee]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

I don’t see how that’s the same thing. These are dudes you’re interested in being with in a relationship with, based on your posts about them.

Yes, and I have loved one of them for 40 years and the other for 24. One is not available, one is. Committing to someone doesn't make feelings for other people go away- nothing makes feelings go away. You choose whether or not to act on those feelings. If I commit to one of them, I will not pursue the other. But only one of them is available right now anyway.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Ok, so let’s say you’re in a relationship with someone you really, really like. And then while you’re at home watching movies or whatever couple’s time you have together that makes you happy, and then like all of a sudden her phone rings. You ask, who was that, and then she goes, “Oh, it’s just my ex.” And like an hour or even a few days later, another call comes in for her from her ex, or from another ex, and then over time, her ex or exes just keep a callin’ and a callin’ and a callin’ and a textin’ and a callin’ and a textin’…… you wouldn’t have a problem with that?

Lmfao! CG, that’s overboard though. Why’d you post it like that? Lol! You got me on the floor over here Lmao!

Originally Posted by AGDee

Yes, and I have loved one of them for 40 years and the other for 24. One is not available, one is. Committing to someone doesn't make feelings for other people go away- nothing makes feelings go away. You choose whether or not to act on those feelings. If I commit to one of them, I will not pursue the other. But only one of them is available right now anyway.

You could be in a relationship with one dude while having feelings for another? I don’t think everybody is on the same page with you on that. You have to speak for yourself on that one, AGDee. I wouldn’t trust being with somebody, if she at the same time had feelings for another dude. Eff that.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Lmao! PB is ruthless.

No, not ruthless at all. To me, it’s not wise to stay in contact with an ex, when you are married or courting someone else. The opposite of wise or wisdom is ignorance. Few things are more frustrating than not knowing how something works. I don’t like ignorance, because at the root of ignorance is the word ignore. I also don’t like ignorance because, at its core, it means that someone “ignored” something important. You “ignored” your lady when she felt it was disrespectful to keep in contact with your exes. What was important to her, should have been important to you, and vice versa.

I personally cut my exes off completely, even when I was single, because I’ve never looked back. I move forward. To me, there’s no logic in that. Other folks may disagree, but that kind of behavior doesn’t work for me. Never has.

[AGDee]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Lmfao! CG, that’s overboard though. Why’d you post it like that? Lol! You got me on the floor over here Lmao!


You could be in a relationship with one dude while having feelings for another? I don’t think everybody is on the same page with you on that. You have to speak for yourself on that one, AGDee. I wouldn’t trust being with somebody, if she at the same time had feelings for another dude. Eff that.

So if someone's spouse dies and they meet someone new and fall in love with them, you're saying that means they don't love their first spouse anymore? If you really love someone, it doesn't just stop because they aren't part of your life anymore. Love is forever. It doesn't go away. You move on though, and fall in love with someone new.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Lmfao! CG, that’s overboard though. Why’d you post it like that? Lol! You got me on the floor over here Lmao!

Hahahahahahahahaha! Well....



That’s not overboard.

You may remember how the Beatles sang, “All you need is love.” I love the Beatles and I love that song, but I absolutely disagree with that conclusion. I need to be respected, too. Both are mandatory.

[AGDee]

Second date with TKE guy is in the planner.