Question for the guys out there........girls chime in too

[angelic1]

Ok.. well I think there are sometimes when its great to ask out a guy and sometimes well I would rather have him pursue me like if he already knows i am interested..

twice i have asked guys out..

one was when the guy liked me but didnt think i was really interested in him and wasnt still over my last boyfriend.. then another time the guy thought i was into his friend but i found out that he liked me a whole lot.. so i just made it known by asking him out..

i am very outgoing that way though.. if i like a guy i will pursue him.. if he ends up not liking that then oh well it prob wouldnt have worked out anyways..

[Betarulz!]

Originally posted by polarpi
But does this work when you're intimidated to ask them and then you stutter and stammer your way through asking the guy out? Would he still be inclined to go on a date with someone they're not *particularly interested* in or does the girl need to be confident in herself and what she has to offer to the guy she's goes on a date with?

For me it probably would work b/c I've asked enough girls out to know how frickin' nervewracking it is.
Can't say it's always going work, but what's the worse that could happen. If you get him on a date and all else fails...put out.

[polarpi]

Originally posted by Betarulz!
If you get him on a date and all else fails...put out.

And if you're not the type to put out, don't waste your time, is that it?

Thanks for the advice Betarulz

Anyway, I think it might be a good situation, he seems like there could be some definite interest, but when we first met I was dating someone from out of town, so I mean there wasn't an opportunity. Just recently we broke up though and I figured it was time to make a move!

[Chief]

I definitely like it when girls ask me out. It takes the pressure off. If things don't go as planned, no big deal.