Cheat anyone? - Page 2

Sistermadly · #1 01-31-2007, 02:40 AM

Cheating is for immature jerks. Be up front about your non-monogamy and give people the option of putting up with it or walking away.

JonInKC · #2 01-31-2007, 10:07 AM

"...tempted by the fruit of anooother...tempted but the truth is discoooovered..."

Buttonz · #3 01-31-2007, 02:34 PM

I've had the chance to cheat but haven't....didn't see a need to and I know myself, I'd wind up confessing because I'd feel way to guilty not to...

I can't see myself ever cheating on someone that I was in love with...and if I wasn't in love with a guy, I wouldn't being in a relationship with him anyway.

PrettyBoy · #4 02-03-2007, 02:13 AM

The thing that kills me is if guys do it then we're considered players, but if women do it they're considered to be sluts. It's all the same to me.

They're were several times when I could have cheated, but I didn't. It's not worth it. I like just one woman, and that's it.

KSUViolet06 · #5 02-24-2007, 12:49 AM

I've never cheated. I've been cheated on and it's no fun. I'd never want to do that to anyone else. If I feel like it's not working out, I just break up with you.

PrettyBoy · #6 02-24-2007, 04:23 AM

That's why I won't get involved in a relationship anymore, because this cheating stuff is just too much of the in thing to do.

afboiler · #7 02-24-2007, 11:41 PM

I have been dating a guy that told me his marriage was over and I thought he was telling me the truth even though he was not divorced yet....and then what do I get for valentines day...a call from his Wife and a text message saying that I need to stop mesing around with a married man.....

I know I should drop him right away but he has my heart....how do I let him go?

GeekyPenguin · #8 02-24-2007, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by afboiler

I have been dating a guy that told me his marriage was over and I thought he was telling me the truth even though he was not divorced yet....and then what do I get for valentines day...a call from his Wife and a text message saying that I need to stop mesing around with a married man.....

I know I should drop him right away but he has my heart....how do I let him go?

Tell him to come see you when he has finalized divorce papers. You deserve someone who doesn't start their relationship with you on a lie.

James · #9 02-25-2007, 02:03 AM

Are you sure his wife isn't just causing problems for you?

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Originally Posted by afboiler

I have been dating a guy that told me his marriage was over and I thought he was telling me the truth even though he was not divorced yet....and then what do I get for valentines day...a call from his Wife and a text message saying that I need to stop mesing around with a married man.....

I know I should drop him right away but he has my heart....how do I let him go?

James · #10 12-07-2003, 01:38 PM

Once a cheater always a cheater probably is true.

It means you are a situational cheater. You won't cheat unless . . . you get bored or things go wrong or its a similar situation that inspired you to cheat before especially if you didn't get caught.

AlphaPhiBubbles · #11 12-08-2003, 10:11 PM

alright well I guess I am just a horrible person or whatever...but i have cheated on all of my serious boyfriends. In my defense it was always after they had done some really messed up stuff to me, and I didn't have the courage to break it off. It just got to the point where I didn't care about the person anymore. But I must say I fear that my fate will be "always a cheater" and this fact ruins me for future potential relationships...but I am at the very least honest about this bad habit. I lay it out for guys and if they want to take that chance then they are worth it but otherwise...eh.

I always felt pretty bad about it (did it 4 times) but...then we'd immediatley break up. I think only 2 of the 4 guys know.

James · #12 12-08-2003, 10:12 PM

And this is why I don't like committed relationships lol

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Originally posted by AlphaPhiBubbles
alright well I guess I am just a horrible person or whatever...but i have cheated on all of my serious boyfriends. In my defense it was always after they had done some really messed up stuff to me, and I didn't have the courage to break it off. It just got to the point where I didn't care about the person anymore. But I must say I fear that my fate will be "always a cheater" and this fact ruins me for future potential relationships...but I am at the very least honest about this bad habit. I lay it out for guys and if they want to take that chance then they are worth it but otherwise...eh.

I always felt pretty bad about it (did it 4 times) but...then we'd immediatley break up. I think only 2 of the 4 guys know.

PhiPsiRuss · #13 12-08-2003, 10:54 PM

Never have, never will.

Jill1228 · #14 12-09-2003, 05:50 AM

Nope, never cheated...had the opportunity to but never did. It broke my heart when my ex cheated and didn't have the balls to tell me!

My husband's ex wife cheated on him for years before he dumped his azz!

So we are SO not into cheating

James · #15 08-01-2005, 11:05 PM

bump