If you were a nobody beforehand, sorry to say it, even after you cross and sport your letters you will STILL be a nobody.
Living Legend,
You hit it right on the nose. What many people fail to realize is that the organization does not make you, (well you can be made, but that's another story), rather it is the members of the organization that make the org. what it is.
I have seen many a brother think, "ok now that I am a X Y or Z, all the girls are going to want to step to me." Wrong. I have seen many a corny brother turned down, and embarrased.
When approaching a BGLO, think about what you can bring to that org. If you aren't bringing s%^&, then they probably won't accept you, and kissing azz really never gets you anywhere. I actually have very little respect for someone who kisses azz, and I wouldn't want to call them brother. Now I am not saying that anyone on here is an azz kisser, so no hate male please.
Peace and luv
MN
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