Well my appointment went wonderfully. Our baby is very healthy and has no signs of downs or spina bifida. YAY! The sonogram was very thorough so we got a lot of great pictures, including a 3-D that looks awesome. Of course, I never get to keep those. The proud papa always steals them until I get another one.
Yes we want to know what it is. We really want our first to be a boy, but I'm perfectly happy with a Legacy of my own.

I think we only care that the baby is healthy. We have another sono every 2 weeks because we are high risk. So hopefully we will see genitalia again in the upcoming month that is very distinguishable. Otherwise in 4-6 weeks we have another major sono that should tell us.