Soul-Mates - Page 2

OneTimeSBX · #1 06-11-2007, 09:43 AM

i believe there is more than one soulmate per person. i know a man whose mother was married for 22 years to his mother, and remarried and was with the 2nd husband for 38 years. now, i know that time married does not equal soul mates, but her children (all 8 of them) truly felt as though this man embodied their father 100%, and were glad someone could fill that space in her life.

i also believe that soulmate doesnt always equal husband/wife. i feel as though some people i have met over the years will always be in my life and i immediately felt a connection when i met them. i have a coworker i have worked with for a year, and it feels like we are sisters on some higher level. we look alike, love the same things, finish each others sentences...its very weird, but i almost feel the same connection with her as i do my blood sisters...

lovehaiku84 · #2 06-11-2007, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by OneTimeSBX

i believe there is more than one soulmate per person. i know a man whose mother was married for 22 years to his mother, and remarried and was with the 2nd husband for 38 years. now, i know that time married does not equal soul mates, but her children (all 8 of them) truly felt as though this man embodied their father 100%, and were glad someone could fill that space in her life.

i also believe that soulmate doesnt always equal husband/wife. i feel as though some people i have met over the years will always be in my life and i immediately felt a connection when i met them. i have a coworker i have worked with for a year, and it feels like we are sisters on some higher level. we look alike, love the same things, finish each others sentences...its very weird, but i almost feel the same connection with her as i do my blood sisters...

I pretty much agree with you. I don't think that the soulmate has to be the person that you marry/carry on a lifelong intimate love relationship with. I feel that a soulmate can be a child/friend/relative/life partner, etc. Additionally I feel that a person can have more than one soulmate. Right now I am 23 and I am in a relationship with a man that I feel I could spend my life with. Do I feel like he's my soulmate? I don't know about that just yet, but I do believe that God brought us together and that he has a major purpose in my life.

IncontRHOllable · #3 06-12-2007, 12:58 PM

I guess I really don't believe in a soul mate as being one person that you marry because by definition a soul mate is just someone that you have a strong affinity to. As was previously stated and I agree with, a soul mate could be my best friend of whom I have known since I was in grade school. We have been through thick and thin and she will always be my best friend and soul mate.

Having a soul mate and meeting the love of your life are different concepts in my opinion.

Little32 · #4 06-13-2007, 07:23 PM

^^But it is nice if there is some overlap there too.

Her Dopenezzz · #5 11-28-2001, 03:33 PM

I believe that soulmates exist. However, I think that there is only one out there for each one of us. We may or may not meet them and if we meet them and lose them, there's no one else that can be your true soulmate. You may love someone else after that but the love will never equal what you and your soulmate had. No matter what you do and how hard you try. If you never meet your soulmate, then you never experience TRUE love. Sad, but I think True.

RHOyal-Silence · #6 11-28-2001, 10:34 PM

ms dopenezzz,
i like your view (even though it is a little sad)

sometimes i feel that i missed out on my soul mate
but who knows, i am still young

GoldenGlow2000 · #7 03-28-2006, 10:35 AM

I believe that everyone has more than one soul mate. I think there is one for every phase of your life. You learn something from the first to take to the next.

NinjaPoodle · #8 04-04-2006, 02:17 PM

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Originally posted by GoldenGlow2000
I believe that everyone has more than one soul mate. I think there is one for every phase of your life. You learn something from the first to take to the next.

I totally agree with this.

BlueReign · #9 04-13-2006, 12:49 AM

I read a lot on this subject and I read and reference Sylvia Browne. I don't think that there is such a thing as a soul-mate to complete you in this lifetime as in marriage. I believe that your soul-mate is your identical twin in spirit and not someone you would even be romantically interested in, especially since opposites usually attract.

ZetaStorm · #10 04-13-2006, 11:42 PM

Actually I think that God has a person for each one of us. My soul mate and I have been going back and forth for years now. We have both gone through different phases in our lives. (From our teens into adulthood.) Through the years somehow our paths continue to cross in the craziest places and the strangest ways. When I hear his voice on the phone I melt inside. When I receive an email from him I melt. He has always understood me. I always accepted him for who he is and vice versa. I see so much of myself in him and it has always been that way.

Now we are in different states and yet somehow I know when something isn't going right for him. I can't explain it so I stopped trying. Twice I almost got married to other people. I don't regret not marrying my fiances. It's funny how I can see now what I could not see then. It wouldn't have lasted because my heart wasn't in it.

I also see how the time wasn't quite right for me and my soul mate either. We are more mature now. We have finished our education, etc. Sometimes it takes some knocks and bruises for you to appreciate when someone really loves you.

Little32 · #11 10-16-2006, 12:29 PM

I think I have found one of mine. Before I found him, I was not sure about the concept. Now, I know that they exist, though I hope that we have more than one, because I am not sure how things are going to work out with this one.

DSTCHAOS · #12 10-16-2006, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by RHOyal-Silence

i was just listening to bilal's soul sista when i started thinking....

do you all believe that there is a person out there that is your soul mate? Yeah but that doesn't mean everyone meets their soulmate or spends their life with that person. I also believe that there are soulmateS--more than one.
do you have someone in your life that you believe that you are meant to be with even though circumstances right now have you apart from one another? No. But I used to believe that because I was living in a romanticized la-la-land in which I refused to close certain doors.

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Zita22 · #13 02-02-2007, 01:53 AM

Hey guys have any of you tried that soulmate calculator? that advertised everywhere? i think the url is http://www.soulmatecalculator.com i tried it the other day but i think it's not very accurate. I got some name like Donny. lol.

cecarter82 · #14 02-02-2007, 05:02 PM

I'm scared....it said my soulmate is named Brooke iono no dudes named brooke...

PrettyBoy · #15 02-03-2007, 02:24 AM

I'm not sure. I thought my ex was my soul mate, but I guess she wasn't. I don't even know if I know what a soul mate is anymore. I guess now for me it's like whatever happens, happens.