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Old 06-29-2008, 05:16 PM
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^^^No. But I don't think it's all their fault. Nowadays, women are so burnt out over the "Hey shawty whatchyo name is?" that if a man walked up and said "Excuse me, Miss Lady, I just wanted to tell you that your eyes are beautiful." one might just snap and diss him like any other. That was the chief complaint from guys in college--if they tried to talk to a girl, they'd be rude like the male had just lifted their skirt or something. The female rebuttal was that it was all they knew a guy to do so they assumed the respectfulness to be a façade. Sad that that's the state of things. I would for that to happen...with a man that doesn't need a complete physical overhaul.
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Old 06-29-2008, 05:25 PM
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^^^No. But I don't think it's all their fault. Nowadays, women are so burnt out over the "Hey shawty whatchyo name is?" that if a man walked up and said "Excuse me, Miss Lady, I just wanted to tell you that your eyes are beautiful." one might just snap and diss him like any other. That was the chief complaint from guys in college--if they tried to talk to a girl, they'd be rude like the male had just lifted their skirt or something. The female rebuttal was that it was all they knew a guy to do so they assumed the respectfulness to be a façade. Sad that that's the state of things. I would for that to happen...with a man that doesn't need a complete physical overhaul.
But it is really not that difficult to get rid of the buttwipes... All you have to do is starting talking about Jesus and how He saves.... And that comment is like Raid, it removes all the roaches...

I'd test a fool and invite him to chutch, tell him he needs Jesus and I will pray for him... See if he shows up and what he shows up in... If dude runs away--then you know he is a fool.

If dude actually does show up, and helps that one old lady deacon that knows all the rules of incorporation of the chutch, but ain't nunna her chilluns show up to chutch on mother's day or Christmas, then that's a gentleman you keep...

Hayle, we got some of my elder sorority sistah on lock when we need some sizing done... And don't even begin to start me on how all my dad's fraternity brothers started evaluating my husband before we got married...

Y'all don't work with older folks and recruitment do you?
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Old 08-06-2008, 12:18 AM
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online dating?

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Online just isn't a good idea.
Not always. I'm a bridesmaid for a couple that met online. They both lived around Memphis but had never met.

That said, if anyone decides to try that route, be careful how and where you look for people online, of course. (They met on match.com.)
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Old 08-21-2008, 11:49 PM
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But it is really not that difficult to get rid of the buttwipes... All you have to do is starting talking about Jesus and how He saves.... And that comment is like Raid, it removes all the roaches...

I'd test a fool and invite him to chutch, tell him he needs Jesus and I will pray for him... See if he shows up and what he shows up in... If dude runs away--then you know he is a fool.

If dude actually does show up, and helps that one old lady deacon that knows all the rules of incorporation of the chutch, but ain't nunna her chilluns show up to chutch on mother's day or Christmas, then that's a gentleman you keep...

Hayle, we got some of my elder sorority sistah on lock when we need some sizing done... And don't even begin to start me on how all my dad's fraternity brothers started evaluating my husband before we got married...

Y'all don't work with older folks and recruitment do you?
This is a brilliant idea.
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Old 08-22-2008, 07:47 PM
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no it isn't

what if the love of your life is buddhist or ne0-pagan or something
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Old 08-22-2008, 09:58 PM
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no it isn't

what if the love of your life is buddhist or ne0-pagan or something
The point is to bring them around the old ladies so he can be under some scrutiny...

They know how to ask essential questions...
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Old 08-23-2008, 01:00 AM
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no it isn't

what if the love of your life is buddhist or ne0-pagan or something
lol lol lol
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