birth control - Page 20

Xylochick216 · #1 09-25-2005, 06:15 PM

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Originally posted by LightBulb
Enough of that! No reason to say stuff like that.

When he says stuff like that there is.

copacabana · #2 09-25-2005, 07:57 PM

It seems like there's a double-standard here. So, men who have sex with lots of people are pimps and should be respected, but the women who have sex with lots of people are whores and shouldn't be? How does that make sense?

so damn cool · #3 09-25-2005, 10:26 PM

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Originally posted by copacabana
It seems like there's a double-standard here. So, men who have sex with lots of people are pimps and should be respected, but the women who have sex with lots of people are whores and shouldn't be?

Yah.

valkyrie · #4 09-25-2005, 11:20 PM

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Originally posted by copacabana
It seems like there's a double-standard here. So, men who have sex with lots of people are pimps and should be respected, but the women who have sex with lots of people are whores and shouldn't be? How does that make sense?

It doesn't, which is why women are better off to ignore the idiots who say shit like that. Men only call experienced women whores or sluts because they're insecure that an experienced woman won't be impressed by their, um, technique, etc.

Munchkin03 · #5 09-26-2005, 12:14 AM

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Originally posted by LightBulb
Enough of that! No reason to say stuff like that.

What, are you drunk too?

James · #6 09-26-2005, 02:17 AM

I disagree. I don't subscribe to the whole theory that girls can't get go out and get some but I know a lot of guys that do judge girls by the amount of their partners.

I remember a friend of mine that dated a girl for like 3 years and told me point blank that he would never marry her because she slept with him on the first date.

I know some of you ladies are going to howl that its unfair or that none of the guys YOU know believe that (men lie you know), but its actually a common thing among males. ITs not fair but its true.

My advice to women that are promiscious, if he is stupid enough to ask, and I don't ask personally (it being none of my business), lie.

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Originally posted by valkyrie
It doesn't, which is why women are better off to ignore the idiots who say shit like that. Men only call experienced women whores or sluts because they're insecure that an experienced woman won't be impressed by their, um, technique, etc.

KSigkid · #7 09-26-2005, 06:48 AM

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Originally posted by copacabana
It seems like there's a double-standard here. So, men who have sex with lots of people are pimps and should be respected, but the women who have sex with lots of people are whores and shouldn't be? How does that make sense?

Not to further the hijack of this thread, but...

Actually, in my opinion, there's not. A high number of partners seems like it's something accepted by the same sex, but rejected by the opposite sex. In other words, a guy's friends won't be upset if he's had a lot of partners, but a woman who gets involved with him would be more likely to find a problem with it. Same thing the other way around; a girl's friends will (most likely) be more accepting of how many partners she has than her next potential partner.

Also - so if a woman calls a man a man-whore or something along those lines, she's being insecure as well, right? There are plenty of times I've heard girls discourage their friends from dating guys because "he gets around" or "he's been with everybody."

I'm not judging it either way - to each their own.

kddani · #8 09-26-2005, 06:53 AM

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Originally posted by KSigkid
Same thing the other way around; a girl's friends will (most likely) be more accepting of how many partners she has than her next potential partner.

I don't think that's true at all. A girl's friends are the people whose opinion she may be concerned about the most. Most girls would not be accepting of another girl who's had a good number of sexual partners.
Contrary to popular belief, females and their friends are not all just like the Sex and the City characters

KSigkid · #9 09-26-2005, 07:19 AM

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Originally posted by kddani
I don't think that's true at all. A girl's friends are the people whose opinion she may be concerned about the most. Most girls would not be accepting of another girl who's had a good number of sexual partners.
Contrary to popular belief, females and their friends are not all just like the Sex and the City characters

Oh, I know very well that not every group of friends is like the group from "SATC." I was just saying it works both ways. Maybe saying "most" was overstating it a bit on my part.

Lindz928 · #10 09-26-2005, 09:29 AM

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Originally posted by kddani
I don't think that's true at all. A girl's friends are the people whose opinion she may be concerned about the most. Most girls would not be accepting of another girl who's had a good number of sexual partners.
Contrary to popular belief, females and their friends are not all just like the Sex and the City characters

I value the opinions of my best friends, but I also know that they don't care HOW many men I sleep with as long as I am happy and stay safe.

Plus, my best friends are both married, so they like to live vicariously through me.

valkyrie · #11 09-26-2005, 10:53 AM

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Originally posted by James
I disagree. I don't subscribe to the whole theory that girls can't get go out and get some but I know a lot of guys that do judge girls by the amount of their partners.

I remember a friend of mine that dated a girl for like 3 years and told me point blank that he would never marry her because she slept with him on the first date.

I know some of you ladies are going to howl that its unfair or that none of the guys YOU know believe that (men lie you know), but its actually a common thing among males. ITs not fair but its true.

My advice to women that are promiscious, if he is stupid enough to ask, and I don't ask personally (it being none of my business), lie.

I'm saying that these guys judge the women because the guys are insecure. I don't doubt that this kind of judgment happens ALL THE TIME.

I'll tell a guy about my past if I feel like it, and if he has less respect for me as a result, I don't want to be with him, period. I'm not going to lie about it to someone with whom I'm either in a relationship or hope to be. That's stupid.

Lindz928 · #12 09-26-2005, 11:15 AM

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Originally posted by valkyrie
I'm not going to lie about it to someone with whom I'm either in a relationship or hope to be. That's stupid.

ABSOLUTELY!!!! I don't and have never lied about how many people I've been with or things that I have done. I figure if you have reached a point where you WOULD lie about it, then you have some issues with yourself to work out. (Sorry for sounding a little bit self-help there.

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I always say don't do anything that you wouldn't admit to later. And that way of thinking has worked out very well for me. It has actually kept me from doing things on more than one occasion.

cashmoney · #13 09-26-2005, 01:28 PM

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Originally posted by valkyrie
I'm saying that these guys judge the women because the guys are insecure. I don't doubt that this kind of judgment happens ALL THE TIME.

I'll tell a guy about my past if I feel like it, and if he has less respect for me as a result, I don't want to be with him, period. I'm not going to lie about it to someone with whom I'm either in a relationship or hope to be. That's stupid.

Hoe.

BobbyTheDon · #14 09-26-2005, 01:58 PM

Hey man. Birth Control is very important to life. I want to shake the dudes hand who invented birth control. Actually, I want to give him a high 5. Ok no I want to hug him. But he slaps me on the ass and says it was a football butt slap, I am going to give him my less expensive birth control method. Oh yeah, you all know what I'M TALKIN ABOUT.

Infact, I am surprised more women don't take that approach towards birth control. Especially if they are pissed at the guy.

BURRRRRAAAAAPPPPPP

Oh, excuse me ladies. I just burped.

Dionysus · #15 09-26-2005, 09:48 PM

Bobby are you smoking weed again?

If so, give some to me!