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Originally posted by winneythepooh7
I've heard people say that when they are married, they throw all their bills together in one pot and combine their paychecks in the bank. Then they take out the $$$$ and pay the necessary bills first, regardless of "who" they belong to. That is fine, again, I think if you are married (or with set plans for that). I think that if a guy is willing to pay your bills like that, that he should be thinking in the long-term-settle-down-marriage-thought.
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Maybe he just feels like he needs to "take care" of someone? My advice to you is as long as he's not demanding anything in return that you don't want to give him, just ride that for as long as it goes.
And maybe he is thinking long-term, but is not yet in a position where it would be feasible for him? You don't give many specifics here..
For him, it's not the smartest thing financially, but really, that kind of decision is on him.
But the first time dude pulls something like "You're going to do this b/c I pay all of your bills", it's time to say good-bye.
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