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Old 10-03-2006, 01:59 PM
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Overrated in that its not the be all, end all to a relationship, which is what I thought it was when I was younger, and not having it. Now that I've had it, yes, it can be great, but a good relationship is not built solely on sex. A person's best sex organ is located between their ears, IMO.


That's what I meant...
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Old 10-03-2006, 02:25 PM
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Overrated in that its not the be all, end all to a relationship, which is what I thought it was when I was younger, and not having it. Now that I've had it, yes, it can be great, but a good relationship is not built solely on sex. A person's best sex organ is located between their ears, IMO.


That's what I meant...
I do agree that you cannot base a relationship solely on sex, however, I do not believe that a man and a woman can be in an intimate relationship without ever having sex.

God created us as sexual creatures, so it is difficult for me to bleieve that a man and a woman can be in a long-term relationship, be physically and emotionally attracted to each other and never interact in a sexual manner towards each other....no kissing, touching, etc. Not saying that it can't be done, but I think it would be very difficult.
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Old 10-03-2006, 07:54 PM
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I think I'm unclear about the question. A life time without sex, probably not. But if there are mutual feelings, then probably not..
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Old 10-06-2006, 03:56 AM
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I do agree that you cannot base a relationship solely on sex, however, I do not believe that a man and a woman can be in an intimate relationship without ever having sex.

God created us as sexual creatures, so it is difficult for me to bleieve that a man and a woman can be in a long-term relationship, be physically and emotionally attracted to each other and never interact in a sexual manner towards each other....no kissing, touching, etc. Not saying that it can't be done, but I think it would be very difficult.
What about the kissing, touching ect. but still no sex?
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Old 10-06-2006, 01:46 PM
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Overrated in that its not the be all, end all to a relationship, which is what I thought it was when I was younger, and not having it. Now that I've had it, yes, it can be great, but a good relationship is not built solely on sex. A person's best sex organ is located between their ears, IMO.


That's what I meant...
I concur nikki1920... and everyone looks at me crazy when I say that, but I recognize sex for what it is: exercise, a way to relieve energy and frustation. Some people like to draw a line betwen sex & making love saying the emotions make the difference, BUT you're still going thru the same motions, whether you are in DEEP love or just having sex for sex's sake
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Old 10-06-2006, 02:22 PM
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this is madness.

i love sex
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Old 10-06-2006, 07:22 PM
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this is madness.

i love sex
nobody said they didn't love sex, I love sex... I just don't let it be reason I wake up in the morning and thank God I'm alive...
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Old 10-06-2006, 05:37 PM
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I concur nikki1920... and everyone looks at me crazy when I say that, but I recognize sex for what it is: exercise, a way to relieve energy and frustation. Some people like to draw a line betwen sex & making love saying the emotions make the difference, BUT you're still going thru the same motions, whether you are in DEEP love or just having sex for sex's sake

THANK YOU!!!

Sex IS great, don't get me wrong. The idea of sex is overrated. The ACT of sex is one of God's greatest creations. Does that make sense?

But if two people are BOTH attracted to each other, then yes, it's probably almost impossible to NOT have sex.

Who's great question was this, anyway? lol..

Sex/making love = same difference to me. I don't think there is a difference between making love and the other thing, except intensity and amount of curse words and wether or not my perm is sweated out or my hair is just messed up a bit.
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Old 10-06-2006, 07:41 PM
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THANK YOU!!!

Sex IS great, don't get me wrong. The idea of sex is overrated. The ACT of sex is one of God's greatest creations. Does that make sense?

But if two people are BOTH attracted to each other, then yes, it's probably almost impossible to NOT have sex.

Who's great question was this, anyway? lol..

Sex/making love = same difference to me. I don't think there is a difference between making love and the other thing, except intensity and amount of curse words and wether or not my perm is sweated out or my hair is just messed up a bit.
exploring a woman's body with the tools i've been given will NEVER be overrated
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Old 10-10-2006, 02:27 PM
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I hate you... lol....

tools? plural?
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Old 10-11-2006, 02:38 AM
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Old 10-06-2006, 02:24 PM
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Old 10-06-2006, 02:31 PM
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Maybe it's because I have found my soul mate and I am deeply and madly in love with my husband of 11 years. To me there is nothing better than the intimate time that we spend together. In those moments we become closer. If God did not want us to enjoy sex he wouldn't have made it so wonderful.
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