question for the non-virgin ladies - Page 10

justamom · #**136** 11-26-2001, 08:14 PM

I thought the wrap was used frequently in Lesbian relationships.
Since you can transmit disease through 69, I though some of the NY clubs had it around ad that's where it all took off.

As far as what's a virgin and what's not? Penetration of course.
Oral sex-no. That's purely a biological answer. If you bring morality into it, I still don't think it constitutes a loss of status.
If that were true, half the girls who rode a horse or fell off a boys bike would fail the "stain" test. In my mind, I equate love with the intention of marriage to be marriage in God's eyes-if you make your own vows before Him.

aggieAXO · #**137** 11-26-2001, 11:38 PM

I think you can also use dental dams for oral sex -I guess a dentist would know what this is.

Ok gals since we have gone this far and no shame is the game: spit or swallow-
please feel free to comment

ErikaXO · #**138** 11-26-2001, 11:40 PM

I can't believe that anyone in this day and age is confused about the definition of a virgin....guys, if your penis has been in a vagina, even for one second, you are not a virgin. Girls, if a penis (attached to a guy, the kind you buy at Ambiance don't count) is ever inserted in your nether region, you are not a virgin. Case closed.

On the subject of virgins, though, did you know that two virgins can create a pregnancy without having sex? Happened to someone we know. These kids had pledged to wait, I think they were in that "Love Waits" thing or whatever, and I guess when they were fooling around one night he blew one a little too close to her pelvic region....one of those little guys made it all the way home....the parents didn't believe the understandably bewildered kids when they said they hadn't had sex, but the girl's doctor confirmed it!!!! So watch where he spills the goods!!! Those sperm are determined little buggers....

ErikaXO · #**139** 11-27-2001, 12:08 AM

Sorry, missed the spit or swallow one.....my general rule of thumb, swallow, unless there is a hair in it or he is someone you aren't entirely sure of, in which case maybe it is better not to have his Johnson in your mouth!!!!!!!! I have no problem with swallowing but like I say, the hair issue again.....sends me running to the bathroom faster than you can say, "Gee thanks hon, that was great!"

aggieAXO · #**140** 11-27-2001, 12:35 AM

hey guys also want your opinion-does it turn you off if a girl does not swallow?

PKTSU01 · #**141** 11-27-2001, 12:39 AM

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Originally posted by aggieAXO
hey guys also want your opinion-does it turn you off if a girl does not swallow?

YUP! I do, so should she

PKTSU01 · #**142** 11-27-2001, 12:42 AM

By the way, i'm casting my vote for this as thread of the year

AlphaChiGirl · #**143** 11-27-2001, 12:42 AM

Okay, I was a dorm counselor last year, where we learned all the fun of latex!

I actually had an envelope filled with dental dams on my door, as well as 3 different types of condoms, and latex gloves (and a pouch in which to put change). We had to learn how to use (yes) each one before we put them on our doors, and we had to demonstrate (with a cucumber) how to put one on if we were going to distribute them. Dental dams are little squares of (nonlubricated, powder-free) latex, that you place on top of the area you're...servicing (we could not be heterosexist in our presentation) and dig in from there. We were also told that you could cut the tip of a condom off and cut along the side, or use saran wrap in a bind.

Spit or swallow...man...I don't know. I mean, I guess some dudes could think it rude if you spit, but some guys...spurt...a lot more than others. You could end up with QUITE a mouthful (espech if he's excited). So, I guess it depends on the instance (mood, position, etc).

Since we're defining intercourse as "tab a in slot b", what about Lesbian relationships? Are all lesbians technically "virgins"?

I forgot to mention body hair...I feel as if when you shave, you won't want to go back. Yeah, it itches the first two or three times, but eventually, it doesn't happen anymore, and you really won't want to stop.

aggieAXO · #**144** 11-27-2001, 12:52 AM

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Originally posted by PKTSU01

YUP! I do, so should she

That's cool, I don't mind swallowing but damn you guys need to give a little warning like an ohhhhh just beforehand cause I almost choked one time-

oh lord this thread is pulling things out of me that I would never discuss

alphaxidelta12 · #**145** 11-27-2001, 01:02 AM

i can't believe this thread has gotten this big. i am still kind of new to gc and i thought maybe i was pushing it by asking a question like that, but obviously it has brought out many different things that many GCers wouldn't have regularly talked about

there really is NO shame in here, but its cool...it seems like some people are really learning some stuff

PKTSU01 · #**146** 11-27-2001, 01:05 AM

Hey,
I look at it this way. If you are mature enough to strip down and get funky, there is no reason why ya shouldn't be able to talk about it just as easily. Sex is part of human nature... a VERY fun part of human nature. No shame in admitting we enjoy pleasures of the flesh, I mean I sure as F*$K will admit that I do.

dzsaigirl · #**147** 11-27-2001, 01:10 AM

Ohmygosh!!!! Yuck yuck yuck...okay, so maybe I am a huge prude, but I have never been in a situation where I needed to choose spit or swallow, but I really think that I would barf/gag, so I don't think it would be a "choice". I think that whenever that happens, I am going to be very surprised...hopefully he will give me the "heads up" for lack of a better term

alphaxidelta12 · #**148** 11-27-2001, 01:19 AM

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Originally posted by PKTSU01
Hey,
I look at it this way. If you are mature enough to strip down and get funky, there is no reason why ya shouldn't be able to talk about it just as easily. Sex is part of human nature... a VERY fun part of human nature. No shame in admitting we enjoy pleasures of the flesh, I mean I sure as F*$K will admit that I do.

i completely agree...if you're not big enough to talk about it you probably aren't big enough to do it. (no pun intended...look at the original question...lol)

SigkapAlumWSU · #**149** 11-27-2001, 01:34 AM

Ok, I've sat here reading this thread long enough, now I have to write!

To whover had the guy with the pinkie finger size: I had a guy like that once too.. I just couldn't believe my eyes, and people still don't belive me when I tell them! In that case there was no motion that was gonna do anything for me.

I agree that guys need to give more of a warning, cause some of us just don't like to choke.

I personally wish that some guys would at least try to keep themselves a little bit groomed, just for our sake.. too much hair is just, well, not good. I was actually asked if I would shave it all off once, and I never went back.

Geeze.. this is a pretty open thread.. oh, the things we know now....

KillarneyRose · #**150** 11-27-2001, 11:37 AM

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Originally posted by dzsaigirl
I have never been in a situation where I needed to choose spit or swallow, but I really think that I would barf/gag, so I don't think it would be a "choice".

Sweetie, it's no different than doing a shot of Cuervo. Just do it and don't think about it!

Ok, some of you ladies go the shaving route, some go the waxing route. I am one of the latter, but of course that gets darn expensive. Is it worth it to pay all that money to get waxed? You shavers out there, how often do you have to do it? Then there's the stubble factor I'm not too sure I'd be crazy about. Help?