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KAPPAtivating · #**136** 05-02-2006, 12:07 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Let me ask you this. Do you feel the start of this thread and the subsequent reporting of the drama at FMU was a result of adult-like behavior?

And you also didn't respond to my other observation. Don't you think that this whole thread from the start showed a disrespect for other NPHCers to non-Greeks?

This is not an attack, but a couple of serious questions. Thus no need to PM.

LG look, with all due respect, I do not feel the initial post was showing disrespect to any other org. I just think it started as an initial question to see how common this was in other places. People stated their opinions about it and Marquise gave a follow up. There is nothing more different than people posting follow ups about my org on other threads. I do not find that offensive. I just think as adults we should agree to disagree. I don't think Marquise meant any disrespect to the Ladies of Delta Sigma Theta. He said they crossed a certain number of "Beautiful Ladies". I will always respect DST (all other orgs too) because many influential women in my life are women of Delta Sigma Theta. I just think that personal attacks about web sites, grammar errors, and other things are petty.

ladygreek · #**137** 05-02-2006, 12:15 AM

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Originally posted by KAPPAtivating
LG look, with all due respect, I do not feel the initial post was showing disrespect to any other org. I just think it started as an initial question to see how common this was in other places. People stated their opinions about it and Marquise gave a follow up. There is nothing more different than people posting follow ups about my org on other threads. I do not find that offensive. I just think as adults we should agree to disagree. I don't think Marquise meant any respect to the Ladies of Delta Sigma Theta. He said they crossed a certain number of "Beautiful Ladies". I will always respect DST (all other orgs too) because many influential women in my life a women of Delta Sigma Theta. I just think that personal attacks about web sites, grammar errors, and other things are petty.

I can respect what you have said, and I apologize to Marquise for that reference. And we will agree to disagree, because I do think it turned disrespecful to my sorors and my sistergreeks, because some of us said we didn't want to hear what happened. And I (although two wrongs don't make a right) responded accordingly.

You said it is ONLY the internet, but don't forget how wide-reaching the Net is. This will show up on other MBs and list-serves and reach more folx than we can imagine. And it may even cause problems for the chapters involved with their national/regional leadership.

KAPPAtivating · #**138** 05-02-2006, 12:42 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek

You said it is ONLY the internet, but don't forget how wide-reaching the Net is. This will show up on other MBs and list-serves and reach more folx than we can imagine. And it may even cause problems for the chapters involved with their national/regional leadership.

Now there, I do agree. Again, much respect to you, the Ladies of Delta Sigma Theta, Alpha Kappa Alpha, and all other D9 Dynasties!

marquise1911 · #**139** 05-02-2006, 10:51 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
I can respect what you have said, and I apologize to Marquise for that reference. And we will agree to disagree, because I do think it turned disrespecful to my sorors and my sistergreeks, because some of us said we didn't want to hear what happened. And I (although two wrongs don't make a right) responded accordingly.

You said it is ONLY the internet, but don't forget how wide-reaching the Net is. This will show up on other MBs and list-serves and reach more folx than we can imagine. And it may even cause problems for the chapters involved with their national/regional leadership.

LG I see your point, but trust, just like someone can log on and see what drama is happening at FMU via this thread. They could have been standing in the crowd and could have seen that probate show. They could be walking around campus and see those stupid t-shirts. I share your concern for your sorors safety, but obviously they don't care as much as you do. That's the point. These tasteless t-shirts are out of hand. It's one thing to put your problems in writing, but to put it on a t-shirt for the world to see

. LG I didn't disrespect Delta Sigma Theta in any way. I didn't bash the organization as a whole. I specifically stated that it was the behavior of a few individuals. You in your quest to protect what is dear to you missed that. Don't be so quick to pull out the box cutter, it will get you into some fights you might not walk out of. I don't bash any Frats/Sororities. I respect them all. So don't accuse me of that. I just stated the facts. It might have rubbed a few peeps the wrong way, but it was the truth.

marquise1911 · #**140** 05-02-2006, 10:59 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Let me ask you this. Do you feel the start of this thread and the subsequent reporting of the drama at FMU was a result of adult-like behavior?

And you also didn't respond to my other observation. Don't you think that this whole thread from the start showed a disrespect for other NPHCers to non-Greeks?

This is not an attack, but a couple of serious questions. Thus no need to PM.

It is very much so "adult behavior", to ask two simple questions for the sake of knowledge. None of my theads begin with, "Girrrrrrrrrrrl did you hear..." I ask specific questions and request specific answers. It's when others begin to answer questions that were not asked that things get complex.

To non-greeks, this thread is simply just a q&a. I didn't insult or belittle any organization. So where would they see any disrespect?

unknown2u · #**141** 05-02-2006, 12:09 PM

^^^You did nothing wrong. From reading your post I would never think that you were being messy or childlike. I definitely don;t think you were trying to disrespect any other organizations. The non-greeks did not look at YOU badly but we did look at some other Greeks as being messy....

ladygreek

marquise1911 · #**142** 05-02-2006, 12:28 PM

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Originally posted by unknown2u
^^^You did nothing wrong. From reading your post I would never think that you were being messy or childlike. I definitely don;t think you were trying to disrespect any other organizations. The non-greeks did not look at YOU badly but we did look at some other Greeks as being messy....

ladygreek

Wow! Thanks, but I'm not sure what to think! Your name "unknown2u" doesn't leave me with much of an option. I would say that I feel you, but I can't. You might be the other personality of some GCer who's too afraid to disagree publically. That I can't respect. Thanx for stating what everyone should be able to see. My advice is get a new screen name. People will think things...

unknown2u · #**143** 05-02-2006, 02:54 PM

Unknown2u has always been a handle of mine. Its just a screen name like any other. I have not posted under any other name but this one. You can't tell who someone is by a user name anyway. If you need to know my creds PM and I wont hesitate to tell you. Besides who I am or what my name is should not matter when the truth is being spoken. I think we spend too much time worrying about WHO said it as oppose to WHAT was said. Ya feel me?

Anyway take care, keep posting. I love what you do to GC!

teena · #**144** 05-02-2006, 03:17 PM

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Originally posted by marquise1911
You might be the other personality of some GCer who's too afraid to disagree publically.

hijack

about 3 years ago, there was this message board I used to read. Each time a person posted their IP and MAC address was logged then posted. Users couldnt get an alias because all you had to do was look at the MAC address to verify the poster. I know we cant do that because people would initiate DOS attacks to peoples computers. But I wish we had something like that on GC because sometimes people get extra-shady and they need to be outed.

/hijack

unknown2u · #**145** 05-02-2006, 03:31 PM

Im confused

do you HONESTLY think I'm ducking and dodging behind my computer?? If I met any of you I would say the same things to your face. Do you actually think I am scared??

So if I tell you that my name is Kariss and I am from Houston, Texas what does that change??

If my IP address states that I log in from a University in Michigan what would that tell you?

I don't understand why you are trippin because my screen name is unknown2u. If I changed it too Jesusismyhomeboy it would not tell you anymore about me and it certaintly would not change anything I say!

Please do not discredit what I have to say because of my screenname. I tell you I have posted under unknown2u and that is the only name i post under. Again if you have a problem PM or bring it the board it does not matter.

teena · #**146** 05-02-2006, 03:39 PM

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Originally posted by unknown2u
Im confused do you HONESTLY think I'm ducking and dodging behind my computer?? If I met any of you I would say the same things to your face. Do you actually think I am scared??

So if I tell you that my name is Kariss and I am from Houston, Texas what does that change??

If my IP address states that I log in from a University in Michigan what would that tell you?

I don't understand why you are trippin because my screen name is unknown2u. If I changed it too Jesusismyhomeboy it would not tell you anymore about me and it certaintly would not change anything I say!

Please do not discredit what I have to say because of my screenname. I tell you I have posted under unknown2u and that is the only name i post under. Again if you have a problem PM or bring it the board it does not matter.

I hijacked because I wasnt talking about you at all. I saw your post for the first time yesterday. I am speaking about others. IP address information will tell you alot about a poster. Much more than you think. Dont think so? Threaten to kill someone here on the message board. See if SWAT will be sitting on your front step when you get home. I was absolutely not talking about you.

ETA. Sorry. I am being rude. What you said, for the most part, is true. my post wasnt about you.

mulattogyrl · #**147** 05-02-2006, 03:48 PM

^^Somebody done pissed you off today.

teena · #**148** 05-02-2006, 03:53 PM

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Originally posted by mulattogyrl
^^Somebody done pissed you off today.

Yes. But I'm trying to be good though.

No I wasnt.

I will do better though.

unknown2u · #**149** 05-02-2006, 04:06 PM

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Originally posted by teena
Yes. But I'm trying to be good though.

No I wasnt.

I will do better though.

Well im sorry I thought you were talking to me based on the comment that was made earlier by Marquise.

I know that you can tell a lot from an IP address, trust me I worked in OIT before. However, I will say I apologize for how I came off at you. I took a little personal. But I am not afraid or ashame to say if I am wrong about something. I hope you have a blessed day!

marquise1911 · #**150** 05-02-2006, 04:42 PM

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Originally posted by unknown2u
Well im sorry I thought you were talking to me based on the comment that was made earlier by Marquise.

I know that you can tell a lot from an IP address, trust me I worked in OIT before. However, I will say I apologize for how I came off at you. I took a little personal. But I am not afraid or ashame to say if I am wrong about something. I hope you have a blessed day!

My bad!!! You get my point??? You were bashing LG (she might have deserved it) and I couldn't tell why. I can't cosign because you could be an angry member of XYZ organization or might have been rejected by ABC organization and I would be co-signing on your twisted hate. NOT TO SAY THAT YOU ARE! But most perps and coward use names similar to yours. That's all...